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There are a few I'd probably approach, but it's tough to tell based on writing style if there would be any chemistry or not.0
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if you ran into any of us in a bar who would you approach just on looks? If you talk to us for 10 minutes, who would you turn away for personality?
2) Ladies, same question... ---- i would not approach any of the men in SP at a bar.
3) What # would you rate yourself? ---- i don't rate myself. i don't see the point. it doesn't really matter what i rate :-) some people like me, others don't. apparently online people think i'm annoying, whiney, depressed and i don't make sense. LOL i am certainly not everyone's cup of tea ;-)0 -
if you ran into any of us in a bar who would you approach just on looks? If you talk to us for 10 minutes, who would you turn away for personality?
2) Ladies, same question... ---- i would not approach any of the men in SP at a bar.
3) What # would you rate yourself? ---- i don't rate myself. i don't see the point. it doesn't really matter what i rate :-) some people like me, others don't. apparently online people think i'm annoying, whiney, depressed and i don't make sense. LOL i am certainly not everyone's cup of tea ;-)
No way, I think you are generally a sweet and sincere person honestly. I know I can be rough with my posts, but I think you are just trying to be happy, and find someone to be happy with. Yes I am referring to your previous threads.
I definently don't think any of that. I tend to sometimes be about "tough love". I probably shouldn't be all the time.0 -
I definently don't think any of that. I tend to sometimes be about "tough love". I probably shouldn't be all the time.
Like the time you emotionally stomped all over my inspiration thread?
Yeah.. thankfully you put your back picture up and after seeing that I had to let it go.... lol
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if you ran into any of us in a bar who would you approach just on looks? If you talk to us for 10 minutes, who would you turn away for personality?
2) Ladies, same question... ---- i would not approach any of the men in SP at a bar.
3) What # would you rate yourself? ---- i don't rate myself. i don't see the point. it doesn't really matter what i rate :-) some people like me, others don't. apparently online people think i'm annoying, whiney, depressed and i don't make sense. LOL i am certainly not everyone's cup of tea ;-)
No way, I think you are generally a sweet and sincere person honestly. I know I can be rough with my posts, but I think you are just trying to be happy, and find someone to be happy with. Yes I am referring to your previous threads.
I definently don't think any of that. I tend to sometimes be about "tough love". I probably shouldn't be all the time.
it's cool. really, it is. i don't let it affect me in any way shape or form. it just makes me laugh because no one i know in real life would call me any of those things. *I* am the person that people want to be friends with. i make friends every where i go, and talk to/ dance with anyone about anything ;-)
i am not trying to be happy. i AM happy. i love my life. all of it, even the crap stuff. i am actually happy on my own!! happier single than trying to date. believe me, for the next 12 mo i will not be actively seeking men to date and you will not see a single thread from me that sounds like ANY of those things ;-) LOL!0 -
I definently don't think any of that. I tend to sometimes be about "tough love". I probably shouldn't be all the time.
Like the time you emotionally stomped all over my inspiration thread?
Yeah.. thankfully you put your back picture up and after seeing that I had to let it go.... lol
You are right, I am sorry for being a jerk.
Seriously though, lets find our bravery pants people.
Call people out from singles, I wanna hear names!
It is honesty hour! Lets go!0 -
You are right, I am sorry for being a jerk.
Woah. Woah dude.
You earned this.Seriously though, lets find our bravery pants people.
Call people out from singles, I wanna hear names!
It is honesty hour! Lets go!
Haha, I already have done enough today. It's someone elses turn XD0 -
I definently don't think any of that. I tend to sometimes be about "tough love". I probably shouldn't be all the time.
Like the time you emotionally stomped all over my inspiration thread?
Yeah.. thankfully you put your back picture up and after seeing that I had to let it go.... lol
You are right, I am sorry for being a jerk.
Seriously though, lets find our bravery pants people.
Call people out from singles, I wanna hear names!
It is honesty hour! Lets go!
Well now I think you're kinda hot. Men who can admit it when they've been a jerk are sexy! :bigsmile:0 -
if you ran into any of us in a bar who would you approach just on looks? If you talk to us for 10 minutes, who would you turn away for personality?
2) Ladies, same question... ---- i would not approach any of the men in SP at a bar.
3) What # would you rate yourself? ---- i don't rate myself. i don't see the point. it doesn't really matter what i rate :-) some people like me, others don't. apparently online people think i'm annoying, whiney, depressed and i don't make sense. LOL i am certainly not everyone's cup of tea ;-)
In a bar, I'd probably say hey to Zach or Ricardo. Nobody else really caught my eye (based on looks). Sometimes I like the way Zach thinks, but other times I'm not so sure. But I'd hit it.
I'd say they're both in the "8" range.
If we were turning people away based on personality... I'm not gonna get into that, because I have nothing nice to say.
I'd give myself a 6-7 on a good day.
And for what it's worth, I think you're adorable and you're a sweetheart, 4.0 -
if you ran into any of us in a bar who would you approach just on looks? If you talk to us for 10 minutes, who would you turn away for personality?
2) Ladies, same question... ---- i would not approach any of the men in SP at a bar.
3) What # would you rate yourself? ---- i don't rate myself. i don't see the point. it doesn't really matter what i rate :-) some people like me, others don't. apparently online people think i'm annoying, whiney, depressed and i don't make sense. LOL i am certainly not everyone's cup of tea ;-)
In a bar, I'd probably say hey to Zach or Ricardo. Nobody else really caught my eye (based on looks). Sometimes I like the way Zach thinks, but other times I'm not so sure. But I'd hit it.
I'd say they're both in the "8" range.
If we were turning people away based on personality... I'm not gonna get into that, because I have nothing nice to say.
I'd give myself a 6-7 on a good day.
And for what it's worth, I think you're adorable and you're a sweetheart, 4.
thanks ;-) i think you're sweet and adorable too!! ((HUGS))0 -
2) Ladies, same question...
3) What # would you rate yourself?
Alright, I'll bite....
Who would I approach in the bar - Poncho or Zach. Although, I certainly wouldn't turn away Patrick or Cesar.
After speaking with them - I think Poncho and I would disqualify each other pretty quickly. No offense, I just think we differ in opinions in some areas. I think that Cesar and I would get along, but we have a lack of common interests. Zach & Patrick, I think our personalities would line up as much as needed to go on to the next round.
I'd rate myself as a 6, a 7 if I'm made up and going out.0 -
Me too! I'm a jerk!!! * waves *Well now I think you're kinda hot. Men who can admit it when they've been a jerk are sexy! :bigsmile:
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If I was going to approach someone from SP it would either be Poncho or Car81307. Poncho would end up being slightly too young. I am trying to step away from the late 20, early 30 guys. Need to get my head around that I am going to be 36 in two months. Car I don't know if our personalities would mesh or not.
I would rate myself about a 5 everyday but when I put effort into it I can be a 7. I still have some weight to lose.0 -
I think women tend to rate themselves lower than they really are and men tend to rate themselves higher than they really all. Not all men and women, but some.0
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Me too! I'm a jerk!!! * waves *Well now I think you're kinda hot. Men who can admit it when they've been a jerk are sexy! :bigsmile:
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Bahahaha!!! :drinker:0 -
Me too! I'm a jerk!!! * waves *Well now I think you're kinda hot. Men who can admit it when they've been a jerk are sexy! :bigsmile:
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You are right, I am sorry for being a jerk.
Seriously though, lets find our bravery pants people.
Call people out from singles, I wanna hear names!
It is honesty hour! Lets go!
So cute! :flowerforyou:
I am shocked no one has really mentioned SVCat. Are we intimidated ladies?
I think the people I'd most like to listen to talk are Patrick and Castadiva. But I'm pretty sure I'd be the third wheel on that one.0 -
You are right, I am sorry for being a jerk.
Seriously though, lets find our bravery pants people.
Call people out from singles, I wanna hear names!
It is honesty hour! Lets go!
So cute! :flowerforyou:
I am shocked no one has really mentioned SVCat. Are we intimidated ladies?
I think the people I'd most like to listen to talk are Patrick and Castadiva. But I'm pretty sure I'd be the third wheel on that one.
I'd love to be a fly on the wall for a Kits and Mike blind date!!! EPIC!!0 -
You are right, I am sorry for being a jerk.
Seriously though, lets find our bravery pants people.
Call people out from singles, I wanna hear names!
It is honesty hour! Lets go!
So cute! :flowerforyou:
I am shocked no one has really mentioned SVCat. Are we intimidated ladies?
I think the people I'd most like to listen to talk are Patrick and Castadiva. But I'm pretty sure I'd be the third wheel on that one.
I'd love to be a fly on the wall for a Kits and Mike blind date!!! EPIC!!
You just don't like PPV for UFC huh?
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Everyone! Considering I'd have to have a bit of liquid courage to do so :drinker: :laugh: . As for turning away, I really can't say without meeting face to face. It's difficult to judge from reading a post. Honestly people tell me I'm very laid back and get along with just about everyone. However if you are racist, anti-gay I'd turn away.1) Gents...if you ran into any of us in a bar who would you approach just on looks? If you talk to us for 10 minutes, who would you turn away for personality?
I'd most likely get along with Kitsune and jenbit. since I know they are into geeky/nerdy things and I think jenbit says she knows Spanish. Also Daisy_Cutter since she used to live from where I am now.3) What # would you rate yourself?
It just depends. I have my good and bad days, just like everyone else. 4½ to a 7. As Kitsune mentioned earlier, as I lose more weight, and my mind catches up with my body size, it'll improve.0 -
Well this is tricky, because you said "at a bar." At a bar I'm most likely one of the drunkest loudest people there, my competition being my friends... we are an extremely fun drunk, and I would hardly notice anyone that wasn't having as much fun as us. So if you are the type that would be repulsed by this behavior, I would not want to meet you, if you're the type that jumps right in... well let's rock and roll. As far as who I would go home with?? It depends how short your skirt is or how jacked up your boobs are!!
Now take booze out of the competition (I'm much more grounded) and I guess my girl Daisy would be cool to meet, Kits would be fun to argue with in person. Stickinthemud... I mean run, seems laid back and cool, pending the removal of the Clay Mathews jersey. Anna, would be cool to pub it up with. Sham is cute, but I'm guessing she thinks I'm half devil. I think me and Amazona would have some instant sexual tension.... Jenbit would be fun to hang with drunk, but I think our interests die after the booze. Anyway I'd meet anyone as this group is cool and we're (all of us that actually post) all part of it. Some of the best convos I've had are with people that I 100% disagree with... I actually think pa_jorg would be an interesting convo, we both seem resonable, even though we rarely agree.
I'd say I'm a solid 7, I've given up on anything to do with cool so I'm not being helped by style, lol. In my early 20's I'd say I was pushing a 9, lots of good things going for me!
Apologize to the OP as this has not been the **** storm I claimed it would!0 -
Without being a cop out, wouldn't approach anyone from here in a bar, but thats cos its not something I really do, rather than being about anyone here. If I'm in a bar I'm there with friends or if I do happen to be on my own I'm not on the prowl, so may talk to anyone or no-one depending on mood. Having said all that, there's some lovely ladies in this group, either looks or personality wise, just unlikely to approach any of them in a bar. If had to say someone, would be nolachick as she seemed to like my way of thinking on a previous (now deleted) thread, so would imagine we'd be on a similar wave length.
In terms of rating myself, looks wise i'd say 5 or less, taking anything else into account is too complicated.0 -
LOl this reminds me of when I was in grade 6 me and my best friend made up a list of all the girls in our class and passed it around secretly for all the boys to rate us..everyone wanted to know who LT (cutest boy in grade 6) rated as highest..LMAO..my best friend had the list and wouldn't show me after school she ran down the street and took off home..We fought and lost our friendship over that stupid list for a year. (Thank god we grew up since we are still fantastic friends today).
I don't want to rate anyone or be rated. Personally I think I have a pretty face and a body that sucks..but is miles better than it was 3 years ago..but personality wise I will make someone a great partner, we all have lots to offer the right person.
Are there some men on here if I saw them at a bar I would smile at them? Sure some of you are attractive physically..and some of you I would walk away from after having a conversation. Sadly there are some I might not feel the pull to talk to but if we did have a conversation I would be happy to chat for hours. Its all the game we play as single people.0 -
LOl this reminds me of when I was in grade 6 me and my best friend made up a list of all the girls in our class and passed it around secretly for all the boys to rate us..everyone wanted to know who LT (cutest boy in grade 6) rated as highest..LMAO..my best friend had the list and wouldn't show me after school she ran down the street and took off home..We fought and lost our friendship over that stupid list for a year. (Thank god we grew up since we are still fantastic friends today).
My HS, had a top 10 list to establish the 10 hottest girls of the year. This tradition started when the school was built and ran until my senior year... the guy in charge left the ballots on a desk and a teacher found it. It made national news, lol.0 -
Now that I have a bit more time I can actually answer the questions...
I would approach anyone that made eye contact with me. I've had lots of amazing conversations with all kinds of people so if a guy (or girl for that matter) makes eye contact and looks like they're open to talk, I'll go over and introduce myself. Whether we would actually get along or connect is another matter but I'd definitely give it a try. You don't know what will happen until you try. That's always been my philosophy... of course I did get shot down a lot when I was much heavier but as I've posted in other threads - I don't take anything personally from someone who doesn't even know me.
I would currently rate myself a solid 7 when I dress up and wear makeup. I'm more of a 5/6 when I'm not all dolled up.0 -
I’ll tackle this… Yes being 100% honest.
1) Gents...if you ran into any of us in a bar who would you approach just on looks? If you talk to us for 10 minutes, who would you turn away for personality?
Being in a bar and approaching someone isn’t my style. Sure I’ll people watch but I dont “make a move” rated on looks, its just not me. While at a wedding with the same amount of drinks I feel like I could approach anyone. Why? I have no idea. I guess it’s the atmosphere. As for talking to someone and turning away for personality…. Nah I’d be nice and keep the conversation. I just wouldn’t pursue or have the person feel like it’s a special connection.
2) Ladies, same question...
3) What # would you rate yourself?
Ugh! Tough question. I could be cocky and say a 10 but if that was the case I wouldnt be posting in a singles forum while on a fitness website. With that being said I do have a few things going for me. I no longer travel for my job which was a huge negative (avg. 270 flights a yr. for the last three yrs.) Im tall, clean cut and have the nice guy syndrome which seems to be a positive in most ladies eyes. I guess I would rate myself a 7. I think this question would be best answered from someone whos met me.0 -
I'll play! Even though I've not been single for awhile.
I would probably approach anyone in a bar. In fact, I do a lot. When I drink, I get talkative, and when my friends bore me, I go find new friends to talk to. This leads to trouble, like the other weekend, but I won't get into that..
As far as approaching and FLIRTING, I'd have to agree with the ladies on Zach. He's a hottie. He seems pretty down to earth (from posts I've seen so far, but I haven't been frequenting the boards as often lately). Poncho is definitely flirtable too! Personality always adds at least a few points on the scale for me.
As far as rating myself.. definitely a 6 on a day to day basis but when I get dolled up, a 7 or sometimes an 8. It depends on what I'm wearing I guess.0 -
Can I rate myself a negative number? After observing the opinions and 'standards' of men (in here and IRL) there's no way I'm higher than a 2 on my absolute best day.
ETA: Then add the fact that I'm a PhD student in engineering... and a geek with few social skills, AND a country bumpkin... not a snowball's chance in Yuma.
Well... you asked for honesty.0 -
Cesar ... um, hello? I'm into geeky things too, it's not just a PNW connection we have! heheheee :bigsmile:
Jim ... Ahhhh, you know we'd get along... and it'd be a ball. :smooched:I could be cocky and say a 10 but if that was the case I wouldnt be posting in a singles forum while on a fitness website.
Hey...you're definitely approachable! :flowerforyou:0 -
Who would I approach? Nobody. I don't approach people. I have always let people come to me in my personal life, as I'm shy and fear rejection.
What would I rate myself? I looked up a general gist of a rating scale and to me, it doesn't seem to match what the scale is in my head so I'm going to use my own scale. I would say about a 5, maybe a 6 on a really really good day where my hair is flowy and I look skinny. I would describe myself more as (and I hate this word) average looking. The only time I can ever remember feeling really pretty recently was my profile picture, the rest of the time I'm just average. So to me, average is about a 5.0
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