In case anyone was wondering...I have been trying some of the suggestions I got before and it is helping. Especially "ride the landing." I also had my first lesson with a new trainer last night and that was a huge difference. She actually had me go into position early and stay longer after the jump, so that I had more time to get my position right and figure out what I'm doing wrong. I am shifting my weight on my toes/sliding my legs back, which sets off a chain reaction of staying too upright trying to balance.

So change is good--I am going to keep riding with her once a week and see how it goes. And I am riding out with the hounds tomorrow, so taking the next step in joining the foxhunt. Still trying to find a horse to lease--everyone please keep their fingers crossed for me!

So thanks again to everyone for the tips/encouragement from before. I really love riding and jumping, so I am sticking with it!