Finally Friday
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Wooohooo its finally Friday!!!
Tonight I will be taking my mother out for dinner for her birthday then later spend time with my new man!!
Saturday - Going to a movie with my man then later that night he is meeting my best friend and her hubby for the first time. He is kinda nervous, ha ha!!
Sunday - It's Thanksgiving here in Canada and my mom is doing the dinner this year. Having dinner with the family. Going to be nice to have the whole family all together for a nice dinner!!
Monday - is a workout day since I have this day off!! And spend time with my man too!!
Happy Friday everyone!!
Happy Thanksgiving! Thanks for the reminder.0 -
If she is making dinner for you please break it off before lunch if you can. She has to do prep work for the dinner so probably would like to know as soon as possible if she doesn't have to do it and can make other plans for the night.
I was debating whether I should continue to date her and have a good time or cut it off before it gets serious. I wanted to make myself just have fun and enjoy it but I couldn't get into that mindset. Fortunately, she is working until 5:30 PM tonight and specific dinner has not been planned so I am not wasting any kitchen work.
How do you know that? How do you know she didn't spend all last night cleaning, planning, prepping for you, thinking of ways to make it special but still thrown together the last minute? The first time I cooked for BB I spent the whole evening prepping and planning so I could bake the meal right after work, then spent my lunchtime shopping for the extras (drinks, dessert, stuff I don't normally have at the house).
Even if she hasn't done any actual prep, to not have already canceled so she can make other plans seems a bit rude to me. Especially if you already know it's going nowhere.
Edit: I just saw Kristen's response about go and enjoy it, don't be romantic, and then never see her again. I guess everyone has differences of opinion, and hers might be more applicable to your demographic. If it was me, I'd be mad that you came over and ate my food with no intention to see me again. If I had done the prep work, I would have just invited friends over instead and let them eat it. But inviting my friends over at noon is different than inviting them over at 7pm when I just found out you're not coming and they've already made plans.
As for me:
I'm hosting a going away party tonight.
Tomorrow me, BB and my friends are going shooting. Then me and BB will catch a football game at his alma mater.
Sunday is Latin fest in Dallas, also meeting his long-term and best friend.
Monday I'll begin packing out my house.0 -
How do you know that? How do you know she didn't spend all last night cleaning, planning, prepping for you, thinking of ways to make it special but still thrown together the last minute? The first time I cooked for BB I spent the whole evening prepping and planning so I could bake the meal right after work, then spent my lunchtime shopping for the extras (drinks, dessert, stuff I don't normally have at the house).
Even if she hasn't done any actual prep, to not have already canceled so she can make other plans seems a bit rude to me. Especially if you already know it's going nowhere.
Because it feels better to think that way inside my head, that's how I know.
You're right, it is incredibly rude. I'm not very good at dating. I realize this. I was undecided on whether or not I could continue having a casual relationship with this person. Throughout the week, her messages to me increased in seriousness and I decided this morning that it would be even more rude of me to play along.0 -
Go Steelers!! Excited to wear my new personalized jersey this weekend!Sunday - Football. Steelers vs. Eagles and the Steelers defense is finally healthy.0 -
If she is making dinner for you please break it off before lunch if you can. She has to do prep work for the dinner so probably would like to know as soon as possible if she doesn't have to do it and can make other plans for the night.
I was debating whether I should continue to date her and have a good time or cut it off before it gets serious. I wanted to make myself just have fun and enjoy it but I couldn't get into that mindset. Fortunately, she is working until 5:30 PM tonight and specific dinner has not been planned so I am not wasting any kitchen work.
How do you know that? How do you know she didn't spend all last night cleaning, planning, prepping for you, thinking of ways to make it special but still thrown together the last minute? The first time I cooked for BB I spent the whole evening prepping and planning so I could bake the meal right after work, then spent my lunchtime shopping for the extras (drinks, dessert, stuff I don't normally have at the house).
Even if she hasn't done any actual prep, to not have already canceled so she can make other plans seems a bit rude to me. Especially if you already know it's going nowhere.
Yes canceling only a couple hours prior is not the best in this circumstance but I would rather a guy called and canceled with me rather then come have the date then send me an email.
The way he worded the decision I don't think he took it lightly. The relationship seemed to be at the tipping point and he took time to decided what he was feeling before leading her on and showing up at her place. Really there is no optimum way to break a date and everyone agrees to do it sooner rather then later but sometimes that is just not an option.0 -
How do you know that? How do you know she didn't spend all last night cleaning, planning, prepping for you, thinking of ways to make it special but still thrown together the last minute? The first time I cooked for BB I spent the whole evening prepping and planning so I could bake the meal right after work, then spent my lunchtime shopping for the extras (drinks, dessert, stuff I don't normally have at the house).
Even if she hasn't done any actual prep, to not have already canceled so she can make other plans seems a bit rude to me. Especially if you already know it's going nowhere.
Because it feels better to think that way inside my head, that's how I know.
You're right, it is incredibly rude. I'm not very good at dating. I realize this. I was undecided on whether or not I could continue having a casual relationship with this person. Throughout the week, her messages to me increased in seriousness and I decided this morning that it would be even more rude of me to play along.
:flowerforyou:
In the end, you did the right thing. It would sting if a guy did this to me, but in the end, he's a "good" guy by not leading me on... even if it's the day of the date.
You could have totally taken advantage of the dinner, her, etc etc so I think you did the right thing and though it's inconvenient, I wouldn't call it rude. I'd say it would had been rude to show up, eat her food, smile and then drop her the next day while all along the night before, you knew in your mind you didn't want her.0 -
:flowerforyou:
In the end, you did the right thing. It would sting if a guy did this to me, but in the end, he's a "good" guy by not leading me on... even if it's the day of the date.
You could have totally taken advantage of the dinner, her, etc etc so I think you did the right thing and though it's inconvenient, I wouldn't call it rude. I'd say it would had been rude to show up, eat her food, smile and then drop her the next day while all along the night before, you knew in your mind you didn't want her.
Thanks for the flower. That was exactly what I couldn't get over - going and enjoying the date knowing the whole time that I was over her. I could have very easily done just that, slept with her, and then disappeared. I'm practically a hero and should get an award and a reality TV show.0 -
How do you know that? How do you know she didn't spend all last night cleaning, planning, prepping for you, thinking of ways to make it special but still thrown together the last minute? The first time I cooked for BB I spent the whole evening prepping and planning so I could bake the meal right after work, then spent my lunchtime shopping for the extras (drinks, dessert, stuff I don't normally have at the house).
Even if she hasn't done any actual prep, to not have already canceled so she can make other plans seems a bit rude to me. Especially if you already know it's going nowhere.
Because it feels better to think that way inside my head, that's how I know.
You're right, it is incredibly rude. I'm not very good at dating. I realize this. I was undecided on whether or not I could continue having a casual relationship with this person. Throughout the week, her messages to me increased in seriousness and I decided this morning that it would be even more rude of me to play along.
For what it's worth, I think you did the right thing. :flowerforyou:
Ok, I'd be pissed if I did all the prep and got excited about it, but I'd be 10x as pissed if you came over, ate, drank, chatted, kissed and cuddle, maybe had sex, woke up together and then I never saw you again!! :noway:0 -
And he said he would miss me while I'm gone. Progress!
Awwww
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:flowerforyou:
In the end, you did the right thing. It would sting if a guy did this to me, but in the end, he's a "good" guy by not leading me on... even if it's the day of the date.
You could have totally taken advantage of the dinner, her, etc etc so I think you did the right thing and though it's inconvenient, I wouldn't call it rude. I'd say it would had been rude to show up, eat her food, smile and then drop her the next day while all along the night before, you knew in your mind you didn't want her.
Thanks for the flower. That was exactly what I couldn't get over - going and enjoying the date knowing the whole time that I was over her. I could have very easily done just that, slept with her, and then disappeared. I'm practically a hero and should get an award and a reality TV show.
I'll cook you supper, how about some lambas bread?
HAhaaaa0 -
I'll cook you supper, how about some lambas bread?
HAhaaaa
I had to look that up. Haha!0 -
I'll cook you supper, how about some lambas bread?
HAhaaaa
I had to look that up. Haha!
Don't mind me, just getting my nerd on up in here!0 -
Tomorrow I'm taking the non-boyfriend boyfriend on a surprise trip to San Francisco for Fleet Week. They have an airshow and he had mentioned he likes going to them. His birthday was this past Monday so this is his present. It's the first time ever that I've planned a surprise for someone. It's neat to see him SO excited.
now that is a present I could get behind!!!
Well I wanted to go to Fleet week this weekend. LOVE the Blue Angels, and have gone every year, until this year. I am a very sad panda. :sad:
Started my weight training yesterday, so I may hit the gym Saturday.
Mr Beefcake, he is still in England on business, will not be back until the 12th, so no dates there.
I have a pretty boring life apparently!!0 -
Tomorrow I'm taking the non-boyfriend boyfriend on a surprise trip to San Francisco for Fleet Week. They have an airshow and he had mentioned he likes going to them. His birthday was this past Monday so this is his present. It's the first time ever that I've planned a surprise for someone. It's neat to see him SO excited.
Fleet Week is awesome. I'll probably swing through as well. Have fun!0 -
Let me clarify. I didn't want him to sleep with her or even get romantic. I just figured it was dinner. If I went and spent money on food and did prep work to prepare (because I'm anal and prep for days for everything), I'd prefer to just cook and eat with the guy than for him to cancel last minute. I would have been so p'd at the late cancellation that trust me my friends wouldn't want to deal with me! LOL0
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No major plans for me...I AM committing to dragging my butt out of bed for Zumba Saturday as I've missed a few weeks now.
Sunday after church, I'm headed to the Tavern again for football with girlfriends. That's sadly about it. i've stopped all the online stuff so dates aren't really in the cards any more :frown: But, i'm starting to catch up on sleep, so i've got that, haha...
Have a great weekend, all!0 -
No major plans for me...I AM committing to dragging my butt out of bed for Zumba Saturday as I've missed a few weeks now.
Sunday after church, I'm headed to the Tavern again for football with girlfriends. That's sadly about it. i've stopped all the online stuff so dates aren't really in the cards any more :frown: But, i'm starting to catch up on sleep, so i've got that, haha...
Have a great weekend, all!
ZUMBA!!!! I've missed 1 Saturday because of work in the past 3 months.0 -
Let me clarify. I didn't want him to sleep with her or even get romantic. I just figured it was dinner. If I went and spent money on food and did prep work to prepare (because I'm anal and prep for days for everything), I'd prefer to just cook and eat with the guy than for him to cancel last minute. I would have been so p'd at the late cancellation that trust me my friends wouldn't want to deal with me! LOL
JUST DINNER? No woman can invite this charming gentleman over for just dinner.
[there's bound to be dishes as well, I mean]0 -
Let me clarify. I didn't want him to sleep with her or even get romantic. I just figured it was dinner. If I went and spent money on food and did prep work to prepare (because I'm anal and prep for days for everything), I'd prefer to just cook and eat with the guy than for him to cancel last minute. I would have been so p'd at the late cancellation that trust me my friends wouldn't want to deal with me! LOL
JUST DINNER? No woman can invite this charming gentleman over for just dinner.
[there's bound to be dishes as well, I mean]
I just keep wanting to say like.... REALLY dirty things.0 -
I have the weekend off!0
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I have the weekend off!
Lucky! (says the person that went on vacations that last two weekends).0 -
It is not time for me to date yet, so I'm going to have a few drinks and settle in for a serious night of Guild Wars 2.0
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I'm just playing too much to GW2, so I keep uninstalling the game... Then later on my addiction takes over and I have to re-install it. NOOOOO! :grumble:It is not time for me to date yet, so I'm going to have a few drinks and settle in for a serious night of Guild Wars 2.
I'm so screwed. :laugh:0 -
I have the weekend off!
Lucky! (says the person that went on vacations that last two weekends).
Haha! I was just on vacation a month ago and oh I wish I could be there again!0
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