I'm not comfortable doing this. In fact today is the first time for me. I don't have many friends here but the ones I have are very important to me. I believe in quality over quantity. I do my best to support people and it's nice to have the support returned. I have no problems with someone telling me I'm on the wrong track. Constructive criticism is always welcome. And I have never been insulted here as the group of people who I am friends with are all gracious, kind, and genuinely caring. Maybe it's because we're all in the same generation and at this point in life we know better.
The person I unfriended was not that young and asking for help. I thought that with positive interaction we could help each other. But it was pretty much one sided. It's as someone else said here "to have a friend, be a friend". But not responding at all to a question, and not allowing friends to see your diary and not showing any kind of interaction, well, you certainly don't need me. And I don't really need you. When I checked her profile she was interacting with others but all the friends were quite young. I have friends here who have a closed diary. No problem, they still participate and are important to me. I have a friend who never responds or interacts with me. And I have learned to shut up and not make any comments there. But I have access to their diary and it's a valuable tool to learn from. So I am grateful for this friend also.
Don't know what kind of response I am looking for. I just felt uncomfortable doing this, like I let someone down so I thought I would share.