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Overthinking over analyzing stressing too much!!

jameehardey
jameehardey Posts: 32
edited December 2024 in Social Groups
So I'm 20 and I've been seeing this guy for almost 2 months but he works away so it's probably been shorter than that but we do talk everyday.. (he is the first guy I've ever gone out with) and I don't know what it Is but I over analyze and think about everything! I've always had this wierd mind set that I'm the one who has to be fully attracted to the guy and I have to chase him but this guy caught me off guard and I let him take me out and now we are spending alot of time together but I don't know where it's leading or what I want... I keep thinking " what is this meant to feel like" but I know that's stupid.. Am I being a tosser?!

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  • The_Iron
    The_Iron Posts: 288
    Yes.

    Quit. Thinking.

    If you have concerns about your or his intentions... TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT.

    Be like... "We have been ____ for a few months now, I just wanna say ____."
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    I have found worrying about things which I have no control over is one or the most useless wastes of time a person can indulge in.
  • shammxo
    shammxo Posts: 1,432 Member
    relax! it's supposed to be fun, and by stressing over it and over analyzing, you're taking the fun out of it for yourself!

    i know it's easier said than done, but don't think about where it's going, or what it means. just take it as it comes and try to make it fun.
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
    relax! it's supposed to be fun, and by stressing over it and over analyzing, you're taking the fun out of it for yourself!

    i know it's easier said than done, but don't think about where it's going, or what it means. just take it as it comes and try to make it fun.

    This ^^

    Just go with the flow of things! That's what I'm doing and it's actually seem to be working so far.
  • Roadie2000
    Roadie2000 Posts: 1,801 Member
    Yeah, that and learn how to use a period, because that might have been the longest sentence ever. :flowerforyou:
  • The_Iron
    The_Iron Posts: 288
    Yeah, that and learn how to use a period, because that might have been the longest sentence ever. :flowerforyou:

    Hey now, I saw where she used 3 IN A ROW! :laugh:

    Just messing with ya OP! :bigsmile:
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