Beard Burn!

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JanieJack
JanieJack Posts: 3,830 Member
edited December 2024 in Social Groups
OUCH!

Guys! Please shave!!
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  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    hahaha nooooo. I love the feel of a guys beard when kissing.
  • Moe4572
    Moe4572 Posts: 1,428 Member
    But scruffy look is so much cuter :laugh:
  • kerrymh
    kerrymh Posts: 912 Member
    No..scruff is hot!!! And for some reason beards are now something I find sexy..maybe last man I was super attracted to had a beard now I really like it.
  • Mellie289
    Mellie289 Posts: 1,191 Member
    I haven't had beard burn before, but stubble burn, yes! Ouch! Either clean shaven or grown out enough not to be like sandpaper!
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,830 Member
    Sorry, to clarify...lol...it's really stubble....not the "grown out long enough" beard.... lol! My ex was such a babyface I never had this problem before ;-)

    I have to admit, I *do* like the 5 o'clock shadow *look* but not the aftereffects!

    The guy I've been seeing said it's something he never paid attention to before. I told him the closer we grow together, the more important it would be to make sure he's freshly shaven. "You'll only be hurting yourself if you don't!" Lol!
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,301 Member
    I soooo thought this thread was about something else. :laugh:
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    :laugh: glad I'm not the only one that suffers from this, but especially when I haven't kissed someone for a while. OMG I go so red :blushing: :noway:

    I remember reading somewhere that a man's beard grows when sexually aroused? so even if he does shave, it doesnt take long for it to grow during kissing/sex .............(HIS BEARD!!!! haha!) :love:

    oh well, I guess the answer is : practice!
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    I soooo thought this thread was about something else. :laugh:

    tut tut Carl! :bigsmile:
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,830 Member
    :laugh: glad I'm not the only one that suffers from this, but especially when I haven't kissed someone for a while. OMG I go so red :blushing: :noway:

    *I'm* the one who's gonna be red, and blushing...tomorrow...at work. At staff meeting. With the big boss. With everyone else snickering because they'll know exactly what it is. It's so raw and weeping, I don't think makeup will stick. How exactly will I explain a bandage, lol?? "sorry, sir, I had a little accident toward the end of my vacation" :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile:

    **edited that part out... didn't come out right!! *** I guess I *am* out of practice!!!
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    I love a guy with a good amount of stubble! So sexy. But I bet that it does hurt your skin, kinda like your thighs chafing?
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,830 Member
    So... ladies... have you experienced any men with stubble NOT cause this effect??

    Or are they just nice to look at, lol
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,830 Member
    yeah
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    I love the look and feel but not the after effect. I get all rashy, especially in my booby area as its very sensitive. :blushing: Still doesn't stop me, it's hot!!
  • NCTravellingGirl
    NCTravellingGirl Posts: 717 Member
    I definitely got a little beard burn with the last guy I made out with. BUT I love a little scruff so it's the price you pay :bigsmile: Don't think I realized until that night though how much it could hurt, haha...
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,830 Member
    [quote I love a little scruff so it's the price you pay :bigsmile: Don't think I realized until that night though how much it could hurt, haha...
    [/quote]

    I love a little scruff too, but I don't love oozing scabbing pain, and don't know how women deal with this and still go to work the next morning, lol!

    Man, if I got all that from just a little bit of kissing... who knows what would happen if I eventually settle down with this guy. Ouch!!
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,251 Member
    lol Mr. Nice guy has a gottee and he has rough hair. The first time we made out for a loooong time my chin peeled the next day. I live in florida so I just played it off that I had a sunburn lol. I dont like guys with no hair I think it makes them look like babies
  • NNAhuja
    NNAhuja Posts: 669 Member
    When a beard is grown in, it's fine. Scurff looks HAWT but can be oh so painful.
  • skinnybearlyndsay
    skinnybearlyndsay Posts: 798 Member
    Stubble burn on the face hurts...I just cleanse and moisturize until it gets better, which should be a few days...if no more make out sessions occur. As for hiding it with makeup, I have no idea. I hate makeup and wear it only for special occasions.

    Stubble burn elsewhere = a hot reminder of what happened. :bigsmile:
  • Mom2rh
    Mom2rh Posts: 612 Member
    Mmmm...I like some facial hair, goatee especially. But I've never had the burn so bad...That would be a drag.
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,401 Member
    I remember reading somewhere that a man's beard grows when sexually aroused? so even if he does shave, it doesnt take long for it to grow during kissing/sex .............(HIS BEARD!!!! haha!) :love:

    :noway: :laugh:
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,830 Member
    Stubble burn on the face hurts...I just cleanse and moisturize until it gets better, which should be a few days...if no more make out sessions occur. As for hiding it with makeup, I have no idea.

    The skin has peeled off (ewwww), so I had to cover w/bandages. My friends are going to laugh me to high heaven when they see this tonight. What's surprising me about this is that most ladies who wrote me are used to this. I'm not used to a raw, oozing wound on my chin.
    Stubble burn elsewhere = a hot reminder of what happened. bigsmile

    I don't even want to THINK about said injury being in other areas. OUCH!
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    I had no idea it could get so bad. I've heard of it before but I've never actually experienced it. I love facial hair from the scruff to fool blown grizzly man and I've kissed many a man with facial hair and never noticed any adverse effects.

    Maybe I just don't have sensitive skin?

    Seriously, raw and weeping?! Scabs? This is terrible! I hope you feel better soon!
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,830 Member
    Seriously, raw and weeping?! Scabs? This is terrible! I hope you feel better soon!

    yeah, the guy involved thought I was overreacting... til I sent him a picture!
    Today it started bleeding too.

    If I can get philosophical for a minute, this is the kind of thing that kept my nose clean in college: Other girls can do all kinds of stuff, no repercussion.... ME...I finally let the guy kiss me more than just a peck and a patch of skin on my face falls off. *SIGH*



    The worst part about it, really, is the guy’s reaction. He still thinks it’s no big deal. I was starting to like him too (he endured two church services of fire-and-brimstone with me, lol). But a man who doesn’t care about an injury that’s partially his fault is definitely not someone I need in my life. He could have at least said, “I’m sorry.”
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    Jeez JJ!! Okay I just get rashy, nothing like what I saw on your chin. What in the world were y'all doing?!?!? LOL

    That looks painful. Yeah, I'd probably feel the same as you in this case, especially if he saw that picture.
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,830 Member
    Jeez JJ!! Okay I just get rashy, nothing like what I saw on your chin. What in the world were y'all doing?!?!? LOL

    haha not enough to be worth permanent scarring!!!! :tongue: :tongue: :tongue:
  • Mellie289
    Mellie289 Posts: 1,191 Member
    Oh, dear! That looks terrible. The only thing I've had close to that is road burn on my legs falling off my bike. I hope it heals quickly at least. I find that sores on my skin heal quicker than elsewhere (like the road burn) - I think there's more blood flow to the face to help things heal faster. Maybe you'll just have two days to cover it up for work and back to normal by Monday?
    The skin has peeled off (ewwww), so I had to cover w/bandages. My friends are going to laugh me to high heaven when they see this tonight. What's surprising me about this is that most ladies who wrote me are used to this. I'm not used to a raw, oozing wound on my chin.
    I could never get used to the stubble and my skin is quite sensitive as well, although I've never been THAT exfoliated. My last boyfriend was a hairy guy - the kind who gets a 5 o'clock shadow by noon. One time, I got a pretty bad stubble burn, but just red and sore. He didn't realize how abrasive he face was to mine.

    At least he was considerate about it to shave before seeing me when he could. Unfortunately, his skin was too sensitive to shave twice a day (like another guy with this problem I knew years ago), so on work days, he only shaved in the mornings and there was much less kissing. I love kissing when it's a baby soft smooth face. *sigh*
  • flimflamfloz
    flimflamfloz Posts: 1,980 Member
    My diagnostic: you're allergic to men.

    :laugh:
  • skinnybearlyndsay
    skinnybearlyndsay Posts: 798 Member
    yeah, the guy involved thought I was overreacting... til I sent him a picture!
    Today it started bleeding too.

    If I can get philosophical for a minute, this is the kind of thing that kept my nose clean in college: Other girls can do all kinds of stuff, no repercussion.... ME...I finally let the guy kiss me more than just a peck and a patch of skin on my face falls off. *SIGH*

    That's way worse than mine. Mine was just raw and scabby after the first makeout session.

    I hope it gets better soon!
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,401 Member
    Just saw the pic. That is the worst case of beard burn I've seen. So sorry!
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,301 Member
    Youch! :noway:
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