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  • jaxdiablo
    jaxdiablo Posts: 580
    Dont talk about your STDs, it might put him off :laugh: (well, apart from Jax!!)

    Sorry Jax, couldn't resist!! :laugh: :wink:
    Hey, I don't have any! Oh, you meant the crazies... nevermind, carry on.
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    Last night I had a 1st date. We smooched it up and it was yummy!!!!! 2nd date already booked. Also, if the guy didn't even try to kiss me, would probably make me feel he wasn't attracted to me.
    I agree with you on this. I'd need a super long hug or a kiss on the cheek at the end of the date else I'd assume he wasn't attracted either. I'm glad I'm not the only one that thinks this way.

    I'm kind of like this too..I need to know what the kissing chemistry is like and if he's interested..I love a good mini make out session at the end to see if there is something there. If there is not chemistry whats the point?

    Yes, when there is definite chemistry, the kiss rocks! However, it's never fun when the two people involved are not on the same page. Curious how others handle this when you know there is no spark but you think the other person feels one?

    I just say something like "well, nice meeting you, good luck in your search" but I've never found a guy that would go in for a kiss when I'm giving off a vibe that I dont want him to. I think men pick up on that negative vibe?
  • calvert6183
    calvert6183 Posts: 539 Member
    Honestly, its simple, just dont over think things. If two people end up together, they end up together. Ive seen so many screw thigns up with someone great cause they just couldnt relax and enjoy being with someone so they stressed and over think everything to the point where they push the other away. People are so worried about the next level that they dont even enjoy the level they are on. Calm, cool, patient, and confident is the way.
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    Last night I had a 1st date. We smooched it up and it was yummy!!!!! 2nd date already booked. Also, if the guy didn't even try to kiss me, would probably make me feel he wasn't attracted to me.
    I agree with you on this. I'd need a super long hug or a kiss on the cheek at the end of the date else I'd assume he wasn't attracted either. I'm glad I'm not the only one that thinks this way.

    I'm kind of like this too..I need to know what the kissing chemistry is like and if he's interested..I love a good mini make out session at the end to see if there is something there. If there is not chemistry whats the point?

    Yes, when there is definite chemistry, the kiss rocks! However, it's never fun when the two people involved are not on the same page. Curious how others handle this when you know there is no spark but you think the other person feels one?

    I just say something like "well, nice meeting you, good luck in your search" but I've never found a guy that would go in for a kiss when I'm giving off a vibe that I dont want him to. I think men pick up on that negative vibe?

    I don't think they all pick up the negative vibe though... and that's awkward!
  • almostatgoalweight
    almostatgoalweight Posts: 234 Member
    Obey the two contacts and wait rule. So if you send a text/leave a message and don't get a response, you're allowed to send/phone once more then that's it. Don't want to look too needy.
  • saralynn594
    saralynn594 Posts: 321
    First I need someone to ask me out! Then..I'll just be myself..for better or for worse ;);) Oh I do have self control problem though..damn
  • HellsKells
    HellsKells Posts: 671 Member
    Honestly, its simple, just dont over think things. If two people end up together, they end up together. Ive seen so many screw thigns up with someone great cause they just couldnt relax and enjoy being with someone so they stressed and over think everything to the point where they push the other away. People are so worried about the next level that they dont even enjoy the level they are on. Calm, cool, patient, and confident is the way.

    This is great advice. I've done my fair share of over thinking, and it's gotten me nowhere.
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    Obey the two contacts and wait rule. So if you send a text/leave a message and don't get a response, you're allowed to send/phone once more then that's it. Don't want to look too needy.

    This is one of my best pieces of advice too.

    My piece of advice is to make sure to apply extra deodorant! On my first date I was a sweaty mess.
  • nolachick
    nolachick Posts: 3,278 Member
    LOL this is turning into a fun thread!
    Another Patti-ism is "No sex before monogomy". What do you guys think of that?

    I agree with and always follow this....sigh. unfortunately men don't appreciate this.
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