Can you change your kissing technique?
AnnaPixie
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So, you've gone on the date. Chats, laughs - You're on fire!! Chemistry? BIG Check! :bigsmile:
Then s/he walks you back to your car and you cuddle, and then you kiss...............:smooched:
And...............blah! :huh:
It's not that s/he can't kiss, it's just s/he's not kissing you the way like to be kissed!! :grumble:
So, in your experience, can you teach someone to kiss in your style (cos obviously s/he like the way s/he kisses so you might have to go to their style?) or is there no hope that you can gel the kiss??
Or am I just a fussy kisser? :noway:
Then s/he walks you back to your car and you cuddle, and then you kiss...............:smooched:
And...............blah! :huh:
It's not that s/he can't kiss, it's just s/he's not kissing you the way like to be kissed!! :grumble:
So, in your experience, can you teach someone to kiss in your style (cos obviously s/he like the way s/he kisses so you might have to go to their style?) or is there no hope that you can gel the kiss??
Or am I just a fussy kisser? :noway:
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It depends. I've had bad kisses and I should have given up after that 1st one but with current bf, we got our groove right after a couple of make out sessions.0
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I been accused of "changing my technique" In high school I was dating a girl, went to Mexico to visit family one Summer and when I returned my girlfriend at the time accused me of cheating on her. I asked her why and she said my kissing got better. So following her logic, I must have been cheating on her with girls in Mexico. For the record, I didn't.0
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I been accused of "changing my technique" In high school I was dating a girl, went to Mexico to visit family one Summer and when I returned my girlfriend at the time accused me of cheating on her. I asked her why and she said my kissing got better. So following her logic, I must have been cheating on her with girls in Mexico. For the record, I didn't.
I once met a cute guy in Mexico while visiting family. He was a Mexican cowboy and he kissed me while taking a walk on Christmas eve. Thanks for the memory.0 -
I always suggest they just kiss me a little lower and on the other side of my body.0
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I think you can teach some one to kiss better. I like a little less tounge so if someone shoves it in my mouth I back off a little and lighten the kiss, after awhile they get the hint.0
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Ahhh kissing I do love kissing... I tend to adjust my technique for whoever I'm kissing and then introduce stuff i like...Like biting him softly on the bottom lip..They always seem to get the idea........:bigsmile:0
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I always suggest they just kiss me a little lower and on the other side of my body.
YOU NEVER GO @SS TO MOUTH.0 -
I'm into soft nibbling of the lips and neck area while playfully traversing my fingers through her soft, silky hair.Ahhh I do love kissing... I tend to adjust my technique for whoever I'm kissing and then introduce stuff i like...Like biting him softly on the bottom lip..They always seem to get the idea........:bigsmile:0 -
I'm into soft nibbling of the lips and neck area while playfully traversing my fingers through her soft, silky hair.Ahhh I do love kissing... I tend to adjust my technique for whoever I'm kissing and then introduce stuff i like...Like biting him softly on the bottom lip..They always seem to get the idea........:bigsmile:
ok thats just hot0 -
Well they say that you need 10,000 hours of practice to become an expert at something and so if you are only at say 5000 hours you still have room for improvement/change.0
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I'm into soft nibbling of the lips and neck area while playfully traversing my fingers through her soft, silky hair.Ahhh I do love kissing... I tend to adjust my technique for whoever I'm kissing and then introduce stuff i like...Like biting him softly on the bottom lip..They always seem to get the idea........:bigsmile:
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I think you can teach some one to kiss better. I like a little less tounge so if someone shoves it in my mouth I back off a little and lighten the kiss, after awhile they get the hint.
Exactly like me PK. I'm much more into soft, sensual, than hard tongue down your throat........lol0 -
I always suggest they just kiss me a little lower and on the other side of my body.
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It's funny, but I only ever hear of women complaining about kissing techniques. Is it that men dont really care how they are kissing/being kissed?0 -
Aw damn. Ive had that happen.
Sometimes it aint worth trying.
But...most of the time it is. I have had to teach a few, which opens doors to expressing the way I like other things done. :blushing:0 -
And yes, you kissing technique can change if you want it to. Different women like to be kissed different ways and there is a brief adjustment period for sort of finding common ground on kissing. Unless you are just completely oblivious.0
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In the last six months I've encountered the two worst kissers of my life....so bad that it was repulsive. Ever seen the episode of SITC where Charlotte meets the guy who wants to lick her face? Yeah...
I don't teach when it's that bad. I just move on. I do think that you can come around, though, when it's just slightly incompatible kissing styles.
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Ahhh kissing I do love kissing... I tend to adjust my technique for whoever I'm kissing and then introduce stuff i like...Like biting him softly on the bottom lip..They always seem to get the idea........:bigsmile:
I am good with the biting so long as it isn't too hard. But I prefer using my lips to tug on their bottom lip a bit after sucking gently and sliding my hand down their side and around to their butt. After awhile, that usually leads to moving my hand back around their thigh and between their legs to rub them through their pants.
Then more fun stuff ensues.0 -
Kissing.
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Ahhh kissing I do love kissing... I tend to adjust my technique for whoever I'm kissing and then introduce stuff i like...Like biting him softly on the bottom lip..They always seem to get the idea........:bigsmile:
I am good with the biting so long as it isn't too hard. But I prefer using my lips to tug on their bottom lip a bit after sucking gently and sliding my hand down their side and around to their butt. After awhile, that usually leads to moving my hand back around their thigh and between their legs to rub them through their pants.
Then more fun stuff ensues.
:noway:
:blushing:
I am the best kisser you'll ever have. Seriously. I take pride in my kissing, my vagina and my hip thrusts... lol :bigsmile:
This is why I rather be in long term relationships... I get to express my very intense latina feelings.
Kissing starts slow. Then fast, (but no tongue), then slow. Then I'll stop. Look into his eyes and usually I'm breathing hard (I get VERY visally turned on by just kissing) Then I'll kiss soft again, with a bit of tongue, suck on his bottom lip very very softly. Then he'll start to get more excited and kiss me deeper so I'll get his tongue with my lips and lightly suck. Oh God it's sooo hot!! Not too long or hard.. just a tiny bit. Then I'll part my lips from his. Tease him by looking at him with that naughty OMG look, then come close where our lips are almost touching then tease him again.
Damn.0 -
I once kissed a girl!0
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I don't like girls enough to kiss them.0
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Ahhh kissing I do love kissing... I tend to adjust my technique for whoever I'm kissing and then introduce stuff i like...Like biting him softly on the bottom lip..They always seem to get the idea........:bigsmile:
I am good with the biting so long as it isn't too hard. But I prefer using my lips to tug on their bottom lip a bit after sucking gently and sliding my hand down their side and around to their butt. After awhile, that usually leads to moving my hand back around their thigh and between their legs to rub them through their pants.
Then more fun stuff ensues.
:noway:
:blushing:
I am the best kisser you'll ever have. Seriously. I take pride in my kissing, my vagina and my hip thrusts... lol :bigsmile:
This is why I rather be in long term relationships... I get to express my very intense latina feelings.
Kissing starts slow. Then fast, (but no tongue), then slow. Then I'll stop. Look into his eyes and usually I'm breathing hard (I get VERY visally turned on by just kissing) Then I'll kiss soft again, with a bit of tongue, suck on his bottom lip very very softly. Then he'll start to get more excited and kiss me deeper so I'll get his tongue with my lips and lightly suck. Oh God it's sooo hot!! Not too long or hard.. just a tiny bit. Then I'll part my lips from his. Tease him by looking at him with that naughty OMG look, then come close where our lips are almost touching then tease him again.
Damn.
Yes!! That is exactly it!! I think that tongue should be used sparingly and tongue sucking = hot. And the lusty eyes makes it so much more arousing!0 -
Ahhh kissing I do love kissing... I tend to adjust my technique for whoever I'm kissing and then introduce stuff i like...Like biting him softly on the bottom lip..They always seem to get the idea........:bigsmile:
I am good with the biting so long as it isn't too hard. But I prefer using my lips to tug on their bottom lip a bit after sucking gently and sliding my hand down their side and around to their butt. After awhile, that usually leads to moving my hand back around their thigh and between their legs to rub them through their pants.
Then more fun stuff ensues.
:noway:
:blushing:
I am the best kisser you'll ever have. Seriously. I take pride in my kissing, my vagina and my hip thrusts... lol :bigsmile:
This is why I rather be in long term relationships... I get to express my very intense latina feelings.
Kissing starts slow. Then fast, (but no tongue), then slow. Then I'll stop. Look into his eyes and usually I'm breathing hard (I get VERY visally turned on by just kissing) Then I'll kiss soft again, with a bit of tongue, suck on his bottom lip very very softly. Then he'll start to get more excited and kiss me deeper so I'll get his tongue with my lips and lightly suck. Oh God it's sooo hot!! Not too long or hard.. just a tiny bit. Then I'll part my lips from his. Tease him by looking at him with that naughty OMG look, then come close where our lips are almost touching then tease him again.
Damn.
Yes!! That is exactly it!! I think that tongue should be used sparingly and tongue sucking = hot. And the lusty eyes makes it so much more arousing!
this is great but there is something to be said for being pushed up against a wall and him kissing you like a drowning man so that when you stop your both panting like oyu ran a marathon and you end up just leaning again the wall cause your legs wont support you.....sorry got a little lost in my own thought there0 -
Jen, when that happens I usually end up with a leg around him like a freaking anaconda. Dry humping commences.0
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Pinning their hands above their head after pushing them against the wall? Yes.0
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Jen, when that happens I usually end up with a leg around him like a freaking anaconda. Dry humping commences.
or both legs and holding onto the wall for dear life :bigsmile: ......I'm all sorts of twirly today dont mind me lol0 -
I now declare Horny Thusday is among us.0
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Once I had a first date where he kissed me during the date then at the end of the date. It was like 2am (bar) and he kissed m again, picked me up right there on the sidewalk then passionately kissed me, carried me to the wall and kissed me more while I was wrapped around him. I was wearing a skirt too but I didn't care at that point. I was sober too! lol0
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Pinning their hands above their head after pushing them against the wall? Yes.
Yes... yes... yes....0
