"not from online dating" date tonight!!!

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  • Moe4572
    Moe4572 Posts: 1,428 Member
    Why are many of you not getting good vibes? Just curious?

    If a guy is interested he usually trys to set up the next date before the first one is over. You gave him two chances and he did not act on them before you asked him out.

    True.............to the two chances.

    I have never had a date that set up next date before the end of the first date--yes, they will say "we should do this again" or something similar but that is all....
  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    Why are many of you not getting good vibes? Just curious?

    If a guy is interested he usually trys to set up the next date before the first one is over. You gave him two chances and he did not act on them before you asked him out.

    Yeah....I'm gonna have to agree with the others on this. But, hopefully we're wrong!! :)
  • DMZ_1
    DMZ_1 Posts: 2,889 Member
    Why are many of you not getting good vibes? Just curious?

    If a guy is interested he usually trys to set up the next date before the first one is over. You gave him two chances and he did not act on them before you asked him out.

    Yeah....I'm gonna have to agree with the others on this. But, hopefully we're wrong!! :)

    If I am interested in a woman and things are going real well, a future date can be scheduled on the spot in general terms, such as "Let's go ice skating next week". Usually the logistics can be taken care of later.

    If neither party makes general plans for a future get together on the spot, it doesn't mean that there won't be a future get together, but it's not a sign that you are highly perceived by the other person.
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    Why are many of you not getting good vibes? Just curious?

    If a guy is interested he usually trys to set up the next date before the first one is over. You gave him two chances and he did not act on them before you asked him out.

    This isn't always true, I almost always say "we should do this again" even when I have no plans to ever speak to her again.
  • dbrightwell1270
    dbrightwell1270 Posts: 1,732 Member
    Why are many of you not getting good vibes? Just curious?

    If a guy is interested he usually trys to set up the next date before the first one is over. You gave him two chances and he did not act on them before you asked him out.

    Yeah....I'm gonna have to agree with the others on this. But, hopefully we're wrong!! :)

    If I am interested in a woman and things are going real well, a future date can be scheduled on the spot in general terms, such as "Let's go ice skating next week". Usually the logistics can be taken care of later.

    If neither party makes general plans for a future get together on the spot, it doesn't mean that there won't be a future get together, but it's not a sign that you are highly perceived by the other person.

    I think this is a generalization that is quite often true but far from absolute. I've had plenty of dates where I thought she was interesting and would like to see her again but I met her at a time when the next few weeks were really busy and I had a lot of tentative commitments. I usually don't commit to a tentative date because I don't want to look like a flake. I'll wait til other plans become more solid and then make more definitive plans with her.
  • Jennifer2387
    Jennifer2387 Posts: 957 Member
    I just got the feeling of not romantic .. but .. maybe you just aren't there yet is all I was thinking. Was the hug like a HUG or a hug see ya soon buddy hug?

    But it could be the way you are describing it too.
  • Moe4572
    Moe4572 Posts: 1,428 Member
    I just got the feeling of not romantic .. but .. maybe you just aren't there yet is all I was thinking. Was the hug like a HUG or a hug see ya soon buddy hug?

    But it could be the way you are describing it too.

    More of a casual hug........which is why I assumed he was not interested................

    I think, after reading all comments....he is unsure if interested and we will go out again, but there will be no rush on it. He is busy and when school starts I have one night during the week with no committment and then the weekends---he has daughter Fri-Sun every weekend.....so may not work anyway..........just see what happens :)
  • Jennifer2387
    Jennifer2387 Posts: 957 Member
    I just got the feeling of not romantic .. but .. maybe you just aren't there yet is all I was thinking. Was the hug like a HUG or a hug see ya soon buddy hug?

    But it could be the way you are describing it too.

    More of a casual hug........which is why I assumed he was not interested................

    I think, after reading all comments....he is unsure if interested and we will go out again, but there will be no rush on it. He is busy and when school starts I have one night during the week with no committment and then the weekends---he has daughter Fri-Sun every weekend.....so may not work anyway..........just see what happens :)

    Perfect attitude!!! :heart:
  • pammbroo
    pammbroo Posts: 550 Member
    You do have a great attitude about it! Good luck!
  • Carlyannabelle
    Carlyannabelle Posts: 621 Member
    How exciting!!
  • kimad
    kimad Posts: 3,010 Member
    Why are many of you not getting good vibes? Just curious?

    If a guy is interested he usually trys to set up the next date before the first one is over. You gave him two chances and he did not act on them before you asked him out.

    Yeah....I'm gonna have to agree with the others on this. But, hopefully we're wrong!! :)

    I also have to agree.

    I have been on both sides of a date.... had guys ask to see me again (I always agree even if I don't mean it eek) and never hear from them again. Recently I went on a date and I left going WOW I doubt I will ever hear from him again, and 10 minutes later I get a really sweet text and a 2nd date.

    I have read alot of relationship books and they all say to let the guy court you.... you texted him first after the date, which I personally wouldn't have done. That is just me, I let them come to me. But you did give him those 2 chances, now I would probably just leave it in his court.

    You have a good attitude!!!
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