What women do...........
AnnaPixie
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This tickled me......lol
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hahahaha !!!!!!!! haha!0
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I either shower or sleep. I've never wanted a cigarette after, even when I used to smoke all the time.
and if I had to finish the job myself I would just go home and never call the dude back (true story bro!)0 -
OK...I'm in the 4%. It's a rare occasion that I have to finish the job. This either says a lot for the men I'm with or myself in general....either way I'm usually a very happy gal! :flowerforyou:0
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OK...I'm in the 4%. It's a rare occasion that I have to finish the job. This either says a lot for the men I'm with or myself in general....either way I'm usually a very happy gal! :flowerforyou:
I'm with you. It has to be terrible(!) if I don't get mine.0 -
I love those numbers. Leads me to believe 86% of men are crappy lovers... and I’m thinking that is accurate which is why I laugh... I mean honestly even if you have an orgasm are you truly 100% satisfied with just one???0
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I do not pretend that I have been with scores of ladies but the ones I have seemed pretty satisfied when we were done.0
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guess that makes me in the majority ..not everytime but pretty much more often than not I would have had to finish solo. lol0
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I love those numbers. Leads me to believe 86% of men are crappy lovers...
or those 86% of women have issues with telling or showing their partners what they like0 -
I love those numbers. Leads me to believe 86% of men are crappy lovers...
or those 86% of women have issues with telling or showing their partners what they like
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I love those numbers. Leads me to believe 86% of men are crappy lovers... and I’m thinking that is accurate which is why I laugh... I mean honestly even if you have an orgasm are you truly 100% satisfied with just one???
Whoever said it was just one? And why assume its the man that sucks? Maybe the woman sucks which is why she can't get her own?0 -
OK...I'm in the 4%. It's a rare occasion that I have to finish the job. This either says a lot for the men I'm with or myself in general....either way I'm usually a very happy gal! :flowerforyou:
I'm with you. It has to be terrible(!) if I don't get mine.
Interestingly... most of the women I talk to complain that they *don't* get theirs. I love it when they do this because that's when I ask them why they're so insistent that I change my ways. Either way we're not getting our needs met by a man. The only difference is he isn't getting his at my expense.0 -
I am now curious about some things.
First off I will concede that most teen to early 20 something males often have little concern with a lady getting hers out of sex.
Okay,still though since most ladies here have stated that they wish to take a passive role in things is this a great surprise?
Have any dissatisfied women either here in person or one that you know ever once expressed that or taken an active part in letting a guy know what they do want or like?
How many women are under the perception that when it comes to sex they really don`t matter so suffer in silence?
How many women have constructed such a mystery/fantasy about sex/lovemaking that it is impossible for that dream to be fulfilled,thus they never "get there".
Guys...
Is making sure your partner,whether it be a one night hook up or a significant other,very happy she was with you a priority?
Do you view intimacy as a partner event or simply a way to get you off?
Do you listen or even try to?0 -
OK...I'm in the 4%. It's a rare occasion that I have to finish the job. This either says a lot for the men I'm with or myself in general....either way I'm usually a very happy gal! :flowerforyou:
I'm with you. It has to be terrible(!) if I don't get mine.
Interestingly... most of the women I talk to complain that they *don't* get theirs. I love it when they do this because that's when I ask them why they're so insistent that I change my ways. Either way we're not getting our needs met by a man. The only difference is he isn't getting his at my expense.
I'm not saying I'm in the majority by any means. I agree, most of the women I speak to have difficulties in this particular instance. However, only one of those women that had difficulties was as sexually open as I am (willing to communicate, experiment, the whole nine yards). All the others just waited until the dude caught on to what they liked.
What I was insinuating is that I am blessed in that it doesn't really take a whole lot for me to "finish" quite a few times per session - so if I don't get any then the dude really was that bad, or (in two instances) I was distracted by outside circumstances.
I did take offense to the joke that men are clearly the ones that are bad at sex when it's probably more often the womans emotions/insecurities getting in the way of it happening. I've met one woman (previously mentioned) that this wasn't true for, and she fixed that issue with a hood piercing. Since then it's been a nonissue.0 -
:noway: Ermmm I think it was meant to be a joke! :bigsmile:0
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:noway: Ermmm I think it was meant to be a joke! :bigsmile:
but many jokes have basis in truth. i know this one sure does.
some women are too squeamish about sex and their own bodies, so it's not a wonder that they run into partners who dont know their bodies either.
i'm always surprised at women who expect men to know their (the woman's ) bodies better than they know their own.0 -
OK...I'm in the 4%. It's a rare occasion that I have to finish the job. This either says a lot for the men I'm with or myself in general....either way I'm usually a very happy gal! :flowerforyou:
I'm with you. It has to be terrible(!) if I don't get mine.
Interestingly... most of the women I talk to complain that they *don't* get theirs. I love it when they do this because that's when I ask them why they're so insistent that I change my ways. Either way we're not getting our needs met by a man. The only difference is he isn't getting his at my expense.
I knew a girl in college who was dating her BF for years...and she said that she has never had an orgasm! We were all shocked.
I think women are all different that it takes different ways to have one, but I think a good man should be willing to try with a woman...and care about her orgasm!0 -
I think women are all different that it takes different ways to have one, but I think a good man should be willing to try with a woman...and care about her orgasm!
You're assuming he doesn't care.0 -
I'm in the 2% catagory...you know some corny romantic comedies show the woman asking the guy 'What are you thinking about?'? My boyfriend was joking around the one day and asked me...my answer was 'leftover pizza'....0
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I'm in the hidden percentage that aren't getting any but did mentally add up the numbers to make sure they equal 100%...
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Apparently women never cuddle after sex according to that graphic, which probably was not meant to be taken seriously.
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Pardon my being graphic here but have had some rather descriptive discussions with ladies as far as the subject of receiving oral (I am not a choir boy).
Almost all really really like to get it.
Almost all have a different preference for the positions and techniques.
Yes,as a guy I try to sense what a lady responds to but a little heads up on things is also good.
Communicate!0 -
I think women are all different that it takes different ways to have one, but I think a good man should be willing to try with a woman...and care about her orgasm!
You're assuming he doesn't care.
There are plenty of men that care about a woman having an orgasm, plenty that don't care if she has one or not. At the same time, there are women who care about having it and women who don't care or don't mind.0 -
Now that I have given the ladies in the group the vapors :laugh: as an addendum.
Guys,understand that most of the ladies were quite specific about how they liked things and if it wasn`t met they actually grew bored or annoyed.
Neither of which is leading to a happy time.
Now in the world of gender generalizations that everyone carps about I will go out on a limb as a guy to say this is pretty much uniquely female.
It is seldom if ever a guy will lose interest or even grasp bad sex so to us the concept makes little or no sense...all sex is great.
The point being...guys,ask and talk it out,find out how she likes things.
Don`t assume that because one lady liked things one way that every lady does.
You can lose and lose big here.0 -
I am now curious about some things.
First off I will concede that most teen to early 20 something males often have little concern with a lady getting hers out of sex.
Okay,still though since most ladies here have stated that they wish to take a passive role in things is this a great surprise?
Have any dissatisfied women either here in person or one that you know ever once expressed that or taken an active part in letting a guy know what they do want or like?
How many women are under the perception that when it comes to sex they really don`t matter so suffer in silence?
How many women have constructed such a mystery/fantasy about sex/lovemaking that it is impossible for that dream to be fulfilled,thus they never "get there".
I think so many of the questions posed to the women (I can't speak for the ones asked of the guys) can be relative depending on age and personal experience. God bless Kits, but when I was her age, things were not happening so easily for me (and a lot of my friends confirmed the same experience in their early 20s) and I was with someone who really, really, really tried! I've since learned that some things just get better with age.:bigsmile:
Oh and I'd like to add that a lot of women here have stated that they like being passive when it comes to dating and establishing a relationship, to be certain that the man is fully interested and invested in pursuing. I don't think that same sentiment extends to the bedroom unless someone also has a shy personality perhaps.0 -
I might take a passive role in some areas of a relationship, but sex is not one of them. If I didn't get mine, it's because a) I didn't have the heart to crush his ego, and just wanted to be done; b) He was selfish and really didn't care or c) I didn't tell him what I needed him to do.
A & B are deal breakers. a) If he's lousy in bed, there's no cure and to be honest if I'm going to be in a lifelong relationship, I want a good lover. b) If he's selfish in bed, he's selfish in other areas as well.
C will come when you are comfortable with your sexuality. If you know what turns you on and are able to share that with your partner, all is good.
So....I'm in the 4%. Sleep after sex. 0 -
I am not shy, but hmmm..am I passive? Definitely been guilty of catering to male egos (real or imagined by me). And of letting a man dictate how things will play out. And of being too impatient to really teach someone what to do. And being worried about asking for what I want.
Yes..it is challenging at times.0 -
Now in the world of gender generalizations that everyone carps about...
LOL me!God bless Kits, but when I was her age, things were not happening so easily for me
I do acknowledge that I am lucky as hell, but I do think a part of it is I am very open about sex, enjoy it a lot and do not give in to "obligation". I know a lot of women that have difficulty with achieving orgasm often aren't very sexually driven to begin with, or aren't very open with it. I am neither of those things.being too impatient to really teach someone what to do. And being worried about asking for what I want.
I will not TEACH a man how to have sex, that sounds horrifically boring and awkward. I don't do virgins. However, I have no problem with requesting specifics, or even experimenting with nuances... but he at least has to have the basics down pat.0 -
I haven't had a 1 night stand but it would be for me, whether a SO or otherwise. I wouldn't want my SO to be unhappy in that part of the relationship. And a 1 night stand, she could have friends. Word would get around in a good way. :devil:Guys...
Is making sure your partner,whether it be a one night hook up or a significant other,very happy she was with you a priority?
Both.Do you view intimacy as a partner event or simply a way to get you off?
As pleasantly distracting a nude woman is, I do my best to listen.Do you listen or even try to?0 -
I think for me alot of it has to do with trust.
I don't relax with out trust...atleast not totally. I can enjoy the act but not reach orgasm..
But I can't seem to get a man to stick around long enough to really build trust.
The one relationship I did have I was the teacher..he had no idea and was very repressed so my last sexual experience was being patient with him and getting him comfortable with his sexuality. All fine and dandy..but I don't want to do that again.
Is it possible to find a caring sexually confident man who doesn't just jump onto the next woman? So far for me no but I still have hope.0 -
A LOT of women can't even "get there" at all. I don't know the exact stat, but it's something like 1 in 3 women have troubles with it.
I have a very strong sexual drive. And I have no problem telling a guy where to go or what to do.
But it takes a lot of extra effort for me to "get mine". Even on my own... So some of the time I can, and some of the time I can't. (I didn't even get there for the first time until about a year ago) It's not that I don't know what I'm doing, it's just that it takes me a little bit longer... Usually, guys are willing to go the distance.... But everyone gets tired so sometimes I have to be in that last category. :laugh:0
