Menopausal Mad Hatters - A New Year

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  • Snooozie
    Snooozie Posts: 3,465 Member
    Hahahahaa thanks Susan ! Love the snoop doing his dance - always makes me smile!
  • cbmcphillips
    cbmcphillips Posts: 801 Member
    I'll bring 1 snack size bag of chips for snoozie - what's your favorite again???:wink:

    Giggles - and 1 bag of bite size chocolate minis for the rest of us to share...:laugh:

    Who's got the ice tea from Long Island ---- Tonya??:drinker:

    BTW - we're all road tripping to Susan's - thinking she's got the best weather....:flowerforyou:

    Carol
  • Snooozie
    Snooozie Posts: 3,465 Member
    LOL no thanks Carol - treated myself to a new book instead of junk food to celebrate! :drinker:
  • Snooozie
    Snooozie Posts: 3,465 Member
    Saw a posting by a fellow MFP re a website where you can search for recipes by the amount of protein, or carbs, or whatever you want in a meal.... for those watching carbs or trying to increase their protein or whatever, thought i would pass it on just in case its helpful

    www.rippedrecipes.com

    :bigsmile:
  • 65by60
    65by60 Posts: 23
    Huge congrats on your results and re-focus Snooozie! You are an incredible hatter!!!!
  • Time2LoseWeightNOW
    Time2LoseWeightNOW Posts: 1,730 Member
    Good morning, My Hatter buddies! Woww….looks like a ghost town here lately…. Cold weather has got everyone down? Stay warm. Hope to see you all back here soon…

    Since it’s sparse, I guess I will ramble on a bit ….won’t be too many to bore with my trivial thoughts…lol :laugh:

    I want to quote Snooozie’s original topic sentence:
    EVERY NEW DAY IS ANOTHER CHANCE TO CHANGE YOUR(MY) LIFE!!

    Every day I don’t give it 100% effort to do everything I can to the better of my body, then I have no reason to get angry when I can’t fit into any of the clothes I own. Right? Right!! I have been eating any and everything I desired, telling myself I would get back at it tomorrow, and we all know tomorrow never gets here. I haven’t been logging or closing out my log when I did log high calories..… I feel like a fake, but I’m not hurting you, I’m only hurting me and cheating myself of ever being able to comfortably fit into my jeans….let alone a smaller size..
    I AM uncomfortable BEING SMALL ENOUGH TO GET ADMIRING LOOKS OR COMPLIMENTS!!! I want to look good, I try to look the best I can at this weight, I want to get compliments, but bottom line….I AM UNCOMFORTABLE….and I must face it ….IAM UNCOMFORTABLE OF GETTING OUT OF MY COMFORT ZONE!!! I have always felt more secure sitting out on the edge of any gathering….. now.. don’t get me wrong, when I am with friends that I feel SAFE with, I can be the center of attention, but any other time in any other setting…. I am uncomfortable…:blushing:
    Ok enough ramblings…lol

    Today I have my Game face on and my gloves are tied ….GAME ON!!:bigsmile:

    PREPARATION is the name of the game. You wonderful friends that have shown such great losses…I won’t “call you out”, but Snoozie, Tammy, Susan, Carol, and others….you know who you are…..lol:wink:

    I spent yesterday, making up some 3-inch turkey meatballs with grated veggies in them . ( 1 ball around 100 cals) I have yellow and zucchini squash washed and at the ready to be roasted in the oven. A roasted sweet potato ready to heat and eat when needed.
    I only need to practice this every day, so I can stay away from food that is quick and convenient….aka Sonic, McDonalds…so on…

    You guys have shown me it Works, so I am finally going to do it!!

    Bye for now, sorry for bending your ear and running on so long….

    Later, Hatters…..
    G
  • 65by60
    65by60 Posts: 23
    Hey G,

    Your rants definitely aren't boring. Love your food prep, wish I was coming to your place for dinner. Sounds delish! Preparation IS the name of the game. I think we all fall into danger any time we haven't planned. I think between exercise and food and menu planning, I am spending upwards of 1.5 hrs/day on putting these things into place to achieve my goals. No wonder I am behind on other things. I've said it before but it bears repeating - I am lucky to be retired and I simply don't know how you working women do it. I am in awe of all you accomplish. We all stumble and fall on the journey. By getting your thoughts down, you've just picked yourself up. Re-focus and keep moving forward one step at a time. You (we!) can do it!

    Diane
  • Time2LoseWeightNOW
    Time2LoseWeightNOW Posts: 1,730 Member
    Thanks, Diane! It is time consumming, but it is worth it. I've seen the results from all of you that do it..So I am joining the team....TEAM PREP!!
  • TArnold2012
    TArnold2012 Posts: 929 Member
    Time dear, your thoughts never bore me. If you are like me your best revelations come as you type them out. I saw your blog post and responded there as I relate to this very topic. That has been one of things that I have learned since joining Hatters. I am NOT alone in most of the feelings that I have buried through the years of being overweight. It is this sharing that has helped me understand many of my thoughts and helped me make progress on this journey to a healthier self. Always know your thoughts are most welcome and so helpful.

    Time and Gail you will both reap the benefits of the prep, it has been such a key in me staying on my path. I tell myself I am worth the time and effort, just as you both are also.

    Now for my rant/sharing LOLOL

    That dreaded word *Exercise*
    When I got my fitbit for Christmas it was in hopes of motivating me to keep myself moving more this new year. I am happy with the results thus far. I have always been a visual learner. I am one of those that make list and even put things I have before just to be able to check them off (I know I am crazy LOLOL) just something about seeing things accomplished.

    I am proud to say I have exercised everyday this month except one and even that day I did get my walking in for that day. My goal was 3500 calories burned a week and I have met every week's goal. Seeing the numbers change to smiley face when I get 30 minutes each day pushes me even on the days I come in from school and question myself about doing the exercise.

    Now for the best part of the daily exercise while I have recorded only a 1 lb lost I have actually lost Christmas plus the 1lb which amounts to 10 lbs. Even better the inches I have lost are even more though I don't know how many as I don't measure very often.
    What I can say is that I am more consistently wearing size 14 bottoms and XL/L tops (and even purchased 1 size medium shrug) Seeing the difference that the exercise has made is also helping me to push through on those days when I come in not really wanting to exercise.

    Well we are out for weather today and I have some clothes to clear out :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: and smaller ones to add to my closet:love::love: :love: :love:

    Everyone stay safe and warm, Tammy
  • Snooozie
    Snooozie Posts: 3,465 Member
    Hi Hatters..

    back on dayshift and like everyone else has said, am being challenged by the prep work... by the time i get home from work im exhausted and the thought of making an actual dinner because i haent prepped anything is my undoing on this shift... i KNOW the prep is the most important part, and i know i can eat well and eat food i enjoy when i do it... but its a challenge for sure.. i definitely need to get back to ensuring the prep is done - and i will be very glad when i am not trying to adjust every other few days to what i can and can't eat while the dental resoration conintues lol... but even that is just an excuse as i could easily find healthy food i CAN eat if I took the time to make it... although I have been maintaining ok I know I am making less healthy choices so I am also going to go back to logging and improving my choices as well...

    as for the exercise Tammy.... i am amazed and inspired by your dedication to getting that exercise in ... i know how huge a struggle that aspect of your lifestyle change has been and you hav aced it!!!!! So proud of you.... and can only imagine how much you are loving seeing the results (and yes I did get a larf at the mention of your lists lol....!!) Well done YOU!!!!

    GAIL - It was wonderful to read your post.... and to know you were able to share with us one of your deepest fears. . I suspect many of us here have had similar feelings and reasons that have kept us from really trying to lose weigh over the years... so if it helps at all to know you are NOT alone with your feelings......and I think that by having the courage to share with us your fears and your feelings.. that you may be at your own AHA moment... (and i think it took a hell of a lot of courage to share that btw!!) I have felt since day 1 that the Hatters are a haven; I can tell things about my weight and my feelings here to you guys that I would never ever share with even my closest friends.... because I know that you guys "get it".. and the freedom of being able to get it out.. as tammy and diane said.. can be the very thing that makes you realize that those fears are understood, and that we will be here to help you deal with them. I hate to think of the years I spent worrying about what I thought other people thought of me ...... its taken me a long time to realize the only person in the world it matters to what I look like physically... is me.... and I want to be healthy. And I know I'm a work in progress but I am worth the effort. We all are and I hope you know that we will give you every bit of support we can while you go forward with your plan...... and that we understand the emotional turmoil thats involved in starting a weight loss journey and changing to a healthy lifestyle.. you have made amazing progress in the time i've known you....and i don't htink you even realize how many stepping stones youve already made progress wise..... to get you to where you wanna be.... take some time and look at the changes you have made and realize that we can change... because you're living proof... we all are... huge hugs and thank you for sharing with us!!!

    And now im off to make my breakfast an lunch for tomorrow before I think "nah i'll just do it in the morning.." cause I know that won't happen.... and right now... i can take a step towards making my goal happen.... one step... take 15 min to make my lunch... and it all starts with each small step and change we make my friend!! Don't think the little things won't make a differene... cause they are what MAKES the difference!!
  • cbmcphillips
    cbmcphillips Posts: 801 Member
    Hey ladies...

    As for prep work....

    I have a wonderful hubby who loves to cook - and I think he said he's down about 15 or so himself...:blushing: - other unlisted benefits of getting "fit and healthy"...

    I always make sure I have my gym bag ready for Monday and Friday Zumba - wear the "sport bra and I don't care panties" to work so that's one less thing to worry about...(and I clean up at home - no gym shower for this "beautiful woman")

    I have a locker at work - with full size shower products - so those days that I do stay after work (we have a gym right down the hall) - I have one less worry...and we have an amazing cleaning crew...(benefits of working with and for the military)...(one of the very few...) 5 years and change and me and my knowledge will zumba right out the door...

    I always make sure that coffee and lunch are pre-made the night before, and at least have 1 or 2 outfits ready - even if only in my mind... wait - do I still have one - aka scarecrow....

    Good News Good News: no gastro guy for 1 year.... wow... benefits of getting skinny - doin the snoopy happy dance....
    But I do have a follow up dental - gotta get one filling fixed...:sad:

    See you all soon... smiles and dancing in Jersey...:bigsmile: :laugh:

    Carol
  • LeslieW77
    LeslieW77 Posts: 34 Member
    Good cold morning, everyone! Well, cold here in Southern Missouri anyway - it was a relief to get up and find out that once again our wellhouse hasn't frozen up - twice in one month is more than enough for me!!

    Regarding prep - something that really helps me is to log in my entire day of meals while I enjoy my morning java. That doesn't mean I won't have to make changes as the day progresses and situations cause me to adjust, but what I've found is it helps me assess ahead of time, before I've actually put it into my body. You all may do that already, but thought I'd pass it on.

    Unless I'm putting something in the crockpot overnight, I don't do much prep work in the evening. Instead, I have alot of things already cooked and frozen, or canned (we can alot of our meat and vegetables). I try to prep raw vegetables on the weekend, and possibly one other time during the week. In the morning, while I shower, I have any foods cooking for the day's meals, and when I get out, I can just round it all up and head out the door.

    Just thought I'd share those ideas with the Hatters! I'm doing well most days, but my struggle at the moment is to watch the stress eating. Not doing particularly well at it this week, as we had a death in our family so things are a bit crazy, but it's really helped keep me from binging too much to take a look at my pre-planned meals each day and realize how good it would be for me to just stick with my plans! (Last night was a different story, but the bloating and ill feelings after gorging reinforced that it's just not worth it to shovel in all that junk to provide false comfort - ugh... Felt good to wake up this morning to a clean slate again).
  • seehe
    seehe Posts: 946 Member
    Gail: I really appreciate your honesty and openness-it's always great to hear from you. So glad you are feeling some fresh motivation :smile:

    Tammy: So impressed with your commitment to that dreaded word exercise and so glad you are reaping your well deserved benefits! You inspire me :smile:

    Snoozie: You are such a trooper with all of that painful dental restoration. SO glad you had such great well deserved news at the doc's to cheer you on through this :smile:

    Carol: Yay for you and your gastro guy news !

    Leslie: Thanks much for sharing your ideas ! I am so sorry to hear about the death in your family.

    65x60: I so agree with you about being impressed with everyone's perseverance when having to work . I am technically retired, but as I take on more and more tutoring I am finding that I am exercising and planning less, and that is with just part time work, so raising my glass with you to all the full time working hatters!!!!:drinker:

    On this last day of January, I am reflecting on my seemingly recent stalled motivation and lack of consistency and feelings of resistance. I believe part of it is that I keep getting sick. Well I am thinking this may be because of being taken off of my multivitamin/mineral supplement due to the doc's belief that my neuropothy was from too much vitamin B6. So I am supposed to be taking everything separately as opposed to a multivitamin, but that involved taking 9 vitamin and mineral pills in addition to my probiotic, and 2 giant fish oil pills in addition to some oral medications. Since I have always had some difficulty swallowing pills, well I have just ended up not taking the separate vitamins and minerals. Additionally I have taken on more students for tutoring than I ever have before. Consequently, while I am closing this month with not any weight loss progress, I think I am at least gaining some insight, just in time to come up with a plan to start fresh in February, the month of love:heart:

    Hugs and Good Cheer to all on this last day of January :flowerforyou: