Argh, some people...
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This is the "Single Peeps" group. Why do you assume all single people are allowed to talk about is dating or guys?Did you talk about guys or dating? I fail to see what this has to do with this group0 -
People are so cruel and they don't even realize it. I have had the same comments made, and I had a miscarriage, as well as trying for numerous years, and going through ALOT of heartached, etc to try to get that baby that never happened. I also have a friend who lost a baby within moments of his birth--again, comments are made with out thinking.
I am sorry, I found out really young that I couldn't have kids and now I am 37 yrs old and get called selfish. I even heard it from my sis-in-law when she didn't know I could not have kids and I said to her don't judge anyone because you have no clue their reasons. It's really hard on dating as a single woman, because most men around my age want kids.
And like these 2 posters, this is WHY some people should THINK before they speak....
Like some have said, her tone has everything to do with it. I've had other mom's act snotty with me because I did have my daughter young (20) and I only have ONE child. Apparently I'm less of a mother b/c I have no desire for 4+ kids....oh and the looks some have given to me b/c I'm content with just one and that yes, I do like that she'll be raised by the time I'm 40. Why would I want to start over?0 -
People are so cruel and they don't even realize it. I have had the same comments made, and I had a miscarriage, as well as trying for numerous years, and going through ALOT of heartached, etc to try to get that baby that never happened. I also have a friend who lost a baby within moments of his birth--again, comments are made with out thinking.
I am sorry, I found out really young that I couldn't have kids and now I am 37 yrs old and get called selfish. I even heard it from my sis-in-law when she didn't know I could not have kids and I said to her don't judge anyone because you have no clue their reasons. It's really hard on dating as a single woman, because most men around my age want kids.
And like these 2 posters, this is WHY some people should THINK before they speak....
Like some have said, her tone has everything to do with it. I've had other mom's act snotty with me because I did have my daughter young (20) and I only have ONE child. Apparently I'm less of a mother b/c I have no desire for 4+ kids....oh and the looks some have given to me b/c I'm content with just one and that yes, I do like that she'll be raised by the time I'm 40. Why would I want to start over?
Apperantly having only 2 is just as bad. Its funny cause I dont say anything to people have a bunch of kids but why do people feel the right to critize my choice to only have to.... And apperantly according to popular society I should also have kids from multiple fathers. They always ask if both my kids are from the same man and then ask if I'm going to give the Mr. NG kids .....:huh:0
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