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imwithgizmo
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Welcome to the ADD/ADHD Group! Please take a minute to introduce yourself.
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My name is Sandy. I was dx with ADHD about 9 years ago, after my son was dx.
The way it contributed to my weight gain wasn't clear to me until many years after I'd gained. I was a single mom, staying at home, and was bored as I couldn't afford to go anywhere. So I started cooking more. I also ate more. One day I stopped on my way to the kitchen (again) and realized that all through the day I was going back and forth to the kitchen to get food. I didn't yet know what ADHD was. I realized years later that I was bored.
Boredom for me is hard as I'm not able to focus on projects very well. I knew people who could do knitting projects, sewing, home repairs, and such, to completion. I never finished a project because they just couldn't hold my attention. Food did, at least for a while, then I'd go get more. I finally enrolled in school and that helped a lot.
I wish I'd known about ADHD when I was younger. It would have explained so much! I can look back on my childhood now and see it so clearly.
I'm unable to take stimulant meds. I had A-Fib in June and had to get my heart shocked back into rhythm, so that is not an option any longer. I'm trying to learn more to find better ways to cope.0 -
I'm Sound.
I've been diangonised with ADHD ever since I could remember to write. I was on ritlin for all my elementary and most of my middle school years- so needless to say my pubenace was a little screwed up. I didn't start having a menstration cycle until I was at least 18, and that was only because it was induced by birthcontrol.
Basicly three hundred pounds later, and will power, I've decided to kick the meds- both birth control (In a sexual relatiosnhip where I don't have to worry about getting pregnant thumbs up), and any thing else to 'help focus'. I do take fish oil, and work out- both of which seem to really help my focus a lot.
But thats where I'm coming from, and it works for me. My roommate's a little more sever, and she has to take something 'every now and then'. But we both help eachother in the long run with the ADD stuff.0 -
I was diagnosed when I was a child, taking Ritalin. I think I was bouncing off of the walls and couldn't focus worth crap. Then it really became apparent in later lafe. No focus, impulsiveness, switching conversation topics in about 2.5 nanoseconds, that kind of thing-
The thing that really sabotaged my bariatric surgery the first time is because it was from the mindless eating, I believe caused by the racing thoughts going through my head. I always used food as a solace or celebration to whatever I was feeling. I'm NOT going to repeat that now that I've gone through surgery a second time!
I am a full-time college student now, all online classes, and it is difficult for me to adjust. I keep jumping from one thing to the next in between assignments, i.e.-I get tired of working on one, so I'll be in the middle of it and start another one. Then, it will take me until the next day to finish either of them because EVERYTHING else gets in the way of that! There is absolutely NO order to my life whatsoever...
So yeah, I raise both hands and feet in agreement that I am possessed with ADD. I deal with it.0 -
I just joined MFP today. I was browsing the message board topics and was excited, curious and surprised to find this group. I have ADD. Not ADHD or I wouldn't be fat! If I had the hyperactivity, I would be a mover and a shaker.....instead, am minutes away from 300lbs again and I am Freaking Out!! I start and stop, start and stop. Every decision in my life is major. Every action or occurrence of events is dramatic. I haven't known a day without pain in over 2 months, maybe even 3. I know what I need to do to lose weight, yet I sit in his chair and procrastinate my life away. Well, I guess I have made a huge step here by signing up and even a bigger step by posting on this board. Good luck me.1
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I was diagnosed with ADD when I was about 15, and looking back it makes sense as to why I never exceeded in some classes. The boredom is madness, I eat when I am bored, and since the kitchen isn't too far, it is too easy to continually eat and eat. I have only been on meds once, I quit and never looked back. I am somewhat able to manage my ADD but, the boredom is what gets me every day.0
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Hi Swaty here.
I was diagnosed with ADD in college. I always had great grades but I can never do one thing at a time, I am always hyperactive and get bored so easily and extremely impatient. I can grasp stuff real quick but I lag behind when attention need to be paid to finer details. Also I'm constantly grazing or nibbling. Especially when I need to concentrate on something, like during tests or when I am stressed.
My parents refused to believe the doc and never put me on meds and so I've been my hyper self for as long as I can remember.
It has a few perks ,I multitask all the time.
I can never study without the tv on or some moie playing that gets me really frustrated.1 -
Hello,
I was finally diagnosed after I quit my job to raise my kids and everything started falling apart. Without the structure of going to work and having a set routine when I got home at nite I was lost. So two or three years into it I finally went to see the doc. Was put on a series of meds, none of which I take now. I believe both my kids have it, one is medicated one is not.
Does anyone find diets and excercise especially difficult to keep interesting? I start off great but I tend to fall down very quickly. Any suggestions?1 -
Hello,
I was finally diagnosed after I quit my job to raise my kids and everything started falling apart. Without the structure of going to work and having a set routine when I got home at nite I was lost. So two or three years into it I finally went to see the doc. Was put on a series of meds, none of which I take now. I believe both my kids have it, one is medicated one is not.
Does anyone find diets and excercise especially difficult to keep interesting? I start off great but I tend to fall down very quickly. Any suggestions?
Hi! Welcome to the group!
I keep it interesting by trying different recipes often. I also tend to eat the same things a lot, so having variety once in a while is good. I also eat when I'm bored, so I have to vary my workouts too. For cooking, spices help me stay interested, like trying a curry, or something spicy, something tangy, sweet, etc. I also like different textures, like crunchy, mushy, chewy, etc.
It's definitely trial & error!0 -
Hi I was just diagnosed with adhd as were two of my children and I'm not even sure where to start. I have trouble sticking to diets and workouts. what are some tricks to help keep me on track?0
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Hi I was just diagnosed with adhd as were two of my children and I'm not even sure where to start. I have trouble sticking to diets and workouts. what are some tricks to help keep me on track?
Do what you can to keep it simple. Also, get outside and get plenty of fresh air, and sun, if possible. Keep away from processed foods with any food coloring in them, as that has been proven to affect those with ADHD, especially the kids.
Just try to eat as clean as you can, and get some activity, and track everything you eat, and drink lots of water!0 -
Hello,
I was finally diagnosed after I quit my job to raise my kids and everything started falling apart. Without the structure of going to work and having a set routine when I got home at nite I was lost. So two or three years into it I finally went to see the doc. Was put on a series of meds, none of which I take now. I believe both my kids have it, one is medicated one is not.
Does anyone find diets and excercise especially difficult to keep interesting? I start off great but I tend to fall down very quickly. Any suggestions?
Hi! Welcome to the group!
I keep it interesting by trying different recipes often. I also tend to eat the same things a lot, so having variety once in a while is good. I also eat when I'm bored, so I have to vary my workouts too. For cooking, spices help me stay interested, like trying a curry, or something spicy, something tangy, sweet, etc. I also like different textures, like crunchy, mushy, chewy, etc.
It's definitely trial & error!
I eat the same thing all the time too. I just seems easier, but sooooo boring. Maybe I could try something new once a week - thanks!0 -
I"m Rachel. I was diagnosed about 6 months ago, but I've really known I'm ADHD my whole life. I tend to eat mindlessly and when I'm bored. I will sometimes find myself eating and then step back and realize I don't even remember going into the kitchen.0
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I"m Rachel. I was diagnosed about 6 months ago, but I've really known I'm ADHD my whole life. I tend to eat mindlessly and when I'm bored. I will sometimes find myself eating and then step back and realize I don't even remember going into the kitchen.
Hi Rachel! Welcome to the group!0 -
Hi I'm Donyelle.0
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Hi there! Welcome (a little late)!0
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Hi!
I'm Alice, I was just recently diagnosed with ADHD at 26, after years of unsuccessful treatment for depression and anxiety. It was a bit of a relief as it gave me a lot of understanding of why I found some things so difficult when everyone else seemed to have such an easy time. It has also given me some tools that I am hoping will be really useful in the long run. Honestly- until a couple of months ago I had no idea that adult women could even have ADHD.
Like a lot of you, I am sure, I was heavily into sports as a kid/teen/uni student, spending about 26 hours a week training- and competing all over the country. I guess that it was a pretty effective method of self treatment, and it certainly helped keep me more settled!
I didn't start to really struggle with my weight until I stopped competing after university and got a desk job (that is a whole other struggle!) and found that I often ate when bored and restless- and now I wasn't exercising enough to keep the weight off. I also have trouble getting myself organized enough to shop and make meals in advance. Now I want to get back into a regular exercise program as a part of my treatment, and start eating more healthily. I need to lose about 30lbs to be at my most healthy weight.
One of the things I am worried about is that I have just started on a medication which apparently reduces perception of hunger- and I have noticed over the last week that I just don't feel hungry at meals. I don't want to let that transition into not eating enough. Has anyone else had this experience? How did you deal with it?
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Hello everyone. My name is Rachel and I have ADD, DD, OCD, and PTSD, I know, a LOT of disorders. I'm just coming to realize this now in my adult stage but haven't necessarily let it affect me on the outside. I act and look "normal". For years I just thought I was stupid, never could stay on task, etc and now that I'm coming to terms with myself, I'm looking forwards to giving and getting support from people in my neck of the woods.0
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Hi!
I'm Alice, I was just recently diagnosed with ADHD at 26, after years of unsuccessful treatment for depression and anxiety. It was a bit of a relief as it gave me a lot of understanding of why I found some things so difficult when everyone else seemed to have such an easy time. It has also given me some tools that I am hoping will be really useful in the long run. Honestly- until a couple of months ago I had no idea that adult women could even have ADHD.
Like a lot of you, I am sure, I was heavily into sports as a kid/teen/uni student, spending about 26 hours a week training- and competing all over the country. I guess that it was a pretty effective method of self treatment, and it certainly helped keep me more settled!
I didn't start to really struggle with my weight until I stopped competing after university and got a desk job (that is a whole other struggle!) and found that I often ate when bored and restless- and now I wasn't exercising enough to keep the weight off. I also have trouble getting myself organized enough to shop and make meals in advance. Now I want to get back into a regular exercise program as a part of my treatment, and start eating more healthily. I need to lose about 30lbs to be at my most healthy weight.
One of the things I am worried about is that I have just started on a medication which apparently reduces perception of hunger- and I have noticed over the last week that I just don't feel hungry at meals. I don't want to let that transition into not eating enough. Has anyone else had this experience? How did you deal with it?
Sorry if this is too long!
Hello Alice. I understand what you mean about appetite loss. I'm currently taking the occasional Adderall XR and I will forget to eat at times as it doesn't make me very hungry. I suppose the only thing you can do is set reminders and post it notes reminding yourself to eat at least a few small meals. I hope this helps.0 -
Hi Rachel,
Thanks for the tip! I've set up email reminders at work, which has been really helpful, now all I have to tackle is the weekends. I find that everything is harder to organize when I have a lot of unstructured time.
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Hi, I'm Brandi.
I was dx with ADD just two weeks ago.
I never would have suspected that I had ADD. I would've been the last person I'd suspect.
I have suspected just about everything else under the sun, trying to find out what was wrong with me. Nothing btw.
My husband is classic ADHD, and was finally and officially dx earlier this year with my urging.
I've read blogs and articles about ADHD because of his diagnosis and started to suspect.
I talked to my husband and he said, "You?". Then he read an article about ADHD in women.
I read it and decided I needed to be screened. Not because of the article, but because I felt like my life was out of control. I was riddled with stress and anxiety and guilt and because this is a weight loss board and not an ADD board, I will change my focus and talk about that.
It may come as a surprise, but I am really good at focusing on any one thing, such as dieting/working out. For about three to six months. Then something happens (I lose a little weight or start to get into shape and lose interest, school starts back after summer break and my schedule adjusts, or family comes to visit - it can literally be anything) and throws me off of my groove and I cannot get back to the gym or get back to a diet. That very thing happened this past August. I CAN NOT get back to the gym. I have now gained back the weight I lost over the summer and my clothes are now fitting just as uncomfortably as they did last winter. I have always beat myself up for feeling lazy or unmotivated. An unexplainable force has kept me from going back to the gym. Every morning I think about it. But I run out of time. Every evening I think about it, but I'm exhausted from stress at work and chaos with kids. I feel like now I have an answer for why (ADD). But that hasn't helped me to get to the gym. Although, ironically, exercise is touted as being vital for people with ADD. I'm self-destructing here!
I feel like structure would help, but the idea of setting up a schedule or a diet plan sends me into a panic. Like, literally my heart starts to beat faster and my head starts to feel pressure, and my face flushes. I feel like I need someone to write me out a schedule - literally to give me an hourly plan of what to do every day. And while they are at it I would love a menu made out with personalized low carb (ugh!), high protein foods that are ADD friendly. And a shopping list would be nice too.
Several years back I joined SlimFast's online planning thingy and it was great. It gave you a menu and you could add your own recipes or choose one of theirs from a database, or you could add in Slim Fast products (although you didn't have to). It tracked your calories/fat/protein/carbs/vitamins/etcstuffIforget, and told you what you needed more of. Sound familiar somewhat? The difference between it and MFP is that it already had a menu planned out and you could tweak it if you wanted to. Why don't I use it anymore? Because they completely changed it to integrate/market their products more. Good for them, but I'm lost without it. I float in and out of diet success and failure.
The bright side: I'm hoping that my ADD dx will be motivation (eventually, when I get around to doing it) to continue working out more long term.
Side note: Is it bad that I find humor in the fact that the ADHD group postings are so sporadic?
Another side note: Sorry this is choppy; what can I say?
Anyway, I hope to get to meet some other people that need to work out for their sanity. I wish I knew how to meet someone in my area that I could meet to work out, but darn the irony, I'm slightly disconnected socially and even if I knew how to make new ADD friends, I don't seem to be very good at keeping them : )0 -
Hi. I'm Jenni
My teachers wanted me tested and to be put on meds when I little because I was all over the place. My parents, not knowing what ADD or ADHD was, made the best choice for me they could and decided that because I feel asleep as soon as I got home from school (without doing homework) I couldn't possibly be hyperactive and decided not to medicate me. I've always struggled with school - unless it was a subject I liked. My parents always said - sure a kid would rather eat cake all day if you'd let them too. Do better in the other subjects. I've had boss's tell me I'm not effecient and friends that, in good humor, remind me how random I can be.
Now that I'm married and have a son myself, who is ADHD, I often wonder - what if.? I've never been dx with ADD or ADHD, but I as I learn more about my son's ADHD and read the posts from everyone I find myself wondering because I've heard it's genetic.
My son,5, is about to start school this fall and is so hyper off meds that he will quite literally turn circles - flipping back and forth between coloring, tv, playing with his toys and eating - one bite at a time - often being to "busy" to eat until he's hungry, then he'll out eat an adult. He is also speech delayed which we've chalked up to ear infections when he was younger, but I'm wondering if it's partly do to him not sitting still to "listen" how to talk. I've even had people think he's autistic. On meds he's calmer, listens more, speaks more clearly - but younger for his age.
I have lots of questions, but have no idea where to start I can't even seem to get my thoughts together here. Lol
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Hi. I'm Shonte
I was very excited to find this group. My story is similar to many of you. I was just diagnosed at 35 with ADHD with No Hyperactivity (that's the way the term in now) after my son was diagnosed. I've always known it took me longer to do things and I was easily distracted but I never knew non-hyperactive people suffered from ADHD. I managed to make it through some college but school was always a struggle and I don't remember the majority of it. So I haven't really excelled at anything. Like many others, I have tons of crafts I've started and stopped as well. I started dieting again because I've been studying ADHD and learned that exercise helps you focus and the types of food we eat can have an affect on our symptoms. I have started and stopped dieting numerous times. Its funny, I always knew I didn't succeed because I wasn't persistent and committed enough. However, some how it ever dawned on my that it was because of my ADHD. I am excited to be a part of this group. Hopefully, it will have helpful information for me and my son.0 -
Hi Shonte0
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I'm Angela and I was diagnosed at age 50. I grew up thinking I was "lazy", was accused of "playing stupid" and ridiculed for being obese since the age of 12. The fact that I managed to raise a family and work full time for all those years before my diagnosis, is proof that I am smart, strong and "handi-capable". My weight goes way up and way down, depending on my circumstances. Seven weeks ago, I joined the ranks of grandparents raising their grandchildren, and I've gained 20lbs in that short amount of time. I'm hoping to find accountability, yet at the same time, I'm terrified to find accountability. Oh look, a Squirrel!!0
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Hi I'm Rachel and I'm now in tears reading these stories, I feel so alone like no one understands but all these stories are me they are the struggles I go though!! I was diagnosed 11 years ago, I'm 38 now. I never passed school, I have failed everything I've started, I go all gunhoe into everything then stop and never finish....I hate being like this
I don't want meds again they made me feel crap....I need help but I just want to do it without telling anyone in my family or any of my friends....no one understands anyway!! Apart from all of you, all describe my struggles 
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jjeanmneis wrote: »Hi. I'm Jenni
My teachers wanted me tested and to be put on meds when I little because I was all over the place. My parents, not knowing what ADD or ADHD was, made the best choice for me they could and decided that because I feel asleep as soon as I got home from school (without doing homework) I couldn't possibly be hyperactive and decided not to medicate me. I've always struggled with school - unless it was a subject I liked. My parents always said - sure a kid would rather eat cake all day if you'd let them too. Do better in the other subjects. I've had boss's tell me I'm not effecient and friends that, in good humor, remind me how random I can be.
Now that I'm married and have a son myself, who is ADHD, I often wonder - what if.? I've never been dx with ADD or ADHD, but I as I learn more about my son's ADHD and read the posts from everyone I find myself wondering because I've heard it's genetic.
My son,5, is about to start school this fall and is so hyper off meds that he will quite literally turn circles - flipping back and forth between coloring, tv, playing with his toys and eating - one bite at a time - often being to "busy" to eat until he's hungry, then he'll out eat an adult. He is also speech delayed which we've chalked up to ear infections when he was younger, but I'm wondering if it's partly do to him not sitting still to "listen" how to talk. I've even had people think he's autistic. On meds he's calmer, listens more, speaks more clearly - but younger for his age.
I have lots of questions, but have no idea where to start I can't even seem to get my thoughts together here. Lol
I don't know if you're even still on here, Jenni, and your son is probably 11 now. I've been dx'd since 2002, and done lots of research, been involved in a lot of ADHD groups. I'd be happy to answer as many of your questions as I can. ❤️0 -
Hi, folks. I'm Deborah.
Looks like this group hasn't been very active for a while. Did you all forget about it? (ADHD joke) 😁
I was dx'd in 2002 at the "ripe old age" of almost 32. In the last 19 years I've learned a lot about ADHD, been involved in a number of groups, and worked to spread correct information about ADHD to the general public and find the 80% of adults with ADHD who aren't dx'd and think they're just failures. 🤗
I'm married, with one kiddo, who I homeschool. He's currently 12. We're all shiny as the day is long. Hubs is the only one who isn't dx'd, but if he doesn't have it, I'm the Queen of England! Pretty certain he is Hyperactive type. I'm Combo type, leaning towards Inattentive. I suspect son is Combo type leaning towards Inattentive also, but it's a little hard to tell while he's still a kid. He may be on the AS as well, or at least has tendencies that way, which I think he got from my dad as hubs and I don't seem to have them. 💎
Sorry this is getting long. Time to get up and stretch, run around the house, or grab a glass of water. 😝
Okay, back to it.
MFP and weight loss, etc:
I've been on MFP since April 2020, and I've lost 36 lbs. I've got 16 lbs to go to my goal weight, but the last 20 are really kicking my butt (as in, I've really been struggling since I got to the last 20). I lost almost 20 lbs last year in the time it's taken me to lose 4 this year. ⚖️
I've tried getting friends to join me, but only one has, and she doesn't have ADHD so she doesn't understand the struggles. So I decided to see if any of my tribe were on here, and here you are. Hoping we can help each other to break through whatever is holding us back. ❤️0 -
sapphireswi wrote: »Hi Swaty here.
I was diagnosed with ADD in college. I always had great grades but I can never do one thing at a time, I am always hyperactive and get bored so easily and extremely impatient. I can grasp stuff real quick but I lag behind when attention need to be paid to finer details. Also I'm constantly grazing or nibbling. Especially when I need to concentrate on something, like during tests or when I am stressed.
My parents refused to believe the doc and never put me on meds and so I've been my hyper self for as long as I can remember.
It has a few perks ,I multitask all the time.
I can never study without the tv on or some moie playing that gets me really frustrated.
This sounds so like me.
The procrastination is a killer though.
And I just can’t DO anything that I need to do. The more urgent and important something is, the more I ignore it.
Meds don’t help. Concerta made me throw up. Vyvance is having no effect. Doc has just increased my dose to 70mg after trying 20, 30, 50. NOTHING IS HELPING.
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Not sure how active this group is or if I'll remember to check back, but giving it a shot-
Hi, I'm Diana. Not exactly new to the app but I am new to using the community. I'm 37 and was just Dx with ADD (among other things) last year. I've struggled with ED as a teen and weight fluctuations- I'm still trying to figure out how much ADD played a part in all that but one big barrier has always been meal planning, hyper fixating, and burnout.
I'm currently not able to get on meds but I am seeing a therapist and doing a lot of inner work, and beginning of this year trying to make small changes to improve my health. I started with just trying to drink more water and better sleep schedule, and for the past month or so been watching what I eat and using this app. Small adjustments have been easier for me to stick with, at least for now. I've been mostly sticking to my calorie limit, not obsessing over trying to hit perfect macros, and picking quick and easy items when I go shopping. It's an ok tactic for now, but my grocery list could be better and I don't want to end up burning out again. My goal is to loose much needed weight (need to loose at least 60 to get to a healthy weight) but also to improve overall health and hopefully help manage my ADD since I'm not able to do more than counseling right now. Hopefully I'll be able to find some info and ideas here to help with that.
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