Online dating... When they're online frequently
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DM, not my type in that he's just not someone I see myself with. I had a feeling before meeting him that it'd happen but he insisted in seeing each other to see what'd happen in person. He calls, texts, really seemed interested but he was a bit out there. He talks a lot and some of his conversations were strange.
What I meant by him moving in and I'd get further is he would try to sit close to me, too close for my comfort, so I'd scoot over a little. Or he'd try to walk really close to me one time (touching me) so I scooted over. He did it several times. Ah well.0 -
Well well well.... thought Hulky went poof on me since I hadn't heard from him yesterday (when he came back) but he called, we caught up, and we have a date tonight. We might go dancing! Yay!!
I might even see him at the gym tonight. I'll be doing zumba and maybe kickboxing after that... he'll be doing the yoga class right after that so he said we might run into each other because he wants to see my braids and tube socks. (I wear that to the gym every single time)
Hulk hulk hulk.0 -
Well well well.... thought Hulky went poof on me since I hadn't heard from him yesterday (when he came back) but he called, we caught up, and we have a date tonight. We might go dancing! Yay!!
I might even see him at the gym tonight. I'll be doing zumba and maybe kickboxing after that... he'll be doing the yoga class right after that so he said we might run into each other because he wants to see my braids and tube socks. (I wear that to the gym every single time)
Hulk hulk hulk.
ooh dancing! and maybe later Hulk SMASH?! :laugh: dont mind me, comic book nerd coming out.0 -
No smash but OMG... Hulk can kiss, amongst other things. :noway:
We had a great time. We went to the Sherlocks here for drinks. We met up late since he did yoga. We talked a lot, danced, kissed, etc. He told me he likes me. He said he'd want to date me exclusively. He said I'm attractive, fun, always happy, sexy, active and that he'd want me to be his gf. I told him it was too soon but I'd definitely want to keep seeing him.
I brought up the little communication on his part up and he said that he doesnt want to overwhelm me or smother me. (hmmm) I let him know that I like when a man shows interest. He mentioned how some people dont like to be bothered and I reassured him I'd like more communication from him. Anywho, we will see. I'm seeing him Friday again.
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No smash but OMG... Hulk can kiss, amongst other things. :noway:
We had a great time. We went to the Sherlocks here for drinks. We met up late since he did yoga. We talked a lot, danced, kissed, etc. He told me he likes me. He said he'd want to date me exclusively. He said I'm attractive, fun, always happy, sexy, active and that he'd want me to be his gf. I told him it was too soon but I'd definitely want to keep seeing him.
I brought up the little communication on his part up and he said that he doesnt want to overwhelm me or smother me. (hmmm) I let him know that I like when a man shows interest. He mentioned how some people dont like to be bothered and I reassured him I'd like more communication from him. Anywho, we will see. I'm seeing him Friday again.
Tread lightly my friend.0 -
Do you think he's bull****ting me?!? I can't tell!!!0
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Do you think he's bull****ting me?!? I can't tell!!!
I don't know, but he threw a lot at you and if you don't show some composure this has the makings of another fast moving relationship... so tread lightly!!0 -
I don't think he meant today. But even if he did, I'm not ready for that. I'm taking my time. I don't know him and that is enough to keep me from rushing. Im telling you, smiley did a number on me and I want to be wiser.
We talked a lot about what we want, looking for, etc. We seem to be on same page. But if he doesn't pursue me more now that I've let him know, then I'm bowing out.0 -
I don't think he meant today. But even if he did, I'm not ready for that. I'm taking my time. I don't know him and that is enough to keep me from rushing. Im telling you, smiley did a number on me and I want to be wiser.
We talked a lot about what we want, looking for, etc. We seem to be on same page. But if he doesn't pursue me more now that I've let him know, then I'm bowing out.
I feel like with this guy and smiley you talked more in the early dates of what you want rather than getting to actually know them and them getting to know you... obviously we all have our own dating styles, but maybe switch the focus from what you hope to get, to getting to know the person... just my 2 cents.0 -
Well he asked me last night if I was looking for a relationship right now. It's the 1st time we've talked about stuff like that. Ex bf talked about kids, marriage, living together right away. I think Hulk and I have spent enough time together to at least talk about what we want right now (not future like marriage). We've gone on 4 dates now so I think it's a good pace. But yes, you're right.. I definitely want to know him more as a person, if we are compatible, etc. I will continue to focus on that!
It's definitely not as stressful this way, who would had thunk it? I'm actually having fun.
He called today just to say Hi. 0 -
people think Im online all the time, but its only because I have the phone app and its logged in. Its not open, just logged in. Im not online all the time. Long time ago when I was using those sites, Id meet a cool guy and the next day he'd be all- btch why you stay on that site all night long, you slut, youre talking to every effing man on there arent you... and Im like O_O wut0
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Yoovie, you made me laugh!0
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people think Im online all the time, but its only because I have the phone app and its logged in. Its not open, just logged in. Im not online all the time. Long time ago when I was using those sites, Id meet a cool guy and the next day he'd be all- btch why you stay on that site all night long, you slut, youre talking to every effing man on there arent you... and Im like O_O wut
"Oh, I'm sorry for the mistake! I was logged in but I had left my computer. What I was really doing was going to a bar and having sex with every man THERE instead of shopping on the internet. That's next weekend.
How was your night?"0 -
Well he asked me last night if I was looking for a relationship right now. It's the 1st time we've talked about stuff like that. Ex bf talked about kids, marriage, living together right away. I think Hulk and I have spent enough time together to at least talk about what we want right now (not future like marriage). We've gone on 4 dates now so I think it's a good pace. But yes, you're right.. I definitely want to know him more as a person, if we are compatible, etc. I will continue to focus on that! It's definitely not as stressful this way, who would had thunk it? I'm actually having fun.
He called today just to say Hi.
Just remember one thing...even though his size makes you feel all gaga over him,that has absolutely nothing to do with whether he is a decent and good for you person.
Do not let somewhat silly emotions cloud your overall judgment of things.0 -
Of course not Carl!! I appreciate you looking out for me.
We had a wonderful date last night. We talked a lot and we decided to focus on each other (more me since I am dating several guys) and really get to know one another for now. We both like each other but don't want to rush anything. So we just want to explore this. I'm glad we are doing it this way.
He has certainly started to communicate more since I mentione it.0 -
Love the new pic Amazona!!!!0
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Thank you!0
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