Who is in and why?

KravMark
KravMark Posts: 308 Member
Thought I'd start things off with a question: Are you in and if so why?


Mark
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  • KravMark
    KravMark Posts: 308 Member
    Here's why I'm in... I have taught martial arts for over 12 years and have always been overweight. The main reason is simple, I love food and use working out as an excuse to eat . For a long while i would content myself that I could do more exercise than my thinner counterparts but that excuse is over. I want my body back without these extra pounds and MFP supporters like you are helping me do that . Thank you!

    Feel free to add me to your friends list
    Mark
  • Dauntlessness
    Dauntlessness Posts: 1,489 Member
    I have been overweight my whole life. When I was young, I had severe childhood asthma and I couldn't participate in many sports or gym class. I was in little league softball and elementary basketball but I was almost never "played" because Id have an attack. It was more to include me. Therefor I really didn't learn exercise was a critical part of peoples lives.

    So, then I grew up with a bad family-too long of a story, moved out when I was 16 and I used food for comfort. Not until I attended a bunch of classes at the local college and lectures/conference type things, did I start to learn how to cope with my emotions and understand why I was overeating. I still do it when I am overly emo but I am trying hard to work passed it. Thats when my journey began. It just happened on its own honestly. I just woke up one day and started walking, then started eating better...it was a very natural process for me.

    I truly believe that its not just about food or exercise though. Its about changing the way you look at things and replacing unwanted behavior with positive actions. If you can change the way you think, you got this. Anyone can eat healthy and lose a bunch of weight but not until you address why it they gained it, it will most likely creep back on because the issues are still there. .
  • Sinisi2012
    Sinisi2012 Posts: 333 Member
    I have been overweight my whole life. After my divorce a few years ago I lost 52lbs, going from 230lbs to 178lbs in a short time, but I did it the wrong way by starving myself, so once I started eating more the weight started creeping back on. Before I knew it I had gained back 35lbs. I decided enough is enough. I am not getting any younger and I have MS so I need to do something now while I still can!
    I had a friend from work who invited me to join her here on MFP and I have been here since April of this year. When I joined MFP I had gotten back up to 213lbs. I am happy to say that I have lost 29lbs so far with support and encouragement from all these great peeps here! I have recently hit a plateau though and I am hoping that these challenges give me the motivation to get back to losing more, even if I don't hit the 30lb mark by Christmas, which I am going to try my best to do!
  • michelletr
    michelletr Posts: 218 Member
    I'm in. And it's because of selfish reasons. I am so tired of being the fat girl of my group of friends. When I met my hubby I weighed 100 pounds.....11 years and 2 pregnancies later I weigh 185. When I look in the mirror all I can think is ewww and wonder how in the hell my hubby can say he finds me sexy. I want to loose the weight so I can feel sexy. I'm not saying I want to weigh 100 pounds again, I don't! I was always sick when I weighed that, my goal now is 125ish. But I would like to be down to 150 by Christmas.
  • Hi there.. I am in because frankly I let myself go and then i got pregnant.. Soo here i am 5'4 at 187 lbs.. I would like to be about 140-150.. Where ever i feel good in that range. I am not making excuses but I got married 2.75 years ago to a man in the military.. our first duty station together was in Germany.. It takes 2 months for your stuff to get there!! I ate out every meal for at least 2 months. Let me tell you here in germany where everything is fried you won't last long at any weight.. sooo i was about 176 and got pregnant..(it is a great thing really but not for your body) My son is now 3 months and 1 week.. he was delivered by c section soo i didn't want to push it going back to working out too soon.. Soo here i am off to get fit.. and loose all this weight i have been packing on!!!
  • tessiscruisen
    tessiscruisen Posts: 84 Member
    I'm in for many reasons, to be healthy and feel good about myself again. I want to see pictures of me with my family and friends and think that is a great picture WITH me in it! Most of the time I revert to taking pictures of everyone else and never let anyone take any of me.... simply beause I don't want to "ruin" the shot. No more....

    I spent 7 years (2004 - 2011) going to school and never really had time for exercise or to worry about my eating habits, now that I have that behind me, I am ready to find me again.

    My best friend and I decided to take a ladies only cruise next April - I would like to wear a two piece bathing suit and feel good wearing it. I started walking 3 miles every other day and exercising at home the other days, with one day of rest. I am following the South Beach diet. And in 3 weeks I've lost 11 pounds. I know it only gets harder but I'm willing to do what it takes.

    PS, I'll be 42 next month. I'm happily married with 4 kids and 1 granddaughter.
  • ShaunaLaNee
    ShaunaLaNee Posts: 188 Member
    I'm in because, despite busting *kitten* for 4 months, I still love food too much, ready to see the scale move, or sizes dropping. I'm lifting heavy weights so it's either 30 lbs or 2 sizes before Christmas for me:)
  • Belle8312
    Belle8312 Posts: 2,151 Member
    Hey everyone,
    I have belonged to MFP for quite some time, but didn't get serious until last week. The reason behind that was because fitness is a huge part of my job (I am military) and I have not been doing too well in that department. I have always been the one that goes to school full time, works full time, volunteers for everything, has no problem working until 8 pm if necessary, but was never too good at the fitness things. Well, it is finally catching up with me and I realized I NEED TO CHANGE! So here I am.
    My ultimate goal is to lose 58 llbs, not with an exact date, but at least before it's time for me to get into a bathing suit and before my 30th birthday (next August).
    So I am IN to lose 30 pounds by Christmas, it will help me get closer to my ultimate goal and I want to look awesome at the work holiday party! :smile:
  • meb1118
    meb1118 Posts: 12 Member
    I have been a member here for a little over a month! I am finally ready to take this weight thing seriously. I used to teach aerobics and weigh 115 back in the day! lol! Recently I got results back that I have extremely high cholesterol and I am too young for that! My husband and I are both doing this together! We started Insanity on Monday and have taken up bike riding! I am excited to see the progress that we make! Our goal is to make all of our family members jealous at Christmas dinner! lol!
  • bianca_nichole
    bianca_nichole Posts: 5 Member
    I'm in! I was an athlete in high school and college and had a very physical job in college. Then I had two kids, got married, and got my dream (desk) job and gained about 25lbs. I workout regularly and do pretty well with sticking to my calories most of the time but the weekends always get me. My goal is to lose 30lbs or fit into some size 8 jeans I haven't been able to wear for way too long by Christmas!
  • cupcakes_
    cupcakes_ Posts: 274 Member
    I'm in because I have 30 more pounds to go to reach my goal weight. Let's do this peeps.
  • kelbax22
    kelbax22 Posts: 48 Member
    I AM IN!! I want to be healthier and have more energy. I am tired of being sluggish! I am tired of getting tired within minutes of doing anything physical! My 27th birthday is in 1 month so I am looking to lose about 10 lbs by then. 20 more lbs by Christmas. I have so many jeans that don't fit me anymore. I am not going shopping to buy a larger size!!
  • AeiriMuse
    AeiriMuse Posts: 254 Member
    Are you in an why?

    All of my life I have been either the bulky rock of a small child or the overweight or plump one as I grew up. My worst time was after I spent two years without sleep while attending a magnet school that tried to put too much on me at once for my conditions. I destroyed my immune system back then. It has taken me until just 2 and a half years ago to finally recover my immune system back to normal. At the beginning of my sophomore year in high school, I peaked 299.6 lbs while being 5'2".

    It was then that I ran into the video game, Dance Dance Revolution. I loved it so much that I played it every day, all the time. Over a summer, I lost 150lbs and shrank down to 4'10". During that summer my parents pushed the school system to let me go back to my zoned regular high school.

    The night before the next school year started, my mother passed away due to lung cancer--just after the summer Olympics ended. The next couple of years were hard, but I met many friends who kept me going. However, from there until now, I had gained another 40 lbs back.

    Now, all of my female friends are engaged to and/or married, and with the exception of one of them, I am the pudgiest. I've been selected as maid of honor for one, and I'm back up maid of honor for another. I, myself, have found the love of my life whom I know will one day be my husband--he just knows priorities and realizes that he needs to get me a car and possibly a new computer before he can turn around to get me a ring--and sometimes I don't understand how he can say that EVERYTHING about me is sexy. I've decided that it shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks of how I look but him, but I can't stand not being able to keep up with him while running or carrying things.

    When I restarted MFP back in July--when I started my new job as a security guard--I was ~190.7 lbs (5'0"). Right now, I am 179.4 lbs and I would love to challenge myself to try and hit 150 lbs by Christmas. If I'm already seeing the effect on my body after 10 lbs, I can only dream what I will look like once I lose another 30!

    Feel free to add me as a friend. So far, after I added a bunch of people as my friends here on MFP, I have found it easier to log in everyday. In fact, I'm a little obsessive compulsive, and I try to comment on as many posts from others as I can every day. :) (And when they comment on my posts, it gives me new energy that bursts my confidence to keep pursuing this new lifestyle of health and freedom!

    Let's kick 30 lbs in the rear!!!!
  • MrsCarrieRobinson
    MrsCarrieRobinson Posts: 90 Member
    I'm in! I am at the beginning of a very long weight loss journey. My SW is 279.8 lbs and my ultimate goal is around 150 lbs. If I can get to 250lbs by Christmas I will be one happy girl! This will give me good motivation and help keep me on track.
  • ItsFinallyHappening
    ItsFinallyHappening Posts: 65 Member
    I am in because I weigh 298 pounds and am so disgusted with myself I can no longer stand it. Seeing this has sparked a flame in me and I'm grateful to have you all to talk to about it. I love reading your posts, they are so motivating. Good luck!
  • KravMark
    KravMark Posts: 308 Member
    I SOOO enjoyed reading all of your stories and thank you all for diving into this with mJuse.. We are now connected by something even cooler than MFP.... a desire to drop some serious pounds by Christmas and send looks of shock & awe to our family and friends.

    Just wanted to add a couple things about myself.

    1. I am no fitness expert but I have been running a martial arts school for years.. I work out like an animal but I usually overeat my calories back.. I have never until last month tracked WHAT and HOW MUCH am I eating.. So in many ways Im am very new to this.

    2. I have been 20+ lbs overweight my whole life.. I just lost 10 in the past month and if i could drop 30 more by Christmas I'd be lighter than Ive been since I got into the Air Force 12 yrs ago after bootcamp.

    3. Im just a group coordinator and value all of your ideas and opinions.. I do not want this to be a group where me or anyone else bosses other people around or scolds people on their lack of progress.. If you hit your Goal by Christmas, AWESOME!! If not, but got close to it, its still a win!!

    4. Lets keep it positive and help each other to get to the next level of our journeys in weight loss and maintenance...This will be the best present you can give yourselves.

    Oh yeah... there's another Christmas weight loss group and if you want to join it Cool.. if not thats ok too. We're not connected but we're also not in competition either..
  • For me, it's about pictures. I love taking them and realized the reason I am always behind the camera is because I can't stand pictures of myself. I recently saw a sneaky picture my hubby took of me (without my knowledge) while we were on a walk and oh goodness.... it was gross.
    I too am sick and tired of not losing weight. I have the motivation but I need help with the willpower!
  • Golfgirl16
    Golfgirl16 Posts: 26 Member
    labellavita5:
    I agree I'm in for that too!! I just want to look and feel great again. Christmas here we come...hopefully 30 lbs lighter too!! Good luck everyone!
  • Im in! Ive always been the heavier kid in my family but not by a whole lot, then i miscarried and i got depressed. I gained over 100lbs. My family makes comments about how i went from chubby to horrible and they treat me like crap because of how I look (I didnt even look that bad to begin with) so Im doing this for me, but without their negative attitudes. Ive chosen not to mention my weight loss. Since I live so far away they have no idea I've lost 32lbs... I hope to lose another 30 by christmas so when I walk in christmas eve they all drop their jaws.. lets make this Happen!
  • Stardiva37
    Stardiva37 Posts: 169 Member
    Well mark we are already friends,but i have been overweight since junoir high and know it just time i have loss 53lbs and would love to lose more and plan on it. we also want to start a family and i want to be here for my honey and kid
  • DirtyStacks
    DirtyStacks Posts: 179 Member
    I'm in. I'm just shy of 200 days into this and an active group is always welcomed. I was 308 lbs then and not proud at all to admit it, but I own up to it. I refused to exercise and ate with wild abandonment.

    I am grateful for all my MFP friends who are supportive and I enjoy seeing people so excited as they make progress. The synergy is inspiring. In the last six months I have accomplished unimaginable feats of physical exercise that I never thought possible for me to do; certainly not when I tipped the scale over 300. I find the more I push myself, the more I can do. I am no where as fit as I want to be, but I am fitter now at my current weight on the way down than I ever as on the way up. That was over 16 years ago.
  • Dyana82
    Dyana82 Posts: 12
    I'm in.... Been over weight for about 11 years now. I'm going to be 30 in September. I'm 243lbs, 25 days ago I was 253lbs. The highest I have ever been. My whole family is diabetic, I'm not (yet). Went to the Doctors to get on birth control pills.... she told me flat out " NO your fat and have high blood pressure". I could not believe she said that to me. I almost started to cry, but I realized in needed to hear that. Since that day I was going to change my life around and lose the weight and become health.
  • ChasingStarlight
    ChasingStarlight Posts: 424 Member
    Well, I was always very thin like under 100 pounds in my early 20s and I really did eat what I like. Then my metabolism slowed and I stopped exercising and I put on 3 or 4 pounds a year. Add in few pregnancies and other events like a friend dying unexpectedly and in 15 years it crept up so I was borderline obese.

    It has taken over a year but I have completely changed my lifestyle and have passed my original goal and I now have about 6 pounds to meet my ultimate goal of 106. I never thought it would be possible for me to lose so much weight, but I have and so can everyone else!

    So I should only be losing in this thread for a short time, but I am a mfp of mark's and I am happy to support him and everyone along the way.
  • KravMark
    KravMark Posts: 308 Member
    Lexalotti:

    Thanks for being here and your support!! We can learn a lot from your experience. This is going to be a fun 4 months to Christmas :) its good to know we have some people in this group who are on the other side of the weight loss process.

    Mark
  • jlynn6810
    jlynn6810 Posts: 68 Member
    I am in! I am tired of every New Year;s having the same resolution ("to get healthy"; "to lose weight"; blah blah blah). I want to RING IN THE NEW YEAR a healthier me already. So my job is already done for next year and it can be all about maintenance :tongue: :tongue: :drinker: I have roughly 50 lbs to lose!!!!
  • I'm in - I quit smoking over 3 years ago & put on about 30+ lbs over that time. I have been trying to get it off & it's been really hard - not sure how much age is playing into it - 40+. In the last month I have finally got back to my workouts on a regular basics - no more vacations or work trips to derail me. Getting better control over my eating. I am taking my goals - what I call decades - one at a time. Right now I am in the 70's & want to get to the 60's then to the 50's - if I can finally get to the 40's I will be very happy. So 30 lbs by Christmas would be awesome so any pound lost is one step closer to my goal. Good luck everyone!!!
  • I am in. I have anxiety even writing this post. I feel I have "failed" too many times, I havent lost more than 23 lbs in 5 years, (and I have put back 10 of those) I haven't been under 200 in 6 years. And I wasn't always fat, so I know the flipside. I know how much fun it is to be thin and cute!

    Anyhow, I need support, accountability and motivation. Hopefully I can get it here !
  • rjsimpson2002
    rjsimpson2002 Posts: 115 Member
    :tongue: I'm in! Why - I want to lose weight and keep it off and not pile it all back on at Christmas. It would be so nice to look good for christmas parties and of course, now I really really really want to be an elf :drinker:
  • KravMark
    KravMark Posts: 308 Member
    Sounds like a plan ;) we can always use more elfs lol
  • Effpcos
    Effpcos Posts: 350 Member
    I'm in! I'd love to lose 30lbs by christmas but would be happy with 15. (I have about 65lbs to lose overall.)

    My motivation for a Christmas-specific goal is last year I ended up tagged in a bunch of awful photos (awful because I'm not happy with my weight and my mother had taken them without me knowing- you know the sort- taking a mouthful, pulling a face, scratching my eye!), and I don't want that to happen again!