NEW- Let's be friends!
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I just join today, I struggle with binge eating, restricting calories, I am just now getting serious about losing the weight, the healthy way0
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Yay new people!0
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I've had the app for a while but I was using another calorie counter until this week. I'm also looking for supportive friends because I think the community is what makes this site super helpful. I'm adding you as a friend now and anyone else who'a looking for MFP friends feel free to add me (:0
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Hi all,
I have been around for a long time. I lost the weight. I reached my goal. But then I had nothing to obsess over and I didn't know what to do. Then I broke my foot and later needed breast surgery for what turned out to be a benign papilloma. Bottom line of all that...
I thought that when I was skinny, active, and fit that I would be happy....I wasn't.
I thought that when I was skinny, active, and fit that I would be content, feel less crazy...didn't happen.
I thought that when I was skinny, active, and fit that I would be nothing bad would happen to me...it wasn't true.
I thought that when I was skinny, active, and fit that I would be able to control myself around food...I couldn't, the old obsessions came back.
I thought that when I was skinny, active, and fit that I would be more in control of everything...I have no control, especially other people (nor should I )
I thought that when I was skinny, active, and fit that my marriage would be better....it didn't fix communication.
I thought that when I was skinny, active, and fit that I would be hot and love my body....I still focused on the flaws.
I thought that when I was skinny, active, and fit that I would be loved more by others...didn't happen...still couldn't really love my real self....loved my "new" self...but it didn't feel like it was really me...it felt fake.
I thought that when I was skinny, active, and fit that shame and guilt would be part of my past...it didn't leave.
So bit by bit I have put some of that weight back on...very slow...but that is how I lose as well....very slow.
I need more help in this area.
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Message me anytime. Always nice to have support0