New Year's resolutions..........
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Anna...time to move on. It's hard, but men are often blind. Don't waste your life waiting on someone to see the light. You might be missing some wonderful opportunities with someone better. XoxoAnna, my love .. I want you to move on from the love of your life. Your life is not over, therefore, he is not it. It isn't good for us to be heartbroken for so long. You are an amazing person and someone deserves to share in that!
Thanks sisters!! :flowerforyou: I know you are both right. I don't think I told you both, but some random psychic woman came up to me in a club this year. She touches my arm and out the blue says "Who is Tony? He loves you so much, but he's got issues. Back off and give him time"!
What the hell am I supposed to do with that??? :laugh: She is right. He HAS got bloody issues!! And seeing as he usually doesnt even keep in touch with me, the fact that he does now, is making me think that he's moving towards resolving them?? I dunno, it's so difficult when I feel we are so right for each other. AND I've just not met anyone else that even comes close!! I've not closed myself off to the prospect of someone else. It's just that nobody else has come along that I'm interested in.
I'm sure it will be resolved in 2013. 2013 is going to be lucky for me!!! I can feel it. I've taken too much sh1t over the last few years for it not to be!! :bigsmile:
That is so eery about the psychic lady!!I will post my resolutions later but I had to say that first!0 -
You too Pixie Dear!!!!! Maybe if you feel comfortable you can start another topic about your, um, "entanglement," so all your Agony Aunties here can send you HUGS and HUGS and MORE HUGS! I haven't been paying too much attention to The Boards recently - I have decided that Celibacy is a WONDERFUL THING! But I am so sad that things are confusing for you right now.... So. Sending You A Big New Year's HUG - first of many! (((((Pixie)))))
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I know exactly what I need going into this year, and I'm resolved to find him. And no, I don't mean the love of my life, either! Just the best lover of my life.0
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You too Pixie Dear!!!!! Maybe if you feel comfortable you can start another topic about your, um, "entanglement," so all your Agony Aunties here can send you HUGS and HUGS and MORE HUGS! I haven't been paying too much attention to The Boards recently - I have decided that Celibacy is a WONDERFUL THING! But I am so sad that things are confusing for you right now.... So. Sending You A Big New Year's HUG - first of many! (((((Pixie)))))
Haha! Bless you Jeneba. I didnt mention the 'love of my life' for advice or discussion or even sympathy,.,...lol...... Definitely dont want to talk about it. Far too complex to discuss in writing. But thanks for the hugs. I will resolve it this year........or perhaps next year.....lol...I think 24 hours may be a bit ambitious ! :bigsmile:0 -
I know exactly what I need going into this year, and I'm resolved to find him. And no, I don't mean the love of my life, either! Just the best lover of my life.
YaY Mara! That sounds like a good one!! :smokin:0 -
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Perfect. I'm going to show Slap this and piss her off about me waiting for my guy. Lol0 -
Yup, back to exercising and eating well.
Also planning to be more social than ever before.
Anna, He's crazy if he is not absolutely smitten over you!
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Well, I have been planning on excising more (and not just riding horses) plus eating healthier. Which means that today is the last day of eating junk food and candy.
I also have few pounds to lose so I try to be better at logging my food (even ordered a new phone that I can use the app on) .
Happy New Year
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Well, the week before Jan. 1st 2012 I got a bug up my butt to lose weight. Wasn't sure how much I wanted to lose, but I knew 180 wasn't where I wanted or should be. So, I changed what I ate (I was still unemployed and living with my folks at the time, Mom got serious too then). February I got my present job back in Columbus, at which point I weighed in at 165. I was happy with that, but I knew I could do better. When things started settling down and I could commit to it (when the weather improved, mostly) I started walking after work. 2 laps around at first, progressing to 4 laps (which I calculated at about 4 miles). I started to lift and run (C25K). At or around June I hit my goal of 157, and by July 10th, I was 143 (just a tad bit of down slide from not eating enough to maintain). At that point I stopped working out because I was afraid to lose much more (135 was the low end of healthy for me and I knew I wouldn't look good much lighter). I concentrated on eating more, leveled out around 147 (which I still am today). I'm, for the first time in my life, happy with what I see in on the scale. Now, looking in the mirror is another ball of wax. So, my resolution is to make more of an effort to put more time in at the gym and get back to working out. The first month of the year will be very busy as my man and I are moving into a bigger place before the 31st, so after we have moved in I will start committing 3 days a week to the new apartment gym until the weather gets better and lace up my tennis shoes and start walking again.
I know I'm at a much better place as I was in 2011-2012 now, so I'm just hoping 2013 gets better financially and physically.0 -
1) Re-focus on my eating habits... damn holidays!
2) Lose another 60lbs0 -
Hit the gym like a crack addict - got my last 5 lbs to lose and lift heavier to tone this body.
Start back running
Eat more healthier and start jucing
Spend more time with the new man in my life
Be more social and love more0 -
Hmmmm.... let's see.
1. It's a new year. I suppose? Really it's just Tuesday but whatever.
2. Resolutions....well I'm going to keep on keeping on. Time has proved to me that I've made differences in my life. Good ones, but it still doesn't explain why I'm up 15 lbs.
3. Maybe I'll get up the balls to go to new places by myself. Ugh. Maybe not.
4. Eat more oatmeal.
5. Keep having fun, but try to keep it healthy fun
6. Be a little more open to FWB. (this has nothing to do with yesterday's guy) I'm just thinking since I'm already in the mindset I'm gonna be alone for the rest of my life, I'd better get used to that idea or I'm gonna be a grouchy horny ol lady.
LOL.
That's all she wrote folks!0 -
Tomorrow I am taking my new "before" pictures, and then I will put my new plan into place. It's still in the works... But I'm going to be needing to spend a lot more time in the gym.
And finally, I need to make some friends. I'm not a very social creature, and I aim to work on that this coming year.
Sam, not sure what your goal is but you look great already. Guessing it is more muscle.
Also need to try to make more male friends. Only have a couple close male friends and a ton of female friends (not FWB :grumble: )
I am also going to focus this year on finding a new job. Mine just doesn't do it for me anymore, and I really want to get a job in a new state to kind of start over somewhere new.0 -
1. Run my first Half-Marathon
2. Work on lowering my BF%
3. Grad School
4. Move from Texas to Virginia
5. Become fully financially independent
6. Get more stamps in the ol' passport0 -
For a hobby, in 2013 I think I am gonna start using medicinal marijuana. :smokin:0
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For a hobby, in 2013 I think I am gonna start using medicinal marijuana. :smokin:
Move to CO or WA....doesn't even need to be medicinal!! Or is part of the resolution to jack yourself up so much that you need it?0 -
First...kudos to dbrightwell for best line in a long time...live child/date last night. Ha!
In 2013 I am going to do the following:
1. Give paleo a try - starting whole30 Jan 2
2. Lose 85 lbs.
3. Figure out and resolve financial situation
4. Move and reconfigure life
5. Do the bloody Grouse Grind
6. Not murder my snobby bridezilla sister before her wedding
7. Continue to develop my relationship 0 -
I don't usually make New Year's Resolutions but I feel safe in saying I'm keeping this one.
This year I am declaring war on the muffintop. I will exterminate the damn thing and be back in size 4s and 6s by this time next year. It will happen.0
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