Facial Hair
ashbee03
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I have it, if I let it grow in it would be a full chin strap.
All I can do is shave, plase shine some hope into my tunnel !
When I lose over 100 pounds, will this fix itself eventually ?!
It is so embarrassing.
It has gotten worse as I have gotten bigger.
AND I have alienated myself from sleepovers, camping, anything to do with OVERNIGHT stuff as I get stubble the next morning.
All I can do is shave, plase shine some hope into my tunnel !
When I lose over 100 pounds, will this fix itself eventually ?!
It is so embarrassing.
It has gotten worse as I have gotten bigger.
AND I have alienated myself from sleepovers, camping, anything to do with OVERNIGHT stuff as I get stubble the next morning.
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Mine never reduced if my weight went down. I can highly recommend Laser hair removal. Best thing I ever did!!!! xx0
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That really sucks, I’m sorry you have to deal with that. I have noticed excess facial hair as I’ve gotten older (and fatter), but not to the extent you describe. I know that the excess facial hair is likely caused (in part on in whole) by being overweight, the excess fat causes hormonal imbalances and I’ve heard it often goes away when the weight is lost.
Have you tried waxing? You’ll have to let it grow out a bit before it is waxed (maybe a weekend of staying in and watching movies?), but it will appear finer when it grows back and should last a bit longer too. A new hair will have a tapered end, while a shaved hair will have a blunt end (if that makes sense.)
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Mine never reduced if my weight went down. I can highly recommend Laser hair removal. Best thing I ever did!!!! xx
yeah i might consider this once i lose weight and realize it hasn't gone away.
but i have over 100 pounds to lose to be at a healthy weight.
so maybe there will be a difference since the loss is drastic.
only time will tell.
but it's just hiding the symptoms while losing is what's bothering me. and my doc refuses to put me on hormone therapy. because that just covers up the problem.
she doesn't wanna stuff my body with new hormones just to even it out.0 -
I only have a few hairs and I may be imagining things, but I think it's growing in much slower since I went on Metformin. I think it's also helped with the hair loss on my head. Sigh... all this hair where I don't want it, and my hair on my head falling out...0
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Miranda_mom I know exactly what you mean.
Once upon a time I had long thick hair, now my hair is really really thin (you can see my scalp) and barely grows an inch in 4 months and I get a lot of hair on my chest which is soooo embarassing.
I get a couple of longer strands of hair on my chin and neck which I just pluck out.
I hope everything works out for you Ashbee - you are definately not alone. Find what works best for you
Cheers
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I was just talking to my doctor baout my facial hair last week. I get it bad too. She prescribed me a cream (don't remember the name) to try (which I still don't freaking have because either CVS doesn't know what they're doing, or the doctor's office hasn't sent it!! lol) So hopefully it will at least help!0
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I only have a few hairs and I may be imagining things, but I think it's growing in much slower since I went on Metformin. I think it's also helped with the hair loss on my head. Sigh... all this hair where I don't want it, and my hair on my head falling out...
You can help rebalance your endocrine system with the right dosage and blend of vitamins, minerals plus an enzyme. Switch to all natural shampoo , conditione and soap like miessence or everscents or whatever is the equivalent in your country. Shampoos and conditioners are full of toxins, carcinogens, hormone disrupters, harsh detergents, plastics to coat the hair so it doesn't feel like you just used harsh detergent, and oil which is a cheap filler but blocks the hair follicle. And that's just the good stuff. I have very long hair. Individually google each ingredient in your shampoo. You will be horrified. Xx0 -
The cream you're probably talking about is Vaniqa.
Laser hair removal is the best option and generally the most cost-effective. Based on the laws in your state, you might need to travel a bit to get it done at a good price. In Arizona, it can be performed by people who just get certified in Lasering so it's very inexpensive. Some states require a nurse or a doctor to do it and that makes the price go sky high. I just bought a Groupon deal here for unlimited lasering for a year for $999. Considering all I need lasered I'm going to save a small fortune and get a LOT of work done.
I have hair problems everywhere (everywhere!) thanks to the evil PCOS beast. I have been lasering my face for about 8 years, my arms and underarms for almost that long. I'm sure I wouldn't have to still be going back but with my hormones out of whack, new growth is just going to keep coming in. But the lasering makes it VERY manageable. I used to have full-on sideburns, upper lip, chin, etc... even after shaving you could see the dark areas of the hair beneath the skin. Lasering made it so I don't have the dark shadow at all. Sometimes when it's almost time to go in again (4 or 5 weeks after last laser) I will have a few darker patches that only I can see, which I shave off.
My arms and underarms don't need maintenance at all. I just shave the few little hairs away right before my appointment. Sometimes, I have a bad growth cycle where I get some darker visible hairs but since I've been sticking to my diet and exercise, it's improved a GREAT DEAL. Which is a great incentive to stay on the plan!
I do not recommend bleaching your face. It just makes the hair glow in the sun. Depending on your skin tone, bleaching is a good short-term solution for your arms (if you have dark hair there like I did) for special occasions like weddings, job interviews, etc. It lasts a few weeks before the new growth makes the darkness show up again.
I also bought a deal for electrolysis but I haven't gone in for it yet so I have no advice in that area yet. I'm planning on getting my eyebrows done and maybe some of the blonde hairs around my lips that lasering can't touch. The deal I bought is for 60 minutes but I don't know how much can be done in that length of time. Lasering eyebrows is kind of a pain because you can't get very accurate, which is why I'm going for electrolysis in that area.
I'm already on your friends list so please private message me if you have any questions. I've been dealing with hair growth issues for about 10 years now and I've tried almost everything you can think of and I'll be glad to answer any other questions you have.0 -
I also have some extreme hair problems. I mean if I let my facial hair grow, I could be the bearded lady at a carnival. Full sideburns and everything.
I used Surgi Cream ( I think it how it is spelled) or a couple of years but it eventually stopped working. After that I resorted to waxing, which worked for a few years and then it started ripping off my skin. I still don't know why it does that, but I can't get my chin, upper lip or sideburns waxed anymore.
I cannot afford laser treatments, so shaving is my only option.
I've also pretty much stopped going out to overnight things with friends, unless I know that I will be able to take a shower the next morning so that I can shave, ha.
As for the dark spots, mine are pretty much only visible to me and that is because I know that they are there. Wearing foundation helps some, but I don't like to wear it because it causes me to breakout. lol.0 -
I only have a few hairs and I may be imagining things, but I think it's growing in much slower since I went on Metformin. I think it's also helped with the hair loss on my head. Sigh... all this hair where I don't want it, and my hair on my head falling out...
I think my body has gotten use to my metformin. I've been on it since I was 12, so for 13 years now. It doesn't slow any hair growth, except the hair on my head. So I've stopped taking it. As for pure shampoos. I like Garnier Fructis Pure and Clean. I have a sensitive scalp and this stuff is awesome and gentle.0 -
i dont have any facial hair but I do have alot of hair on my belly and big toes =s! I hate it because I dislike my fiance seeing it.. on my belly you cant miss it ! on my toes no one really looks there but I would never wear sandals or strappy shoes due to it !0
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I have them just as thick and dark as ever and I'm down a lot, not 100 yet but I'm not seeing any difference. I pluck, I dry shave and I have to do it daily.0
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I think we are all in agreement when I say "Darn you, PCOS, darn you...."0
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I'm in the UK, and my GP prescribed a cream called Vaniqa for the facial hair. It helped me a lot, although I still have hair on my jaw it's a lot finer and less noticeable than the thick black hairs I used to get!
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I've done:
electrolysis (4 years)
laser hair removal (2 intervals)
and finally had to take a break...my hair on my face still keeps growing in
but it is more manageable. It get stubble however I pluck and shave. I pluck at night
and the morning if possible.
I then shave in the shower.
I also sometimes use that hair removal for your face (leaving it on a little less then 5 min cause it can burn you).
My hair on my head has thinned but I manage. I use Nioxin scalp treatment for helping one spot and I think it helped. To be fair, I think
my leaving hair dye too long too many times to get my grey roots made some hair fall out (on my right side near my face).0 -
I was prescribed Spironolactone, which is generic for Aldactone. It has really slowed the growth. It won't take the unwanted hair away, but it will prevent more from coming in. Just thought I'd throw it out there.0
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I am on Spironalactone as well. I have hair growth really bad, feet to head and back to feet. It has been really hard to deal with it, but once I started taking the Spironalactone I have noticed a big difference. I went from having to shave my legs every day to maybe every 2 days. Also I shave my face everyday. The Spironalactone also is a slight diuretic too. :happy:0
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I was prescribed Spironolactone, which is generic for Aldactone. It has really slowed the growth. It won't take the unwanted hair away, but it will prevent more from coming in. Just thought I'd throw it out there.
Same here. Doesn't solve the problem but slows it. My doctor has assure me alot of these hormonal problems will resolve when I get to my ideal body weight.
In the meantime, I spend far too much on razors a month. Sensitive skin with these issues sucks!0 -
I too was prescribed Spironalactone. My doctor said the facial hair should go away over time but it would be a LONG time. He recommended laser removal.
I can't wait to get rid of the hair as my niece is starting to comment on it.
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I can't comment on weight loss affecting this condition, though it seems it would since losing weight would affect your hormones (which causes this condition). Ultimately you'll have to discuss this with your gyno as to what you can expect. That said, I have some short term solutions that are personal lifesavers for me:
Sally Hansen hair remover cream for the face & Moom organic sugar waxing has been great for excess hair removal. Also as mentioned if you have the money laser may be an option, but waxing & depilatory creams work best for me and they are cheaper.
Also I would look into Chasteberry/Vitex supplements, not sure if it affects this condition or not, but it did help me with non-stop periods I experienced with PCOS (again going back to hormones being affected may reduce the problem).0 -
Finding out I had chin hair was a bit traumatizing. I was 15 and with my boyfriend's family spending a beautiful day at the lake. He leans over, grabs my face, tells me to "hold still" and with his fingers he yanks out a big, long, black hair out of my chin area. Trauma. I tried laser, but the hair came back. It came back thinner so it was easier to manage.
It's something I have come to accept about my body and it doesn't bother me like it used to. My husband knew about my excess hair issues early on in our relationship, and he loved me enough to accept it as well.
Heads up, shaving is the absoloute worst thing you can do for your facial hair. Other methods such as tweezing and waxing are much much better. Don't be surprised if the first few times you wax it hurts a lot. It gets better. Shaving just makes the hair thicker and the root stronger. I wax about once every two weeks. In between waxes, if the hair looks a little dark, i just bleach it to make it let obvious between waxes. You can go to a salon, or do it youself. I do it myself and I use hard wax, like MicroTweeze or SurgiWax.0 -
Do you use any acne treatments like Accutane or Retin A? Also, before waxing, do you apply baby powder to keep a barrier between the wax and your skin? Acne treatments can make skin very sensitive and delicate. The powder helps the wax grip to the hair better, while keeping a barrier between you and the wax.0
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Do you use any acne treatments like Accutane or Retin A? Also, before waxing, do you apply baby powder to keep a barrier between the wax and your skin? Acne treatments can make skin very sensitive and delicate. The powder helps the wax grip to the hair better, while keeping a barrier between you and the wax.
Thanks so much for this I didn't now baby powder would help! I don't have a big acne problem any longer thank God but I do get the occasional pimple. I do have extremely sensitive skin though and used wax one time before and it burned so bad I decided not to do it again. It burned not because the wax was too hot just because it was taking off more than hair!0 -
Try it again! Seriously! Also, let the wax cool before you use it. Stir the pot of wax around a bit so that you dont have extra hot spots of wax. The outside tends to cool first and the inside of the wax tends to head up the most/fastest when you zap it in the micro.
I've made the mistake of using wax that's too hot, and it ripped my skin off. Ouch. But at least no hair grows there anymore so it wasn't all for nothing lol. Now I have a patch in the middle of my chin that's bald haha. When wax is too hot it technically "cooks" the outer layer of skin, making it easier to come off. I usually know when my wax is ready to use when it's not too runny. Apply it in the direction of the hair growth and then remove it the direction going against the growth. Since you've been shaving, you should def use the hard wax. It grips so much better. With the hard wax you just have to let it cool on your skin for a minute or so until you can pull on an edge without it coming off like Laffy Taffy.
Feel free to message me if you have questions. I've been waxing myself for 13 years (i've waxed my *kitten*, face, tummy, thighs, because i'm a hairy beast haha) 0 -
It is actually a myth that shaving hair makes it darker and thicker. My doctor told me that you can get rid of it anyway that you find works best. If shaving hair actually made hair come back thicker, then most men would be shaving their heads more just to help with balding. Shaved hair lacks the finer taper seen at the ends of unshaven hair, giving an impression of coarseness. Similarly, the new hair has not yet been lightened by the sun or other chemical exposures, resulting in an appearance that seems darker than existing hair. Basically, shaved hair feels coarse and that leads you to believe it's thicker. In reality you're just fooling yourself and your hair remains the same. I tried everything besides laser because of the money. I tried bleaching and it worked some at first, but then I was left with lots of blonde hair instead of dark hair, then eventually it started to burn my skin so I had to stop. I tried waxing and my skin is just too sensitive for it. The only thing that has worked for me is shaving and I have done it for years. Hasn't come back thicker or darker. Also I have been on Spironalactone for years now. It does take about 6 months to notice any change at all, but the longer you take it, the better it works. Plus it works as a diuretic as well, which for me is a plus because during that TOM I always retain fluid.
It was rough when I first started seeing chin hair as well. I was about 16 I think. Didn't have a boyfriend, but it did keep me from having one or getting close for a long time because I was embarrassed. My husband knew early on in the relationship and loves me as I am. It doesn't bother him at all that I am a big ball of fur.0
