Overthinking over analyzing stressing too much!!
jameehardey
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So I'm 20 and I've been seeing this guy for almost 2 months but he works away so it's probably been shorter than that but we do talk everyday.. (he is the first guy I've ever gone out with) and I don't know what it Is but I over analyze and think about everything! I've always had this wierd mind set that I'm the one who has to be fully attracted to the guy and I have to chase him but this guy caught me off guard and I let him take me out and now we are spending alot of time together but I don't know where it's leading or what I want... I keep thinking " what is this meant to feel like" but I know that's stupid.. Am I being a tosser?!
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Yes.
Quit. Thinking.
If you have concerns about your or his intentions... TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT.
Be like... "We have been ____ for a few months now, I just wanna say ____."0 -
I have found worrying about things which I have no control over is one or the most useless wastes of time a person can indulge in.0
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relax! it's supposed to be fun, and by stressing over it and over analyzing, you're taking the fun out of it for yourself!
i know it's easier said than done, but don't think about where it's going, or what it means. just take it as it comes and try to make it fun.0 -
relax! it's supposed to be fun, and by stressing over it and over analyzing, you're taking the fun out of it for yourself!
i know it's easier said than done, but don't think about where it's going, or what it means. just take it as it comes and try to make it fun.
This ^^
Just go with the flow of things! That's what I'm doing and it's actually seem to be working so far.0 -
Yeah, that and learn how to use a period, because that might have been the longest sentence ever. :flowerforyou:0
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Yeah, that and learn how to use a period, because that might have been the longest sentence ever. :flowerforyou:
Hey now, I saw where she used 3 IN A ROW! :laugh:
Just messing with ya OP! :bigsmile:0
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