TDEE is an estimate of how many calories you burn on a daily basis, after all activity and everything else is taken into account. Your numbers suggest that yours was around 1,750 calories. I don't give much credit to those sorts of calculations. I would suggest trying to eat at least 1500-1600 calories a day, at least at the start. After you have become adapted, if that amount of calories doesn't give you the losses you want, then consider lowering it.

I tend to average about 300-500 more calories a day than the base formulas suggest that I should. More importantly, when you're making the change, the less stress you put on your body the better.

Try eating more fat and forget what MFP says and even TDEE. They are all estimates which are not very accurate. Listen to your body . Fats are calorie dense, try adding coconut oil, butter or heavy cream to your diet.

LOL honestly? No idea....I am new starting out too

This was just linked on Reddit keto forums and it seemed really helpful in figuring out what the optimum ration of fats/pro/carbs should be for you.

I'm just following what they recommend...and I am not really watching cals atm. I am more concerned with keeping my ratios in check, and at least eating my base metabolic rate. Calorie checking can always come later for me. My understanding from what I have read is that the fats will help to naturally get your body to not overeat so much by making you feel full etc. So I am just going by that .

In your profile it says:

I don't give advice unless asked.

I think that's probably a wise policy.

Im totally new to keto but I noticed no one answered your question about deficit. A pound of loss can be roughly calculated as 3500 calories or 500 calories per day.

You and I are roughly in the same boat. Im 5 feet tall, have 30ish lbs to lose and have a desk job. I am probably older than you, I am 47.

My best advice is to not listen to those people telling you that your calorie goals are too little.
Most people dont realize how little calories a small person needs. There is a big difference between a 5'6 woman and a 5'1" woman. We are NOT all alike.

However this means your diet has to be very high quality to get all of your nutrients in. That can be really tough if you arent hungry. One thing to do is add fat bombs or bullettt proof coffee to your diet. This will help you get your calories closer. to your bmr.
You arent hungry because you are using your own fat stores for fuel. Thats a good thing and just what you want.

I still count calories a little. Just to stay in check, but really if you are following LCHF, the calories will take care of themselves. Just make sure you are eating enough of what your body needs.