Introductions!
abbyjane81
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I thought it would be nice to have this so we could get to know each other:)
I'm 33 and live in arkansas with my fiancé and 2 boys. Currently breastfeeding my youngest so losing weight right now is a fine balance of cutting calories vs milk production and quality foods over quantity.
I've always been over weight, about 6 years ago I worked my butt off Bd educated myself on food and a more natural eating lifestyle and lost 75 pounds. Then I got divorced and gained it all back plus some.
This time I'm serious, working on creating a healthy lifestyle I can maintain for ever for myself and my family.
I love to cook, craft and all that corny stuff. Also love Netflix, haha and trying more to live off the land:)
I'm 33 and live in arkansas with my fiancé and 2 boys. Currently breastfeeding my youngest so losing weight right now is a fine balance of cutting calories vs milk production and quality foods over quantity.
I've always been over weight, about 6 years ago I worked my butt off Bd educated myself on food and a more natural eating lifestyle and lost 75 pounds. Then I got divorced and gained it all back plus some.
This time I'm serious, working on creating a healthy lifestyle I can maintain for ever for myself and my family.
I love to cook, craft and all that corny stuff. Also love Netflix, haha and trying more to live off the land:)
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Excellent AbbyJane!!
I am 40 and live in Springfield, MO with my 2 fur covered children (Canine - Duchess and Brooklyn). I have been struggling with my weight for as long as I can remember but seriously (obese) overweight since 22 years of age. The lowest I have hit since then was 202lbs (2002) and that is why my first major goal is 199.9lbs then I will re-evaluate.
I am a cross between emotional/bored/stressed eater so if I don't plan or allow myself to get hungry then I know my choices will not be optimal and overeating occurs. I have intentions to work out and very good at finding excuses... so I started bellydancing and love it!
I like to bellydance, quilt, scrapbook, walk on nature trails, any activity on water, movie/game nights, furbaby/family time, Cardinal games and overall really enjoy most sports in person.
Things I am un-intentionally good at: Run on sentences and forgeting to turn on my personal filter (i.e. too honest).
I find I succeed when I plan my food/meals, eat ever 2-3 hours to prevent hunger binging and make "dates" with girlfriends to workout (because it forces me to go).
I am looking forward to getting to know everyone and working together!
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My name is Staci and I am 26 and come from southern Washington state. The desert area (betcha didn't know Washington was not all forest and evergreens!) to be exact. I live with my amazing husband whom I met from a game called World of Warcraft. Funny thing is, he lived is Massachusetts, and moved all the way across country to be with me. Talk about love!
Anyways, I weigh around 269 lbs and am looking to lose more than 150 lbs, I want to get to around 120 lbs, as I am only 5 foot, so very short. I know this is a lofty goal but I know I will lose weight anyways because I have to make a lifestyle change. The reason why I say this is because I am a type 2 diabetic. I used to not care about my life, and let my blood sugars run rampant (last week I had one that was 600+, and normal blood sugars are supposed to be 100, to 120 ish). After I had that blood sugar scare I realized if I wanted to be around for my husband, friend and family, I had to make a turn around. I also have extremely high cholesterol and hypertension (sometimes). At the rate I was going, a heart attack was just waiting to happen. So now I am determined to eat healthier and get my exercise.
For exercise, I love to swim, walk on the treadmill (only when I have something to do, otherwise it is terribly boring and I can't walk for very long), and use my workout videos (I found some nice ones where I can actually follow the moves)
I like to play video games (now not as much, I used to when I was younger, I guess I kind grew out of it a little bit, which is actually a good thing), read fantasy and horror novels, and watch T.V. I love my T.V. I can be a real couch potato sometimes, but I plan on weaning myself off so much T.V. because I currently watch a ridiculous amount and while I am watching I am always tempted to eat. I also like to paint and color (you can get some nice advanced coloring books, not just childrens books. And don't knock it till you try it, it can be very therapeutic.)
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Welcome Staci!! Glad to have you part of the group! I too have to have a movie/tv show going to remain on the treadmill.... it is a yawn-fest otherwise :-)0
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Hiii ladies
What a brilliant idea - love the sound of this group!!
I'm Steph, 25 years young and live in Wales in the UK (millions of miles from you).
I am THE typical yoyo dieter and an absolute sucker for fad rubbish diets!!
You name it - I've tried it!! From starvation - to shakes - to 5:2! If a celebrity has done it - I'll do it too!
When I first met my husband 6years ago I was a healthy size 10 (not sure what size that is in USA) but weighed around 160lbs ish! For me this is healthy anyway. And definitely at my happiest.
And then it all went down hill - since then I've put on SO much weight (I blame my husband of course)! I'm currently around 260!!
I am an emotional eater, to say the least! Sad, happy, angry, tired - I will stuff my face full of whatever chocolate/icecream related product i can get my hands on!!
I generally enjoy exercise but i also, am an expert excuse maker - and will do anything to get out of it and watch Game of Thrones instead!
It finally hit home at how bad I had got - when I insisted on my husband leaving work on his lunch break - to go and buy me chocolate on my day off as I didn't want to walk to the shop myself. Safe to say his response was not pleasant!
So this is it ladies...time for a new me and to get my bum back into some shorts this summer rather than leaving them on my shelf of shame!!
Happy to receive all ideas and support and of course - return the motivation!!
100lbs....slowly reducing!
We can sooooo do this!!
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Welcome Steph! I have to admit I am a GOT fan and still recovering from the "Red Wedding"... Size 10/160lbs sounds about right (5'5 or taller) ...
When I was in the 170's I was a size 12 and I am 5'6.0 -
Hello all!
I'm Natalie, 31 from Indianapolis, IN. I'm currently weighing in at 260 lbs shooting for a healthy 150-160. Single and living with my sister and one year old nephew. He's my motivation to get healthy. As he grows I want to be able to run and play and keep up with him and not have to tell him Aunt Nini has to take and fat girl break.
I've been overweight a good portion of my life. I was always the 'thick' friend in the group of skinnies. If only I was as fat now as I thought I was then! I'd be a happy camper!
I'm pretty sarcastic and love to make people laugh. I have a sweet tea and popsicle addiction. It's hardcore, I really could probably use some therapy sessions. I'm an emotional bored eater. I tend to eat more of something because it tastes good rather than because I'm still hungry.
I like movies and murder/mystery novels. I hate ling walks on the beach bc I got lost when I was 11 in Daytona and have never fully recovered.
I'm looking forward to making new friendships with you all as we support each other along the way. It may seem far now, but one step and one pound at a time we can all surely make it!0 -
So great to meet you loverly ladies! Haha
I'm an emotional/bored/celebratory eater( any emotion is an excuse to eat for me) I show my love through food, and based on how quickly I gained my weight back, I have a lot of love! Lol
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socialone74 wrote: »Welcome Steph! I have to admit I am a GOT fan and still recovering from the "Red Wedding"... Size 10/160lbs sounds about right (5'5 or taller) ...
When I was in the 170's I was a size 12 and I am 5'6.
I meant to add -- sounds the same when compared to US sizes ... sorry I am bad about typing without making certain everything came out correctly :-/
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Welcome Natalie!!0
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Hi everyone, I'm Jen. I am a nursing student set to graduate May 2016. I am from the Baltimore region of Maryland and I currently live with my boyfriend of 2 years and our small fur child Ruxin. We live in a one room basement apartment...so as you can imaging...it's incredibly cramped. Our shower...is actually a hose hooked up to a sink that leads OUTSIDE under the porch...which we've closed off for privacy. Our kitchen consists of a single induction top burner, microwave, and toaster oven...which is a big contributing factor to why I've gained over 50 lbs in 1 year!
I have been big my entire life. I can't ever remember a time when I wasn't being bullied or made fun of for my weight. Both of my parents are big...along with most of my family. I was maintaining around 210-220lbs for several years...but like I said above...my new kitchen situation is not great and unfortunately that led to a LOT of eating out...probably 2-3 times a day most days of the week for over a year. I am now weighing in at my highest weight ever at 277.5lbs.
There are a lot of reasons why I want to lose weight. My family history has a ton of weight related and non-weight related chronic illness. Gallbladder disease (I've already had mine out), hypertension, diabetes, cancer, cardiovascular disease, pituitary tumors (which I have), hypothyroidism (also have), PCOS, and more that I can't even think of. I know that I want to live a long life and have a family and be a great nurse so...I need to get myself in shape ASAP.
I would like to be at 135lbs eventually - but I'll settle for not looking like a blob in my graduation photos next year!
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Hi, Everyone. I am Steph and hail from Maine. Currently I am 240# and I am 5"7". I started September 1st at my highest weight of 255#. My ultimate goal weight is 145# (based on height/weight chart but I am pretty muscular so probably not possible.) I am almost 43 and have a teenage son, husband, and a small dog.
My weight started coming on when I was in 3rd grade after my parents divorced, and I moved in with my grandparents. That move left me with very few friends so my activity level dropped and I gained weight. I was only slightly overweight in high school and college, but becoming an adult with a very busy life at work and home has killed my exercising.
I am hoping this sticks. I have done WW and MFP in the past, always successful, but then something happens, and I STOP. I am hoping that getting involved with a dedicated group will get me over those things that "happen." I really love to walk, run, hike, swim, ski, ride roller coasters, but rarely do these things because right now, it hurts or I can't breathe.
My ultimate goal: to have a professional family photo taken before my sign graduates and to not be embarrassed about how I look in it!0 -
Welcome Jen and Steph!!0
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Ello ladies! I'm Carol-Le, currently residing in Saint Joseph, Missouri. I'm 25 and right now I'm weighing 247.6lbs. I decided to start losing weight for real (I half attempted it several times previous) when I stepped on the scale on July 15th of last year and I weighed a whopping 281lbs. Somehow I had ignored my body up to that point. When I realized that I was less than 20lbs from 300lbs I knew I had to change something. From July-October I did amazing I was totally dedicated and lost almost 30lbs, then mid-October I became extremely ill, turns out that I am deathly allergic to black mold. It took us two weeks to discover this and to realize that the basement of the house that my fiancé and I lived in at the time was full of it. We moved immediately and it took me over a month to recover fully because there were thousands of spores still in my system. From mid-October to January I took time off from working out but I still watched what I ate, I just didn’t log it. Luckily I did not gain at all over the holidays and on January 2nd I hopped right back to MFP and don’t plan on leaving this time! I’m easing myself into running (I’d love to complete a 5K this year) and focusing a lot on cardio at the gym.
My first big goal is Onederland! I really want to be less than 200lbs again! After that I’m not really super strict with a number; I’d like to be at 180lbs, which was what I weighed when I graduated high school. If I have to put a number on my overall goal it would be to be somewhere between 150-175, but who knows I may be completely content at 180. I just want to be healthy, my fiancé and I own a karate school together and I am a 3rd Degree Brown Belt. I want to test for my 2nd Brown this year, and I want to be a better/healthier role model for our students.
Personally I’m a huge book nerd, I’m always reading something. My library is my favorite room in my home. I also love comic books, and almost anything in the science fiction and fantasy genre. I’m child free by choice but I do love children, just not the idea of raising one myself. I’m completely content with my menagerie of 1 dog, 2 cats, 1 hedgehog, 1 bearded dragon, and 1 yellow belly slider turtle.
I’m really excited about this group!
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Welcome Carol-Le! I am in Springfield and you are quite close to me!! We will have to plan a 2015 event!0
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Heck yes! Road tripppppppp!!0
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Hi, everyone! I'm Carmen and I'm a graduate student. I've been working on losing weight since late last year, got off track and have just recently re-dedicated to weight loss. I started around 280 pounds and am now around 256 pounds.
I just started a new job, so I haven't been working out lately. However, when I do, my favorite type of workouts are dance workouts. Specifically, I play Just Dance on Kinect. I have a Zumba game, too, but the moves are a little too advanced, haha. I'd like to start running again, but haven't ran in several years, and that was back when I weighed 220 pounds.
To compensate for my lack of exercise, I'm focusing on cutting calories. I had been doing intermittent fasting because my schedule as a student was flexible enough to do so, but now that I'm working, I've been sticking to a more typical eating schedule, although I still consume a majority of my calories in the evening.
As far as goals, for now, my ultimate goal weight is 155 pounds. My short term goal is to reach 230 pounds by graduation. As far as fitness goals, as I mentioned, I would like to start running again. I would also like to do more Pilates and yoga.0 -
Hi!
My name is Stephanie, I live with my SO, and our fur brat, Jasper, a Bengal we rescued. My daughter is in college, and also working on losing weight. I am 5'10", and 230 today. I have been larger, smaller, believe me, my closet has about six sizes of clothes!
My favorite shows are "My 600 Pound Life", and "My Big Fat Fabulous Life". I seriously watch these shows and yell at the TV, confronting the justifications for skipping exercise...and over eating, because I have done them all myself! It is very emotional for me, because I really feel the pain these people are going through. The struggle. It is not easy to change.
I work through a lot of depression, everyone says exercise makes you feel better, that is hard to get to, when you feel too overwhelmed to get off the sofa. However, I am doing well so far, I never miss Spin class at the gym, and am doing more walking.
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Welcome Carmen and Stephanie!0
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Hello!
My name is Betsy, and I live in south central PA. I currently weigh about 260 lbs (my highest weight ever). I turned 40 last year, and didn't get anywhere close to my goal weight of 155 lbs. Unfortanetly, I gained a lot of weight this past year. I have lots of excuses why, but just too much eating out.
There are several reasons I want to lose weight: being able to tie my shoes, walk up the stairs without embarrassing myself, shopping, and of course, so I don't die early. My husband has Type 2 diabetes and he has no control over it, and the doctor just told me I'm pre-diabetic, so I'd to prevent that. I'm on a medical weight loss plan of 1000 cal a day. High protein, low carb and I am only allowed to make one meal a day. I just started on 1/24/15.
We have two daughters. My oldest is at Dusquese in Pittsburgh studying nursing. My baby is almost 17 and will be graduating next year. My goal is to reach my target weight by her graduation. Since my husband and I will be empty nesters, I want to have the energy to do stuff.
I enjoy working out, but haven't gotten motivated to start again. I love Zumba, Just Dance, yoga, Pilates, swimming, hiking, and weight training. I don't mind the treadmill (it does get boring though) and love the elliptical... But it has been over a year since I've worked out and need to get past the mental barrier and just start something.
Like a lot, of you, I am a TV/movie fan. Love GOT too, though Walking Dead is my favorite. Reading everyone's intros makes me excited for this group. I' looking forward to our journey to lose weight, forming friendships, and supporting each other.0 -
Welcome, everyone! So excited to get to know you all!0
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Hi Ladies,
Thanks so much for the invite to join his group! I'm Carole. I am a 53 yr old married mom of two college students (freshman & senior). I started on MFP in April 2013 at my heaviest: 272. I started tracking my food and walking daily. In less than 5 months I dropped 58 pounds. Then I stagnated for a month - no motivation to walk (and a little depressed) when my daughter returned to school. I was still watching my calories, but not totally focused on weight loss. Then I got sick for a couple of weeks... that was the end of everything I had been doing. I am an emotional eater (and I eat to procrastinate, and at night when bored, etc) and I was so up-set with myself and then depressed that I couldn't pull it together that I spiraled totally out if control. I gained back 50 pounds in about 8 months. I just gave up on myself. I guess I should be glad I didn't gain all of it back.
While I was losing weight my mother-in-law was kind enough to take in all of my pants (thru the waist, hips) so that I didn't need to buy new clothing. I finally got to the point that I could only fit into a couple pairs of pants... Yes, even with a 50 pound gain (way too tight - thought I might bust a few seams). I REFUSE TO BUY NEW CLOTHING AT THIS WEIGHT! Okay, so new year and I am back on MFP and am losing those pounds again. I am just starting to walk again in the evenings with my husband and dog. I bought a GPS/activity tracker yesterday so I can more accurately track my time/distance/calories burned. I know I can do this!
I am looking forward to being a part if this group, and gaining/giving support on this journey. Thanks again for the invitation to get to know you all.
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Welcome everyone! So exciting to see the group grow!0
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I posted somewhere else in the group message board and then saw this thread and figured I should backtrack and say hi first.
So...hi *waves a little awkwardly*
I've had an account on MFP for at least a couple of years and have toyed around entering a food diary or two now and again, but this is the first time I've used it seriously (I actually gained another 20 pounds in those couple of years). It's also the first time I've added friends or participated in the community here at all. i'm finding that it makes a difference for me, and thanks to socialone74 for the invite to this awesome new group!
A couple of months ago, the doctor's scale said I weighed 297, and the shock of seeing myself 3 lbs from 300 has motivated me to finally do something about it. I cut back on portions and eating out, and when I weighed myself the other day for the first time in two months, saw that I had lost 6 lbs from just those couple of casual changes alone. That motivated me even more, so here I am, joining y'all and logging my food and exercise daily.
I became overweight as a child after my parents divorced and I became a latchkey kid. I remember eating whole boxes of cereal, one bowl after another, when I was alone after school. I thinned out a good bit in junior high and high school but always struggled with chubbiness. After I had my son at 18, I ballooned up into the 200s, but remained in the low 200s until the last 12 years or so when I was in a pretty emotionally chaotic LTR for 11 of those years. Needless to say, I think I might be an emotional eater? Where's my understatement award?
I have some low back pain on occasion and very low activity tolerance (improving already, yay), as well as some other minor medical issues that are caused by or exacerbated by the extra weight. I'm an inactive RN, and diabetes type 2 is something that has always been in the back of my mind. I did not want to wait until I was diagnosed with something like that to do something about my weight and my health, and I have no doubt that diabetes and more are waiting around the corner if I don't do something now. Frankly, I'm lucky I haven't already rounded that particular corner because I put it off plenty long enough despite knowing those risks better than a lot of people who don't work in the medical field do.
My approach right now is simply to stay at or under my MFP calorie goal every day. I've tried very restrictive diets many times and inevitably gave up quickly. Yes, I've seen and know the benefits some of them provide, but they are not doable for me at this time, and they can hardly provide any benefit if I can't stick to them for more than five days. So, I'm still the same largely veggie-hating, southern-comfort-food-cookin', meat-and-potatoes girl and will keep eating what I want for now. The only difference is that now I'm learning balance, thanks to wanting to stay under my calorie limit. e.g. if I want chocolate cake tonight, I might should eat a salad for lunch or do more exercise this afternoon.
I'm forcing myself to stay off the scales except once per week, and my weigh-in day is Saturday for now. I had a 'whoosh' yesterday...most certainly water weight, but I'm still looking forward to seeing what the scales say in two days
Other random tidbits about me: I'm a single mom to a teenaged son who I homeschool. We live in the piedmont of NC. I'm kind of a geek and an introvert. I love reading and writing fiction and... and...
Well, huh. Turns out that a lot of the things I love to do (like hiking) are things I haven't done since I've been this heavy. I think my fat has made me boring. I'm working on it, though.0 -
Hi everyone!
My name is Mary, I'm 25 and live in Springfield MO. I live with my husband of 4 years and my 3 very sweet fur babies(all weenie dogs) named Mollie, Watson and Artemis (Artie).
I too have been over weight pretty much all of my life. I played sports and was very active however I loved food. Still do! I call myself a food addict. Honestly, if I could have any super power it would be to be able to eat whatever I wanted and not gain any weight. I wish!
A year ago this January, my husband and I quit smoking, quit drinking soda, and quit eating mcdonalds. I still gained 36 lbs since then.
Being what is considered morbidly obese (I'm 5'9" and weigh'd in at 355 on January 5th) has really held me back from enjoying my young years the way I should be. I thought if I was going to be happy, then I was going to do so by eating anything I wanted. So I did. I had a great time too. Lol
My wake up call came when I went to the movie theaters with my husband and my parents. One I had been going to for years. When I tried to sit down..... I didn't fit. The movie had already started, so it would have been too embarrassing to do anything about it at this point. I instead spent the next 2 hours perched on the edge of the seat, arm rests digging into my thighs with back and knees throbbing just counting the seconds.It was then I decided something had to change. My work started a "biggest loser" challenge with grand prize being a free year membership at any gym of the choosing. I signed up and have been determined to do well!
My husband and I hope to be able to have children in the near future and I HAVE to lose this weight or it would NOT be safe.
I am so sorry for how long this has gotten but I guess I have never really talked about any of this and it just feels so good to get it out there!
Btw, happy to announce I have lost 20 lbs since the start of the new year! All with the help of this app, water aerobics and a class I take called POUND! Still have a lot to go but I can do this ! WE CAN DO THIS!!0 -
Thank you for inviting me in this special, very comfortable group! Its nice to be around people who are struggling with the same battles as I. The advice, motivation and encouragement is overwhelming.
I'm 44 live in Portage Lakes Ohio, married with three step daughters and three granddaughters. I married into an instant family. No stretch marks from kids but definitely from being over weight. I've been over weight since a child. My brother and sister toothpicks of course, could eat anything. Bags of doritos pizza etc. I remember when I was in my teens, my brother had me eat everything that he did for two weeks and we exercised. He lost a pound, I gained two! Yep, that's life!
So I dealt with the fact that I'm different! I have tried tons of diets in the past. This ap by far is the best. I had started last Jan. and had hurt my foot and gave up. Gained back the ten pounds I lost. This year I started Jan 6 and that was the start of my new lifestyle. I'm enjoying logging my food and seeing the changes I'm going through. I love the community boards. I was not aware of them before.( not tech saavy)
I did not think I could post as much as I have! A little long winded I am. Sorry, but it feels good to be able to share and not be judged! Thanks again for the support, motivation and kindness everyone has given!!0 -
Welcome to Everyone! I love reading all your stories. We definitely are not alone and can fund support here!0
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Everyone is sharing so much about their lives, I feel like I know you guys already! It's so great to be able to open up here about things, especially things that we have in common.
It seems like we all have emotional/ bored one eating habits! Let's work togetger to make this a happy- busy place! Lok0 -
MaryLandry89 - good luck with the Biggest Loser challenge at work. Having co-workers eating healthy should help... they won't be bringing in too many "goodies" to share. Keep posting your up-dates, and congrats on the weight loss o far. :-)0
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Hiii friends-- my name is Lia. Wanting to get healthier because it's scary to be sick and wonderful to have confidence with a hott body to back it up (>.0) Been obese most of my adult life, except in college but dieted all the wrong ways. This time I'm ready to do it the right way and hopefully incorporate it enough where it becomes a lifestyle for my fiance and me. Good luck to all of us and I know we will all succeed!!! xoxo0
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I love reading everyone's stories!0
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