Where are the butch lesbians?

Because what femme girl doesn't like to see a masculine clothed female pop up on their newsfeed when seeking motivation?

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  • onwarddownward
    onwarddownward Posts: 1,683 Member
    I've hidden that side of myself for two decades. How do you let it out? How do you just be yourself?
  • MartialPanda
    MartialPanda Posts: 919 Member
    @onwarddownward - You have to love yourself and be proud of who you are. I am only 22 and I realize all the effort and work the previous generations of LGBTQ folk have done to allow people of my generation to be able to really express themselves. I thank each and every person that have made that possible. However, a mindset and understanding that you will wear what you want to wear and act the way you want needs to come first. Then shmexy clothing. ;)
  • sarablueskies
    sarablueskies Posts: 56 Member
    i consider myself soft butch, haha, just depends on the day and if i have to work. but i ride a harley, which ups my butch points i think!
  • onwarddownward
    onwarddownward Posts: 1,683 Member
    i consider myself soft butch, haha, just depends on the day and if i have to work. but i ride a harley, which ups my butch points i think!

    You for sure get points for the Harley!

    I'd love to ride someday. I'd like to get back into horseback riding, once I'm thinner and don't have to worry about the horse getting a backache!
  • Alex729
    Alex729 Posts: 103 Member
    I always feel like I had to come out twice- once as a lesbian and then again as butch. I actually didn't realize I was butch until somebody pointed it out to me :)
  • CeejayGee
    CeejayGee Posts: 299 Member
    We're here!
  • KANGOOJUMPS
    KANGOOJUMPS Posts: 6,474 Member
    there are lots here.
  • zanyzana
    zanyzana Posts: 248 Member
    Just popped in for a perve... Shame there's not more of you butch grrrls!
  • JTS_go
    JTS_go Posts: 65 Member
    Right here, right here. I'm working on the first novel in what looks like is going to be a series of butch-hero romances if anyone wants to volunteer to beta read.
  • I just came out in November .. it takes time and loving yourself enough that lies stop being an option
  • CJ_Holmes
    CJ_Holmes Posts: 759 Member
    Right here, right here. I'm working on the first novel in what looks like is going to be a series of butch-hero romances if anyone wants to volunteer to beta read.

    In for the scenery, sidetracked by the literary! I've been told I'm an honest and thorough reader. I am intrigued by the idea of a butch-hero romance! Hit me up when you are at the beta reading stage.
  • boncharlie
    boncharlie Posts: 459 Member
    This just became my most favourte MFP post - ever!


    JTS_go - yes please!
  • brraanndi
    brraanndi Posts: 325 Member
    Right here, right here. I'm working on the first novel in what looks like is going to be a series of butch-hero romances if anyone wants to volunteer to beta read.

    I will read anything you got, I know atleast one other lady who'd be interested!
  • wendyapple
    wendyapple Posts: 323 Member
    Right here, right here. I'm working on the first novel in what looks like is going to be a series of butch-hero romances if anyone wants to volunteer to beta read.

    not butch, tried briefly and failed both posturing and attitude. love butches and love butch hero lit though!
  • Nix143
    Nix143 Posts: 522 Member
    Right here, right here. I'm working on the first novel in what looks like is going to be a series of butch-hero romances if anyone wants to volunteer to beta read.

    Another femme more than happy to road test your hero :wink:
  • smirf1972
    smirf1972 Posts: 93 Member
    Right here, right here. I'm working on the first novel in what looks like is going to be a series of butch-hero romances if anyone wants to volunteer to beta read.

    Definitely up for a butch hero novel, but i'm no butch though, sorry ladies.
  • hotmomma0612
    hotmomma0612 Posts: 651 Member
    I love butch lesbians. Ladies, marry me? :bigsmile:
  • jobrandes
    jobrandes Posts: 136 Member
    Right here, right here! Always up for new friends too. :)
  • sassymanatee
    sassymanatee Posts: 102 Member
    Oh we're everywhere, girls. :)
  • TattedInStilettos
    TattedInStilettos Posts: 331 Member
    Because what femme girl doesn't like to see a masculine clothed female pop up on their newsfeed when seeking motivation?

    ;]


    YES!!!
  • Target126
    Target126 Posts: 33 Member
    This just became my most favourte MFP post - ever!


    JTS_go - yes please!

    Love the tatt in your pp.
  • Target126
    Target126 Posts: 33 Member
    I wouldn't really say I am particularly butch or femme tbh, then again I live in a stupid small town surrounded by idiots who have a radar for anyone who isn't 'normal' and as I don't like drawing the attention I just blend in as much as I can. I have been told by ex's and friends that I have butch tendencies.
  • qtgonewild
    qtgonewild Posts: 1,930 Member
    *raises hand*
  • kenyonl85
    kenyonl85 Posts: 217 Member
    where is the line between butch lesbian and fem gay?
  • qtgonewild
    qtgonewild Posts: 1,930 Member
    between the thighs
  • kenyonl85
    kenyonl85 Posts: 217 Member
    between the thighs
    great answer! :drinker:
  • inverseofmissy
    inverseofmissy Posts: 114 Member
    Laughing my butt off! I told my girlfriend sometimes I feel like there is something about gay guys that is attractive to me, but not like in a sexual way. I think you could have a bit of a point though. Something about the androgyny and being able to pull off both masculine and feminine at the same time :)
  • kenyonl85
    kenyonl85 Posts: 217 Member
    Laughing my butt off! I told my girlfriend sometimes I feel like there is something about gay guys that is attractive to me, but not like in a sexual way. I think you could have a bit of a point though. Something about the androgyny and being able to pull off both masculine and feminine at the same time :)

    i have seen some lesbians that i mistook for really cute guys!
  • inverseofmissy
    inverseofmissy Posts: 114 Member
    Yah that works both ways lol!
  • qtgonewild
    qtgonewild Posts: 1,930 Member
    my pastor at my church is so cute he looks like a butch lesbian. he's gay. he's so cute.