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  • Breizier
    Breizier Posts: 221 Member
    Hello everyone,
    I am so grateful to have found a group where everyone is within my age range and dont make me feel that enjoying food makes me evil.

    I have struggled with my weight since i was about 19 - i didn't need to diet then, but foolishly thoughht I had to be the same size as my very petite fine boned friends, when i could give the 6 inches in heightt and was just built on a larger frame. CLick my profile to see the ridiculous list of diets that i have been on. THe real killer is that I have of course passed my ridiculous eating habits on to my daughter.

    I want to get rid of thhe weight for my health sake - and being slim (and georgous) is just a very welcome side effect. WHo am i trying to kid with that one.

    I do enjoy good food and wine and don't see the point in giving them up as they are an integral part of what makes life worth living.

    Any hints and tips that allow me to enjoy food and wine and still shift the weight are most welcome.

    CHin chin. Bea:drinker:
  • trekkermd
    trekkermd Posts: 3 Member
    Hello,

    I am a 46 year old married mom of 2; step-mom of 2. Three are now in college, and one is just leaving the nest, but our family life is still very busy with 2 going to community college and living at home. I tell my friends i never know what to expect when I arrive home...an empty house or one full of our kids and their friends, and most days I wouldn't trade that for anything. My husband and I are married just a couple of years now, and very active and busy, involved in community theater and keeping up with our family and friends, traveling, camping and our full-time jobs ;-).

    I am looking forward to learning and sharing on this journey. I would like to lose 35 lbs. this year. My first goal is take off 15, hopefully within the next two months. I have spent the last ten days tracking, no matter what, even if I felt I ate too much or exercised too little. I am ready to commit to doing what I need to do, which is keeping my caloric intake around 1500, starchy carbs low, gluten-free (I'm gluten sensitive), and a max 2 glasses of wine on the weekend only.

    I've been taking kickboxing classes which I love and adding more cardio at they gym 4-5 days a week. Moving forward I will be , exercising daily, even if I can only squeeze in a walk at lunch time. I'm also working at adding a regular strength training component to my cardio. I love cardio, but hate weights. I don't mind doing focused resistance with bands, a ball, and my own body weight...push ups, core, abs, etc. I have a set of dumbells at work and do triceps and biceps on breaks.

    I welcome your advice and encouragement, and I look forward to being a regular in this group. I'm beginning to read through the blog posts here and am so glad to find a community of like-minded women!

    Cheers!
    Liz
  • Hi. My name is Debbie and I just started MFP last month. My goal is to lose an extra 30 to 35 pounds. I’ve always struggled with weight loss since the sixth grade, and now, since being diagnosed with T2 diabetes, high cholesterol, and high blood pressure, I've finally started to take better care of myself. I’ve been walking daily using a pedometer, working out 4-5 days per week doing yoga, exercise DVD’s, lifting weights (7 lb. kettleball and 3 lb. dumbbells), eating healthier foods and measuring portions, started a food and exercise journal to help me to stay on track with positive ,seeing a nutritionist, and cutting back on fast foods and sweets. As a result so far, I've lost 84 lbs. since last March. I enjoy meeting new people, helping others, and am a great listener. Please welcome me and feel free to add me.
  • arainaken
    arainaken Posts: 12 Member
    Hi, my name is Araina and I joined awhile back, but never stuck with it or bothered to fill in my personal information. Today I completed all that and have MVP on my computer, Ipad and cell phone. I am determined this time and my goal is to lose 15 lbs. (Which I've needed to lose for years now) Was thinking of asking the doctor to refer me to a nutritionist, but this site may be even better. I'm starting menopause and I think I had my final and last period? I'm hoping that by joining MFP I will be able to get rid of my ever growing bloated stomach and other symptoms that arise? I exercise almost everyday, either it's Zumba, Water Aerobics, Walking, etc. Exercise only seems to keep me at the weight I am now. I will not quit exercising, because the moment I do, the weight starts to inch forward. I am looking forward to interacting with everyone struggling with the same issues. Feel free to add me as a friend, share recipes, tips and struggles. I am a good listener and love to learn from others. Wishing everyone much success!
  • shawneliz
    shawneliz Posts: 11 Member
    Hello. My name is Shawn (and I'm a girl!) I've been an on and off MFP user for a while but find myself so much more dedicated when I'm on! I'm 47 and have 3 boys ages 12, 9, and 7 so I'd like to stay healthy a long time! We live in upstate NY in the boonies quite a bit south of Rochester.

    I gained about 20 lbs when my youngest was born. Exercise is not my favorite thing so I really have to push myself. I try to do our elliptical machine every day for at least 30 min. About a year ago I started attending twice weekly yoga classes which I LOVE. Plus the dogs need walking! I've had problems with my low back and left hip, and this activity along with daily stretches and poses at home have helped my back tremendously. Now if I can just lose that 25 lbs that would help too! Boy is it harder since I turned 40.

    I love the Jillian Michaels podcast... She cracks me up. I'm trying to eat about 1200-1300 calories a day, and focus on more fruits, veggies and protein, and MUCH fewer simple carbs. I like the way MFP helps track these macronutrients as I would happily eat Italian bread and chocolate chips cookies all day, sigh.

    P.S. I need friends!
  • gaylenef
    gaylenef Posts: 10 Member
    Hi everyone. My name is Gaylene, and I live in Alberta Canada. I am a safety specialist in the Tar Sands, and often work strange shifts and many days in a row (18 12hr shifts when on a shutdown). I have never been slim, but gained 40 pounds after quitting smoking (yay me!), and then another 35 when I moved up here. I joined MFP a year ago, then quit logging and gained back everything I had managed to lose. I re-started my weight loss journey in january, and am down 24 pounds so far. I figure another 40-45 pounds and I should be a much healthier happier individual. I look forward to learning from you all, as there seems to be significant weight loss in this group and I'm finding it much harder work now that I'm on the downhill slide to nifty fifty.
  • mlerand62
    mlerand62 Posts: 85 Member
    Hi, my name is Marilyn. I am enjoying my last month of being 50. I have been married for 32 years and have two grown children. My boy is working and my daughter has just less than three semesters of college left. YES!

    I used MFP last year and lost around 25 pounds. Thinking I was well on my way I quit logging on and gained every pound plus some back. I rejoined after I lost those extra pounds and got back on here. I weighed in at 269 and want to get into the One-hundred numbers again. It has been a very long time. I am not aiming for skinny. I want to be a healthy weight and active. I tend to be a private person so joining this group is a huge step for me. I am trying to get away from processed foods. I love to cook.

    I live in central Idaho and hoping for warm enough weather to start walking after work again next week when the time changes. I have a black lab and he's raring to go exploring. I don't like walking in the dark. I have a huge yard to mow and love to garden. So look out spring & summer... HERE I COME.
  • dazzo62
    dazzo62 Posts: 78
    Hi ! My name is Rita. I will be 51 in April. I live in western NJ.

    My stepkids are older, grown and gone - I am a grandmother.

    I have been kind of stuck at home lately - and I basically live 10 miles from anything! so I am very happy having the MFP community to support me.

    I haven't been able to attend my regular Weight Watcher meetings - fighting 5 lbs. I would really like them gone (for good)!
  • KeysGirl23
    KeysGirl23 Posts: 117 Member
    Hello There. My friends call me E and live in the Southernmost City. I really think this group will be interesting and fun. I was on this site last year and lost 30 lbs then had my own health surprise :-P. Now that that's done and almost over with I am ready to say adios to my final 15lbs before a trip to Mexico this fall.
  • j_masher
    j_masher Posts: 18 Member
    Hi! I am joining after seeing Ms Alice post in the forum today.

    I am 43 and on the journey to get as healthy as I can as I deal with being a small business owner, furbaby mom, caregiver, accountant, lawn maintenance and home maker. Many know the drill. I was dx with full blown Celiac nearly 8 years ago after being underweight and once I went GF I ballooned. lol I do lower carb to help with estrogen dominance and it is easier because GF diet made me forgot about homemade yeast rolls. :) Some days I am so busy that I have trouble hitting the magical number of calories. I really just try to listen to my body. I got hooked on Zumba because I was a dancer in a previous life. I do dvds at home and I also have had femoral hernia repair, so I am slowly adding weights now with the Sentao routine but have to take it easy. I lost 28 lbs last year and took a break from "exercise" because I had to take care of pressing business issues and life. I try to respect everyone's choices as to how they approach their journey and hope everyone finds success and a road map that works for them.
  • lyndalpn
    lyndalpn Posts: 151 Member
    H girls :)

    I'm Lyndal, from Australia and Im 42. Im a doctor (dont hold it against me!) and having fun losing weight ... my rpofile says heaps more, but Im at work so this is a quick check in :) Oh, and I also have a facebook page about weight loss called https://www.facebook.com/LeanGreenAndHealthy

    Cheers
    Lyndal
  • akp4Him
    akp4Him Posts: 227
    Hello....Saw the group and decided I was in the right group finally. My name is Ann. I live in Oklahoma. I am 48 years old, 5'2", I've lost 90 pounds. I'm here to lose the last 10 and then to continue to log for the rest of my life.
    I have been married to my husband for 21 years. We have 7 kids (19years old down to 8 years old). We homeschool them. The oldest is now in college.
    I have always been on the "husky" side growing up. I battled my weight losing and gaining...losing and gaining. I gained about 10 pounds per child that stuck each time. I had a late term miscarriage in 2008. I decided I was entitled to be a frumpy, obese mom. I quit trying and managed to balloon to 215. In 2011, a friend mentioned losing a few pounds so her clothes would fit better. I thought it was a good idea so I joined her. It seemed hard at first...but once I started...I never stopped. It took me a year and a half to lose the 90 pounds. Then I found MFP. It makes logging everything SO much easier!
    Looking forward to chatting and encouraging!!
  • AquaFan
    AquaFan Posts: 309 Member
    Hello ladies. My name is Tammy and I'm a 41 year old wife, mom and Paralegal from Florida. My boys are 13 and 10 and hubby and I celebrate our 20th anniversary this year.

    I'm 5'1" and trying to lose 25 lbs. I did it once several years ago using weight watchers and the treadmill, then I fell off the wagon and gained it back. I am currently journaling everything I eat and trying to get back to regular exercise. Now that time has changed I can add my regular walks back into my evenings and hopefully start running again.

    Can't wait to get to know you all. :)
  • madyooch
    madyooch Posts: 63 Member
    Hello Ladies!!

    My name is Mary - I'm 42. I live in Upstate NY and in the heart of the Fingerlakes wine country....:))))

    I have 1 husband, 2 daughters, 1 cat who thinks he's a dog & 1 dog who thinks she's a cat. I work full time and my girls are 11 & 13 ....teenagers............. :/

    I have struggled with my weight for most of my adult life ( after my 1st 11 pound daughter was born ).
    I have been on weight watchers, shake diets, atkins, juicing diets, etc etc etc.

    Recently I turned 40 and decided I am NOT dieting anymore but embracing this new lifestlye of healthy eating. Unfortunately I 'forgot" to add exercise until recently and WOW what a difference. When I turned 40 I was 258lbs and at 42 (w/o exercise) 248lbs. In the last few months I joined my local YMCA and have been exercising 4-5 days a week for 30 minutes and OMG I've lost 8 pounds in 3 months. I just weighed in at 240- So I've learned that exercise ALONG with healthy eating is key.
  • JVCB
    JVCB Posts: 63 Member
    Hi all... I'm Jayne from Colorado. I'm tall (5'11") and my "goal weight" is about 172. I saw Alice's post on the 1200-Calories-A-Day thread, and knew I had to come check out your Group. I'm tired of hearing about the 30-Day Shred and eating my TDEE less 15% (hah! try being post-menopause, you self-righteous kiddies!)
    In 28 more days I will be 60 :noway: I've gained about 45 pounds in the past 7 years and am now ready to stop drinking wine every night and eating salty snacks, which are my downfall.
    I joined MFP last summer just to see what it was all about, but never got started. 6 months later, I weighed 9 pounds more... and I decided it was time to face reality. I started tracking and being serious in January. I'm losing weight sloooowly at 1200 calories a day. I love to cook (and eat!) and I even allow myself one glass of wine once in awhile...:drinker: but no more "low fat" potato chips!
    My biggest problem is that I have a bad back (DDD, stenosis, arthritic facets) which makes it very hard to exercise. In January I dusted off my fancy Treadmill and started very slowly, finally working my way up to 3mph and about 2 miles per day. I had lost about 13 pounds in 8 weeks, and then my bad back decided (as it always does) that it would teach me once and for all that it does NOT like to exercise... not even simple walking. I've been stuck in a recliner chair with ice packs for the past 2 weeks and have gained back 2 pounds. I'll find out later this week what my new MRI scan showed; until then, I'm just going to have to do it by eating wisely.
    I look forward to checking in to see any tips and tricks you other Ladies have discovered during your journey. :flowerforyou:
  • GetFit1129
    GetFit1129 Posts: 35 Member
    Come over to the Menopause group Mary! We can relate, promise!
  • GetFit1129
    GetFit1129 Posts: 35 Member
    Sorry, not Mary. Jayne.
  • JVCB
    JVCB Posts: 63 Member
    Come over to the Menopause group Mary! We can relate, promise!

    Thanks for the invite! It looks like there are several, which is the "best" one?
  • jlrabil
    jlrabil Posts: 1 Member
    Hello :) Im a 44 year old Grandma of one fantastic almost 2 year old. I am gluten free and love to cook amazing food. I love to go out to lunch, lift heavy weights and take long romantic walks to the wine rack. I would love to swap recipes and ideas with other gluten free ladies! I
  • :flowerforyou: Hi Ladies,

    My name is Cynthia. I live in Naples Florida. I turned 46 on March 7th and weighed in at 289 lbs.
    I have decided to make the rest of my life the best of my life. Can't stand the site of myself any longer. I could also do quite well without the pain in my knees/feet/hips from the extra weight I am trucking around. I play tennis 4 x's a week I stand 5'10 and have a large frame, but that just doesn't cut it anymore.
    I am fat.
    Hoping to get healthy again and feel better about myself.
    Cynthia
  • JVCB
    JVCB Posts: 63 Member
    Hello :) Im a 44 year old Grandma of one fantastic almost 2 year old. I am gluten free and love to cook amazing food. I love to go out to lunch, lift heavy weights and take long romantic walks to the wine rack. I would love to swap recipes and ideas with other gluten free ladies! I
    Welcome! I'm a newbie too, but I love your "long romantic walks" comment. I'm not gluten free, but my stepdaughter is.... what a pain... until you get used to it, I guess.
  • JVCB
    JVCB Posts: 63 Member
    :flowerforyou: Hi Ladies,

    My name is Cynthia. I live in Naples Florida. I turned 46 on March 7th and weighed in at 289 lbs.
    I have decided to make the rest of my life the best of my life. Can't stand the site of myself any longer. I could also do quite well without the pain in my knees/feet/hips from the extra weight I am trucking around. I play tennis 4 x's a week I stand 5'10 and have a large frame, but that just doesn't cut it anymore.
    I am fat.
    Hoping to get healthy again and feel better about myself.
    Cynthia
    Welcome Cynthia, from another Newbie to the Group. I know what you mean about being able to get by carrying extra weight when you're tall.... until you CAN'T cut it anymore. There's only so many bigger sizes left to go! When I hit the 2X, I knew I was in big BIG trouble.
    I'm very impressed by your playing tennis... good for you!!
    Jayne
    Jayne
  • ctyre
    ctyre Posts: 11 Member
    Hi, my name is Carol and I was delighted to find this group. I lost a ton of weight about 9 years ago, was super active and feeling great. Then I hurt my knee, surgery, combined with he onset of menopause and it was all downhill from there 5 lbs at a time. I now find myself, at 55 years old, 50 lbs overweight and struggling every day trying to lose weight, eating 1200 cals a day. I wish I had of listened when people told me how tough it would be to lose weight after menopause!
    Now I am entering the next phase of my life and I am excited for all the opportunities I will have to have fun. I have a terrific family, lovely husband, 2 beautiful granddaughters, great job. Fit in my fifties will be better than fat in my fifties. One letter difference, that is the challenge. So grateful to have found MFP and to have access to all the support in this community!
    Cheers
    Carol
  • Hi my name is Lauren and I'm here to find ways to en find healthy ways of making tasty foods for get togethers and when going out to eat
  • peggiweg
    peggiweg Posts: 2
    Hello everyone. I'm 54 in Jacksonville, FL. I started back to healthy lifestyle and have been running again. Just did 15K and was very happy with the result. Unfortunately the weight isn't coming off as easily as I had hoped. Oh well. I'm hoping to find the encouragement to stay the course and focus on my overall health rather than letting myself be discouraged by the number on the scale. Glad to join this group!
  • Hello Ladies! I just joined yesterday. I don't have a lot to lose (been there done that years ago - my profile is public) but I would love to finally gain some confidence! Sadly, I have very little :frown: I have been reading tons of posts and then found this group. I am so excited to have finally found some like-minded women! If you read my bio, you'll see I moved across the country fairly recently, and have not really made friends yet. I am the mother of 2 daughters aged 25 & 27 and one son who is 21. I also have a granddaughter who is 8. They all live so far away and I miss them terribly! :heart: :sad:

    But, I will prevail! I have to remember that this is "ME" time now! :wink:
    Thanks in advance everyone, I know I'll find some inspiration here!

    Cheers! :drinker:
    Sue
  • kerri55345
    kerri55345 Posts: 11 Member
    Hi ladies, I am new to the group too and would like to add some friends to help keep each other motivated and share food and exercise ideas with. I am 44 years old and have yo yo dieted for years. I am new to MFP but am really enjoying the tools and the communities.

    Thanks so much!
    Kerri:smile:
  • AndreaD72
    AndreaD72 Posts: 34 Member
    I am Andrea. I will be 41 in May. I am " back on the wagon" getting healthy. I live in Vegas and own a PR/Social Media company. I work hard, play hard.

    We don't have any children. We do have two dogs however. Both rescues.

    I am on goal to lose 168lbs!
  • AndreaD72
    AndreaD72 Posts: 34 Member
    Welcome!
  • dandelioncoach
    dandelioncoach Posts: 20 Member
    Hi all!

    My name is Bridge. I live in Portland OR. I am 4 lbs into my plan to lose 51 lbs. I'm 43 and have found that my body does not respond the way it used to. I've been creeping up in weight for about 7 or 8 years, and minor adjustments just don't cut it anymore. I work from home and weave in as much activity as I can to my day so that I can dine, drink, and shrink! In my heart I wish that it were possible for me to just eat clean whole foods, listen to my body,s hunger and fullness cues, and settle at a balanced weight that I can be happy with, but that strategy just hasn't been working. I have been dealing with dying and ailing parents over the last couple of years too, which certainly seems to bring on the stress eating! As well as lots of visiting with family, and more eating! I am absolutely loving MFP. I am a sucker for a new project! As much as I have always hated exercise, the direct link between the moving my body and the access to more food is really a motivator. I suddenly can't get enough of it! Just bought a treadmill tonight in fact! I am a woman on a mission and there's no turning back now!