Worried its going to happen again...

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Fiery_Vixen
Fiery_Vixen Posts: 795 Member
Mylast 2 pregnancies ended in miscarriage. I now find myself pregnant again. I feel really bad acting the way I do about, almost like its unwanted, but its the only way I know how to deal with the possibility that I might lose this one too. If I act like its a major inconvinience, then maybe it won't hurt so bad if/when it ends in another miscarriage. Is this wrong of me to do? I just don't know how else to cope....

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  • Chocoholic72
    Chocoholic72 Posts: 19 Member
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    I completely understand how you feel....first off congrats! Second, I have had 4 m/c, and with each one I felt like it couldn't happen again, then it could, then I was just expecting it to happen again. The 4th time, I felt that this was going to be my last time trying. And when it ended, I cried and cried knowing that we would not try for another baby again. I understand your mix of emotions. My advice is to be cautiously optimistic. Let me know how you are doing.