I focus purely on my goals. If people in my household are not supportive to my goals, I find people who are.

With the meal time thing, I find that eating a different meal from the rest of the family can alienate you. What I do now is eat the same as everyone else but in smaller portions and enough to fit in with my calorie intake. People don't always understand calorie logging so I find it easier not to explain.

As it is me who does the shopping I buy snacks that I like and snacks for everyone else once month and when it is done it's done. I have been quite disciplined in the last year and there have been no complaints. We do, however, make space for take aways and eating what we want because we not only love food, we see it as fuel.

I would suggest talking to your family about your goals. All the best with it.

Well, it's just me and my son. We eat the same meals but he might have potatoes or pasta or rice while I just add veggies. He is very supportive of my running and doesn't mind to eat later. I meal prep on weekends so it saves time.