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Z_I_L_L_A
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This should probably be put on a single group, but I have to vent here. I am who I am, but your past relationships and experiences make you who you are today. But if you can't evolve and get better about choices you make, you may make the same mistake again. Were you blind sided and never saw it coming or saw and didn't try to fix or it couldn't be fixed? Every pain and stress should make you say "not again" and I will fish a different pond with better fish.
I want to protect my friends and help them on MFP. No I don't know it all, yes my past has made me who I am today. Will I make the same mistake again? Absolutely not, but I do like who I was 12 years ago. Which was unconditional love for another and would die for them. I don't understand why people choose the same type of person time after time and make the same mistakes. If you date a person that is cheating to be with you, what makes you think they won't cheat on you. If you're with someone that has a problem with alcohol, would you choose another that drinks heavy?
I want to love again, I really do. I'm getting in shape, my demeanor is better. I'm much happier at the moment, but that part of my life is missing. I want to believe there is true love out there. I haven't dated since the divorce, I don't do internet dating either. If love finds me great but I'm not pressing or rushing in to find it. Everyone thinks they have to be in a relationship real quick. Thats an easy way to make mistakes. You be in charge, you be in control of your future. You can say no if you want. Don't settle for less, you are worth it. I want my friends to be happy, you deserve better than you had before.
Your bestest friend, lol
Tim
PS: If everybody would get to know the opposite sex better and try to understand them. No games, no drama just truth, no lies. It would be easier than everyone makes it out to be. JMHO
I want to protect my friends and help them on MFP. No I don't know it all, yes my past has made me who I am today. Will I make the same mistake again? Absolutely not, but I do like who I was 12 years ago. Which was unconditional love for another and would die for them. I don't understand why people choose the same type of person time after time and make the same mistakes. If you date a person that is cheating to be with you, what makes you think they won't cheat on you. If you're with someone that has a problem with alcohol, would you choose another that drinks heavy?
I want to love again, I really do. I'm getting in shape, my demeanor is better. I'm much happier at the moment, but that part of my life is missing. I want to believe there is true love out there. I haven't dated since the divorce, I don't do internet dating either. If love finds me great but I'm not pressing or rushing in to find it. Everyone thinks they have to be in a relationship real quick. Thats an easy way to make mistakes. You be in charge, you be in control of your future. You can say no if you want. Don't settle for less, you are worth it. I want my friends to be happy, you deserve better than you had before.
Your bestest friend, lol
Tim
PS: If everybody would get to know the opposite sex better and try to understand them. No games, no drama just truth, no lies. It would be easier than everyone makes it out to be. JMHO
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Please don't be offended if I said anything wrong. It was not my intention. Just my honest opinion and most of the time its harmless.
^My disclaimer,lol0 -
I don't even know you but I want to say thank you. Your sentiments echoed something that I have been struggling with lately and I appreciated your reinforcing what I know deep down within myself. Unfortunately, that knowledge has escaped me recently and I found myself feeling vulnerable. You just unknowingly gave me the strength to continue down the right path. Atleast for today...may have to come back and re-read this tomorrow LOL.
You can be my bestest friend,
Terra0 -
Well said. I couldn't agree more. I refuse to make the same mistake twice, I have dated but not too seriously. I have now been single for 5 years and I am happy that I took the time to work on myself and realize what I want and don't want anymore.0
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I agree too.0
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