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happygolucky5536
happygolucky5536 Posts: 7 Member
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Do you ever feel like you don't know whether someone is trying to be a good support to you or just wants you to change for them? It frustrates me. I'm losing weight because I want to, but make no mistake, I'm already good enough just as I am. #irritating. Does anyone else experience this?

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  • ScubyUK
    ScubyUK Posts: 271 Member
    My ex always believed I should change for him, and then when I would make the decision to start eating right he'd go ahead and sabotage it. THAT was frustrating and irritating.
  • happygolucky5536
    happygolucky5536 Posts: 7 Member
    Really frustrating. In this case it's not my partner but another family member. Who, I might add, is doing nothing for their own health.
  • babenes
    babenes Posts: 34 Member
    I think that why i was not sucessful in my pervious weight loss because i did it for them not myself. This time around im doing it for myself. I wanted to do this and maybe why im succeeding this time.
  • zombie_porno
    zombie_porno Posts: 199 Member
    Completely. My current partner admits he prefers his women to be stick thin & without curves... whereas I'm a size 20/22. Yes, I'm losing for myself, but his obvious preference for androgynous females has triggered all my old eating disorder issues.

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