Well, I'm very sorry to hear that. However, better to know now than later.

And, two words.... Rebound Sex.

Sorry lady

Take some time to recover however you want before looking for something real again. Have fun with yourself, treat yourself to a splurge on pinkcherry.come in the meantime

So sorry to hear that! It means you'll have more time to spend with us though!

Awwww sorry Megs... Just think of it as another stepping stone to the 'one!':flowerforyou:

Awe, I am sorry too! Sounds like you are lucky to find out sooner than later... things like this really show people's true colors.

I agree with Anna 100%, just one step closer to Mr. Right for you!

oh that stinks. The last guy I broke up with, I NEVER saw his mean side until we broke up. Take the time to grieve the end, pamper and nurture yourself. You'll be back out there in no time.

Take the time to grieve the end

never this. . I would be happy. . .
better than wasting a bunch of time . .a chance to find something better!

Well whoop-dee-doo...good for you. Glad you're so enlightened.

Some people grieve the end of a relationship:

They grieve what they thought was good, they grieve the fact that they took so much time out for someone who turned out to be incompatible (even if they weren't a loser)

They grieve the fact that (yet again) another relationship isn't meant to be and the possibility that they might never find an suitable party.

They grieve the fact that someone they care about (or cared about before s/he started acting like a jerk) is now gone.

They grieve the person who started out so awesome has now revealed his/her jerky side and will never go back to being the way they presented themselves -the way that makes a person fall love with them when you first met.

They may even grieve the fact that they now have to re-enter the "dating world."

There's nothing abnormal or less enlightened about allowing yourself to feel the very real emotions that come with the end of a relationship (whether it's romantic, friendship, death of family/friends, etc). Personally, I think part of the reason we aren't happy with ourselves and sabotage future relationships is we don't take adequate time to allow ourselves feel sad about an important part of our life that has now changed. We don't allow ourselves a few minutes to say, "that hurt, it makes me sad." Instead, we run out in anger/frustration/etc to find a new man/woman because "the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else" and the cycle begins again.

Note: Not saying OP was on said cycle :flowerforyou:

Sorry to hear that.

I also agree with giving yourself an opportunity to cry or whatever. It's part of the healing process. If you just run out and treat yourself (or TREAT YO SELF), you are probably ignoring the part of you that wants to "mourn." So, let it all out and then go do something special.

Also in that crying time you might realize why things happened or how to select better next time or find a good peace within yourself.

Focus on the positive and move forward.