Size matters

jenbit
jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
So a couple of male and females friends were talking about this subject on saturday night, Since it was an interesting discussion IRL I thought I'd bring it to the board....


Now by size were not just talking about males but females too..... Most people don't know that just like men are different legnths and girths so are women.

Ladies have you ever had a guy to big for you ...... or someone too small...

Guys ever feel like a hotdog down a hallway or like she was trying to break it off?........

Share stories.....

And yes size matters :smokin:

Replies

  • AZ_Gato
    AZ_Gato Posts: 1,270 Member
    I've had both...the last relationship I was in, she was too small and winced every time I went too fast. She constantly wanted missionary position and said that she couldn't handle any other position. At same time, I've been with other ladies that were "big"...I think there are ways to compensate when that happens. I found that I'd rather have too big than too small.
  • Moe4572
    Moe4572 Posts: 1,428 Member
    Yes, to too big....and yes, to too small.

    When too big, there is not much you can do

    When too small, changing positions helps TREMENDOUSLY, and he compensated in other ways..........
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    Yes, to too big....and yes, to too small.

    When too big, there is not much you can do

    When too small, changing positions helps TREMENDOUSLY, and he compensated in other ways..........

    lol I had one guy friend who used to say his tongue made up for his lack of legnth........... Also nothing worse than a thin girth guy
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    I've never had too big, but I have had too small - I'm going to do a TMI warning here. Please ignore the text in the middle if you don't want to see graphic PG-13 comments.


















    Considering my kegels are so strong I can push tampons out without any assistance from my hands, saying a guy has been "too small" is definitely saying something.















    I find that for me it's more about what a guy wants to do than anything. I've been bored with big ****s because they have zero imagination, and been thrilled with average because they're willing to make Fifty Shades Of Grey wince.
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    ^^^^^ Side note to go with Kits statement.... Nothing is more fun then the first time you do a kegel with a guy inside you...They always seem to love it lol :bigsmile:


    Carry on
  • AZ_Gato
    AZ_Gato Posts: 1,270 Member
    I've never had too big, but I have had too small - I'm going to do a TMI warning here. Please ignore the text in the middle if you don't want to see graphic PG-13 comments.



    BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH...she doesn't want to be quoted BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH

    My ex had excellent kegels...so much so that one day when at gym, her gyno actually "complimented" her by telling me that my wife had excellent kegels and that I should be proud.

    That being said, a woman with excellent kegels kills me! Makes me feel like I am a premature ejactulator!
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    You guyyysssss at least edit out my TMI statement if you're going to quote it!! :embarassed: :embarassed: :embarassed: :embarassed:
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    ^^^^^ Side note to go with Kits statement.... Nothing is more fun then the first time you do a kegel with a guy inside you...They always seem to love it lol :bigsmile:


    Carry on
    That being said, a woman with excellent kegels kills me! Makes me feel like I am a premature ejactulator!

    I had a guy complain once. He was trying to blame me because he was pushing rope. :yawn: Needless to say that didn't go anywhere fast. :yawn:
  • AZ_Gato
    AZ_Gato Posts: 1,270 Member
    You guyyysssss at least edit out my TMI statement if you're going to quote it!! :embarassed: :embarassed: :embarassed: :embarassed:

    I edited...BLAH BLAH BLAH.
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    You guyyysssss at least edit out my TMI statement if you're going to quote it!! :embarassed: :embarassed: :embarassed: :embarassed:

    I edited...BLAH BLAH BLAH.

    Arigato Gozaimasu! th_Domo_Arigato-The_Bow_Emoticon.gif
  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    Too big has never been a problem.... girth or length. Length did hurt a little, but we just changed positions and all was well... he had no complaints. :) My biggest complaint is that the bigger they are the less they try to please (most times)....

    Too small... I've had a few small guys ... no girth issues but length was made up for in other ways. I did my best to pretend it wasn't an issue. I think he bought it? Anyway.... he definitely made up for it in other areas so I didn't care.
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    Too big has never been a problem.... girth or length. Length did hurt a little, but we just changed positions and all was well... he had no complaints. :) My biggest complaint is that the bigger they are the less they try to please (most times)....

    Too small... I've had a few small guys ... no girth issues but length was made up for in other ways. I did my best to pretend it wasn't an issue. I think he bought it? Anyway.... he definitely made up for it in other areas so I didn't care.

    I've only had 1 guy who was endowed who didn't think he had to try because he was 'lucky".....He got 2 rides on the merry go round and bye bye....

    Now I have had 1 guy who was small and he really didn't seems to understand that he had to do more....

    One thing I have noticed with guys who have legnth or girth (BTW girth is better then legnth) is most of them like to "warm" you up first to prepare you I guess .......:bigsmile:
  • UrbanLotus
    UrbanLotus Posts: 1,163 Member
    One thing I have noticed with guys who have legnth or girth (BTW girth is better then legnth) is most of them like to "warm" you up first to prepare you I guess .......:bigsmile:

    They ALL need to warm you up, no matter what size! Totally agree that girth is more important than length - every woman I know says this but most guys seem to focus on length for some reason.

    I've seen 2 that were so big that I had to tap out before we got started lol. Scary!

    Unfortunately my last boyfriend had a micropeen - like I seriously think it was a medical issue, it was literally the size of my thumb, and probably even not as girthy :(. We never really had sex - we tried once or twice but he always had some excuse (allergic to latex, not tested yet, etc). I tried to go down on him a few times but it just felt so weird, he wouldn't get very hard either - he would stop me after a few seconds. We were together for 4 months and this was the elephant in the room, I just gave up on BJs and sex after a few tried and he never brought it up. He went down on me constantly so I was satisfied that way - but that made me realize that I DO need a d!ck too (before this experience I thought I could survive on tongue alone lol).
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    Unfortunately my last boyfriend had a micropeen - like I seriously think it was a medical issue,

    Yep

    http://www.news-medical.net/health/What-is-Micropenis.aspx
  • Roadie2000
    Roadie2000 Posts: 1,801 Member
    Anything bigger than a D-cup is almost too much. I actually don't mind A-cups, they're still fun to play with, just not as much fun to look at.
  • UrbanLotus
    UrbanLotus Posts: 1,163 Member
    Unfortunately my last boyfriend had a micropeen - like I seriously think it was a medical issue,

    Yep

    http://www.news-medical.net/health/What-is-Micropenis.aspx

    Yeah I know it exists, just saying that I'm pretty sure his was - though I didn't get my ruler out to measure lol. And umm OMG: "Despite not being commonly discussed, the condition is thought to affect 1 in 200 males that are born." !!
  • Tube_socks
    Tube_socks Posts: 808 Member
    Too big. Yes,and though it more of a fun amusement ride for me (i was in awe and was fascinated), it did hurt. Although he was great at foreplay and wasn't too rough or cocky (haha) about it, it just hurt.

    Too small. Oh my yes. And it was SMALL, TINY small. I couldn't believe it! I tried moving past his short coming (haha) but I just couldn't imagine having sex with him for the rest of my life. :cry:
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    One thing I have noticed with guys who have legnth or girth (BTW girth is better then legnth) is most of them like to "warm" you up first to prepare you I guess .......:bigsmile:

    They ALL need to warm you up, no matter what size! Totally agree that girth is more important than length - every woman I know says this but most guys seem to focus on length for some reason.

    I've seen 2 that were so big that I had to tap out before we got started lol. Scary!

    Unfortunately my last boyfriend had a micropeen - like I seriously think it was a medical issue, it was literally the size of my thumb, and probably even not as girthy :(. We never really had sex - we tried once or twice but he always had some excuse (allergic to latex, not tested yet, etc). I tried to go down on him a few times but it just felt so weird, he wouldn't get very hard either - he would stop me after a few seconds. We were together for 4 months and this was the elephant in the room, I just gave up on BJs and sex after a few tried and he never brought it up. He went down on me constantly so I was satisfied that way - but that made me realize that I DO need a d!ck too (before this experience I thought I could survive on tongue alone lol).

    Well yes and no.. sometimes just being pushed up against the wall is all the warm up needed lol
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    Anything bigger than a D-cup is almost too much. I actually don't mind A-cups, they're still fun to play with, just not as much fun to look at.

    Ron White said it best"you've seen one pair of tits... you want to see them all lol "
  • AZ_Gato
    AZ_Gato Posts: 1,270 Member
    Anything bigger than a D-cup is almost too much. I actually don't mind A-cups, they're still fun to play with, just not as much fun to look at.

    I have never been with a woman that had big breasseseseses. Probably largest size is C. I think anything bigger might be too much....I was however with a woman who had a huge butt. She was fit, but her booty was just OH MY GOSH Becky...that big. In my opinion, a booty can't be big enough.
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    I think boobs are always fun and perfect no matter what.

    And because even I'm not perfect I have to add a slight disclaimer: Except for the really poorly done fakies. D:
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    Boobies are fun butts are fun hips are fun.....being a girl is fun.......and yes boy we do compare our boobs and our butts lol
  • 2stepz
    2stepz Posts: 814 Member
    In my opinion, a booty can't be big enough.

    /me looks down at her obese wide-load *kitten*...

    Somehow I don't think that's what you're talking about.
  • kimad
    kimad Posts: 3,010 Member
    I was too scared to respond to this one at work lol!!!

    I think size and girth both play a role... My ex (kid's dad) lives up to the penis size is in relation to your size - he was 6'7" and wow, made it hard to move on after that ;) I just recently experienced the thin long penis and I realized I think girth is more important!
    As others said when the length is there it can be uncomfortable on the cervix, but you can adjust.

    I will also throw this out, maybe to be flamed, but cut is better!!!!

    I think size matters... I was with a very overweight man once, over 300lbs, and I HAD to be on top becuase his belly got in the way. While I don't mind being on top once in awhile, not all the time.

    .....
    I think this is to Roadie...(read it earlier) Do you visually like D cups better? I mean I am a bit bigger at E, but I look at mine and go eww I wish they were perky like an A cup.
  • lacroyx
    lacroyx Posts: 5,754 Member
    Unfortunately my last boyfriend had a micropeen - like I seriously think it was a medical issue,

    Yep

    http://www.news-medical.net/health/What-is-Micropenis.aspx

    Yeah I know it exists, just saying that I'm pretty sure his was - though I didn't get my ruler out to measure lol. And umm OMG: "Despite not being commonly discussed, the condition is thought to affect 1 in 200 males that are born." !!

    One of my exes dated a guy that had this. He is also very overweight.

    Boobs are nice, big or small, it doesn't matter to me. There is a limit though in size for me. I have seen girls with really big, to the point it's just too big. I'm talking fake, basketball size ones. I know many guys dig this, but not me.:sick: I :heart: legs on a woman. I'm a leg guy and I find girls with long legs very attractive.
  • bregalad5
    bregalad5 Posts: 3,965 Member
    Was with a 6'5" guy who was long (lived up to the stereotype), medium girth. He was pretty boring, actually. I mean, it was nice, but he was NOT creative. Haven't been with any too long for me

    Have been with medium length guys who were thicker and I'd prefer that.

    As for boobs... I have smaller DDs (can't quite fit into a D), and guys seem to like them as well as my giant *kitten*, haha.
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    Was with a 6'5" guy who was long (lived up to the stereotype), medium girth. He was pretty boring, actually. I mean, it was nice, but he was NOT creative. Haven't been with any too long for me

    Have been with medium length guys who were thicker and I'd prefer that.

    As for boobs... I have smaller DDs (can't quite fit into a D), and guys seem to like them as well as my giant *kitten*, haha.

    Yeah thanks to my spanish half (thank mom) I have the latino booty and hips and my grandma was apperantly generous to the boobie fairy..... So I just fit into a D cup (barely) and even when I'm thinner I have to try on every pair of pants to make sure they go over my *kitten*........ As my boys at work term it ghetto booty lol ...But I love my figure so I don't complain
  • jkandktmom
    jkandktmom Posts: 1,010 Member
    I have had too big (width)- ouch!! And too small. I prefer a nice medium side. I just can’t get comfortable when it is too big. I agree that the too small guys usually know it and tend to compensate in other areas! :wink:
  • grum84
    grum84 Posts: 428 Member
    So I will be perfectly honest here since I don't know any of you in person anyways. TMI warning!



    I am on the smaller side of average, but with average girth. I quickly realized porn would not be in my future as a career. But to compensate for it, I have learned that the tongue and fingers are such a great extension of the human body, and so much easier to guide and manipulate. So I make sure to compensate for anything she may be missing with those, and have had no complaints except for 1 girl I dated. She was totally against oral on her, and essentially she threw away one of the best tools I have in my kit (it made me very self conscious then of if I was fully pleasuring her). It didn't work out long.

    As far as women's sizes for boobs, the natural size. Whatever that happens to be (a pinch or an overflowing handful).


    SIDE NOTE: And after reading this, I really think I will have to request next time for a kegel to be done. I know the muscles involved, but have never had that done, though sounds like an interesting sensation.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    Once had a date with a guy who had one the size of a bottle of air freshener, like straight up Glade hawaiian breeze - right there. I didn't let him touch me.