Insult or good compliment?

Well I've been doing insanity and have been getting good results from it I posted up my results recently but everyone keeps telling me omg ur so skinny there are some ppl that say wow u look good but there are some that have negative remarks about it like that I'm overdoing it or I need to stop mostly my family my personal trainer says that when I get into asylum that ill build more muscle then cause ill be lifting weights well I'm really hoping it does

Them saying that makes me feel like I did when I was193 lbs and I would get made fun of n just go eat more well being 140 and them telling me that I'm looking sick n overdoing it makes me feel like I don't want to look sick I just want to look nice and healthy but I feel like now I need to eat more so they won't say bad stuff about me it really hurts but I try to keep it in I love the feeling of being thinner than I was but I just don't see myself as skinny as they all say I look

I just feel like when they tell me wow ur so skinny I don't know weather to say thank u or if they are telling me I am too skinny cause they really exaggerate their voice when they say it:((

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  • nkpham
    nkpham Posts: 6
    I can totally relate to what you are saying. I am not overly overweight but I do insanity to be fit and healthy and that is what you are doing too.People keep telling me I don't need to exercise because I am already an average size but sorry I want to look awesome and healthy/lean is my goal. Keep up the good work those people are just jealous and lazy that they can do what you do! Insanity is awesome and that is great you moving on to adding weight lifting it will make you stronger.
  • LadyMud17
    LadyMud17 Posts: 193 Member
    Hater are gonna hate,, just saying. Do what you want/ need to do :)
  • isis8319
    isis8319 Posts: 12 Member
    Hater are gonna hate,, just saying. Do what you want/ need to do :)

    I have to second this sentiment. Haters are going to hate. They probably are just not use to the new you. I can not wait to have this problem :). Keep on trucking.
  • IAmKellOnWheels
    IAmKellOnWheels Posts: 47 Member
    Hater are gonna hate,, just saying. Do what you want/ need to do :)

    This...100%! Then do what makes YOU happy, healthy, and ignore the rest!!
  • taffymangos
    taffymangos Posts: 60 Member
    Ihave to agree they are probably aliitle jealous. If you are happy with the way you look, then thats all that matters. There is nothing wrong with having muscle and toning that muscle. Good luck!:wink:
  • rezn8
    rezn8 Posts: 263 Member
    I hear what you're saying. My wife has told me a few people have asked her if i'm ok since i've lost so much. I'm right a little higher weight as you at 151 lbs. I started at 196.
    I feel great about what i've accomplished and I have just started Asylum. I expect a little mass to be gained, but really hope to keep my waist.
  • teamnevergoingback
    teamnevergoingback Posts: 368 Member
    I can totally relate to what you are saying. I am not overly overweight but I do insanity to be fit and healthy and that is what you are doing too.People keep telling me I don't need to exercise because I am already an average size but sorry I want to look awesome and healthy/lean is my goal. Keep up the good work those people are just jealous and lazy that they can do what you do! Insanity is awesome and that is great you moving on to adding weight lifting it will make you stronger.

    Every me should exercise, over weight, in shape or not. Do it to be healthy. What do YOU think? How do YOU feel? Some guy told me last night he didn't like my bangs... And? I think you've accomplished something great and if you're eating healthy and aren't 80 pounds at 5'10, I don't see the problem. Just do it right and be healthy.