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poncho33
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Would you be more attracted to: The *kitten* kisser, who just agrees with you in a thread or The guy arguing against you with purpose??
pick on a general basis, if you write it depends on the situation you are dead to me.
pick on a general basis, if you write it depends on the situation you are dead to me.
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I went out with a guy once that agreed with my every word. This was NOT attractive! But agreeing doesn't automatically make you an *kitten* kisser, you may just agree!
Purpose sounds good. But arguing for sake of it is equally annoying.
Yep, depends on the situation..........
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I have teased (or complained as the case may be) in the past that most ladies say they want a guy who will not kiss their *kitten* (until they do take a stand) or that they want a guys opinion (until they don`t like it). :laugh:
I think it is human and as I stated in another thread,we all are colored by our unique interactions,it is hard not to assume a personal opinion is not universal.0 -
I am more attracted to a guy who disagrees and can argue his point. (probably from years of debate club) I don't genreally like people who agree with my everyword. I dont need a cloned mind0
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I doubt honestly that anyone can derive a deep sense of attraction to another based on
opinions expressed in threads. However I am fairly confident that most people tend to
prefer people who believe in something, versus someone
who simply agrees to agree. If someone agrees just to agree, it is insincere.
Then again it is person dependent, maybe an individual simply wants someone to control, then
maybe they would prefer the *kitten* kisser?0 -
I would rather a man speak his mind honestly. I don't want one that will agree for the sake of agreeing, just as I don't want one who will argue for the sake of arguing. If we agree, great. If we don't, tell me why you think that with the understanding that sometimes we'll just have to agree to disagree.
I think a big thing that comes up here is that there are so many variables in life and no set answer to anything. While it is nice to get opinions of others, you need to remember that is all it is.0 -
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Men with true opinions...shared or not are best! I hate a ***** that won't argue a point. But I also hate someone that always plays devils advocate. Opinions are important and also help determine if a person is compatible. A good debate never hurts but don't wanna disagree all the time.0
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Would you be more attracted to: The *kitten* kisser, who just agrees with you in a thread or The guy arguing against you with purpose??
pick on a general basis, if you write it depends on the situation you are dead to me.
probably the arguer, but that's because i really good at seeing things from different perspectives and i play devil's advocate a lot which ends up looking like arguing to people who arent comfortable with differing opinions.
but really though, neither would be my choice for longterm, so in that sense it would depend on which was hotter, taller and bought me nicer things :laugh:0 -
Why should either of these men be attractive? I say neither. I can't stand someone just sucking up to me (as someone else said, it's insincere), but I usually am attracted to men who are somewhat like-minded.Would you be more attracted to: The *kitten* kisser, who just agrees with you in a thread or The guy arguing against you with purpose??
My last boyfriend is a lawyer and argues for a living - he loves to argue and will never concede when he's wrong, so you can imagine I'm not so interested in someone who wants to argue with me, no matte what their purpose is.
It sounds like this is based on one thread too? A little text from someone online, either agreeing or disagreeing with me isn't going to form a basis of attraction. I met this ex-BF online and the attraction built over many months of exchanging words online and PMs, particularly from sharing personal info.0 -
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It depends on....
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Well generally I like anyone who can write or speak intelligently and make me consider a different point of view. For me though, it comes down to tone. If it is done in a clever and witty way, that will up the attraction factor. If it is only argumentative, never considering another opinion's merit and the person doesn't know when to drop it..or agree to disagree.. I find that highly unattractive.
There are two people in single peeps (one male, one female) who I love to read anything they write...whether or not I agree..just because of the style and tone.0 -
Why should either of these men be attractive? I say neither. I can't stand someone just sucking up to me (as someone else said, it's insincere), but I usually am attracted to men who are somewhat like-minded.Would you be more attracted to: The *kitten* kisser, who just agrees with you in a thread or The guy arguing against you with purpose??
My last boyfriend is a lawyer and argues for a living - he loves to argue and will never concede when he's wrong, so you can imagine I'm not so interested in someone who wants to argue with me, no matte what their purpose is.
It sounds like this is based on one thread too? A little text from someone online, either agreeing or disagreeing with me isn't going to form a basis of attraction. I met this ex-BF online and the attraction built over many months of exchanging words online and PMs, particularly from sharing personal info.
Nothing really behind it, just playing some "would you rather" but apparently this game doesn't work with women.0 -
I prefer a man that can argue his point. I mean truly argue it, not just disagree to be a pain, or has nothing to back him up. I love logic and a man that can prove me wrong or sway my mind! Hahahaa!0
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Well, fun and games like that certainly don't work with THIS woman first thing in the morning before I've had enough coffee.
Why should either of these men be attractive? I say neither. I can't stand someone just sucking up to me (as someone else said, it's insincere), but I usually am attracted to men who are somewhat like-minded.Would you be more attracted to: The *kitten* kisser, who just agrees with you in a thread or The guy arguing against you with purpose??
My last boyfriend is a lawyer and argues for a living - he loves to argue and will never concede when he's wrong, so you can imagine I'm not so interested in someone who wants to argue with me, no matte what their purpose is.
It sounds like this is based on one thread too? A little text from someone online, either agreeing or disagreeing with me isn't going to form a basis of attraction. I met this ex-BF online and the attraction built over many months of exchanging words online and PMs, particularly from sharing personal info.
Nothing really behind it, just playing some "would you rather" but apparently this game doesn't work with women.
I shouldn't go online until the caffeine is circulating and I'm fully awake! (My sense of humor seems to wake up a couple hours after I do.) 0 -
Why should either of these men be attractive? I say neither. I can't stand someone just sucking up to me (as someone else said, it's insincere), but I usually am attracted to men who are somewhat like-minded.Would you be more attracted to: The *kitten* kisser, who just agrees with you in a thread or The guy arguing against you with purpose??
My last boyfriend is a lawyer and argues for a living - he loves to argue and will never concede when he's wrong, so you can imagine I'm not so interested in someone who wants to argue with me, no matte what their purpose is.
It sounds like this is based on one thread too? A little text from someone online, either agreeing or disagreeing with me isn't going to form a basis of attraction. I met this ex-BF online and the attraction built over many months of exchanging words online and PMs, particularly from sharing personal info.
Nothing really behind it, just playing some "would you rather" but apparently this game doesn't work with women.
you mean besides the ones who answered your question? :huh:
seriously some of you guys in this forum are acting like your PMSing or something. go eat some chocolate, ice cream and watch princess bride. you'll feel better0 -
I don't want to hear what you think I want to hear. I want to hear what YOU have to say.
I don't filter what I say, and I don't want you to either. Sometimes it hard to hear the truth. But, usually, it helps. Now, if you're calling names, etc that's just not cool!!!0 -
Integrity always. Fake is just plain boring...0
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If he REALLY has purpose... Then the guy arguing with me. But if he is just making dumb *kitten* claims with nothing to back them up.... Then I'm going to die alone.0
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In general, I'd like my guy to stand up and challenge me. Keep me on my toes!0
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Would you be more attracted to: The *kitten* kisser, who just agrees with you in a thread or The guy arguing against you with purpose??
pick on a general basis, if you write it depends on the situation you are dead to me.
suck-ups are a turnoff
guys who just like to argue are a turnoff
i respect men who disagree with me not just trying to argue0 -
I would like to add a note: I do have a lot of friends that we "pretend argue" and we basically just troll each other with ridiculous statements until one of us gets out ridiculoused and then cedes by shouting something like "Hey, SHUT UP" or "No YOU'RE A DOODYHEAD" and then we laugh and go on about our day... that's fun too.0
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Agree with my *kitten* please and thank you.
Would you rather have to cut your own big toe off and be happily married or be single with all your toes.0
