I need support!!
alondrap25
Posts: 16 Member
Hi, I usually dont ask for help, but I feel in a big bind,.... We just got our house and my husband wants to go and celebrate, I dont want to go out cause Im already feeling guilty 
With all the stuff that goes on I havent been able to go to the gym since monday, and today would make it day 3, I have been eating healthy but I feel bad, I feel selfish for not wanting to go out and celebrate, but I feel regret that Im going to go back up a lot of pounds, I feel like Im fighting something I cant win. Should I go and celebrate with my husband and daughters?? I know it sounds mean and selfish, and like I said I dont usually ask this things, but I really feel at loss.
With all the stuff that goes on I havent been able to go to the gym since monday, and today would make it day 3, I have been eating healthy but I feel bad, I feel selfish for not wanting to go out and celebrate, but I feel regret that Im going to go back up a lot of pounds, I feel like Im fighting something I cant win. Should I go and celebrate with my husband and daughters?? I know it sounds mean and selfish, and like I said I dont usually ask this things, but I really feel at loss. 0
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I would go. What I usually do when I go out I order a big green salad with the right dressing first and then the main course.0
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First of all you're not mean or selfish! It says a lot that you are you concerned for yourself. My vote would be that you go AFTER you've planned ahead! I think it's important to go into situations like that prepared. Your family knows that you're working towards better health (I'm assuming) so not only will you be doing it for yourself, but you'll be able to model to them that you can live a healthy lifestyle and still have a good time. AND, you'll be able to prove to yourself that you can do it!! Then, when things like this present themselves to you in the future, you won't stress out about it. :-)
Now, if you're concerned that you're going to completely break under the pressure and eat anything and everything that jumps off the menu at you....I say - "YOU CAN DO IT THE RIGHT WAY!!!" Have faith in yourself. Remember what your goals are and all the work you've put into them. Go to the success stories page here and look at how far so many others have come! Put your face on those pictures and believe that every one of those people have been in the same situation MANY times and chose themselves OVER their temptations. I know you can do it!!! Go out there and enjoy your family and celebrate your new house!!!
Please tell us how it goes! :-)0 -
Thank!! Ill try my best to do the right choises, hopefully they dont vote for buffet, and chinesse even worse. But ill try my best to control my temptation.
Yes ill let you know how it goes. 0 -
you can do it!!!!0
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I did it, it was hard, and yes I did eat dssert but manage to keep it in a small porton. Thank for the support. 0
