Why is it so hard to give up Carbs :-(

Donnah781
Donnah781 Posts: 37 Member
edited November 18 in Social Groups
Hello,
I"m new to this group. I started back on MFP a few days ago. I'm trying so hard to not eat carbs. I did have a bagel today and a few other carbs. I know its one day at a time and each day I will lower my carb intake. I drank a coffee with milk and 2 sugars instead of m usual extra cream and 4 sugar. I'M PROUD OF MYSELF that I changed that almost cold turkey per say. :-)
That was a big step for me.
How do you control your carb craving and what snack ideas can you share with me. Thank you in advance for the input.

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  • kirkor
    kirkor Posts: 2,530 Member
    Remind yourself of why you are going low carb. Make the reasons strong enough.

    One of my mantras: "flour is filler"

    Don't eat bagels, full stop. Just don't allow them to be an option for you.
  • kmbweber2014
    kmbweber2014 Posts: 680 Member
    I have a motivation board to remind me daily. I'll post a picture when I get home. It keeps me mentally on target. I also don't let certain things in my house that I know are trigger foods, and I don't go to stores/coffee shops/restaurants that I know I can't control myself at.
  • tru2one
    tru2one Posts: 298 Member
    I compare cutting carbage to climbing a mountain. It IS hard, you WILL feel kind of crappy while you're doing it, but if you keep that mountain top in view and remind yourself how accomplished you will feel when you summit, the view from the top is SO worth it. The longer you toy around w/ the crappy carbs, the longer it's going to take you to make that mountain top.

    And once you scale the mountain, the rest of the ride is downhill from there...easy-peasey. :-)
  • shai74
    shai74 Posts: 512 Member
    If you eat carbs you'll want carbs. That simple. If I eat one slice of bread I will eat ALL the bread, for the next 3 months. If you don't eat carbs, it's only hard for about a week, then you should feel completely in control. Best thing about low carb IMO is not letting food control you.
  • AngInCanada
    AngInCanada Posts: 947 Member
    I am also one who can't go slowly. The first 3 or 4 days sucked but I'm day 10 today and its much better. Haven't ate over 20 net carbs in 10 days. At this point I think if I ate a piece of bread or had a spoon full of sugar in my coffee, I'd go cometely back to how i was before so eliminating all of that junk is how it HAS to be.
  • spunkyabroad
    spunkyabroad Posts: 137 Member
    For me, I just committed at the start. I didn't know if it would actually work for me, but I figured it was worth a whole hearted effort. I cut out all sugar and grains and starchy veg. All of it. The second day I was in Amsterdam to run an errand and it was sunny and warm and I kept walking by cafes full of people drinking beer in the sun. I really wanted to stop and treat myself. But I figured, it had only been one day and how could I tell if it worked if I didn't give it a real try? So, that was my first nsv. I said no, I don't need a beer. Also, what really helped me switch was not worrying about calories at all. I ate as much as I wanted of real food so that I wasn't hungry. It's a lot easier to say no to carbs when you're not hungry. Over time, my appetite naturally reduced so that now I'm eating low enough calories to lose weight, without counting calories!

    I won't lie, the first week was tough. It was a constant mental struggle to not reach for the sweets. But after that, honestly it's been smooth sailing for me. I still get cravings when I'm on my period, but they're manageable and I can tell the difference between "a cookie would be nice now" versus "a cookie now would just make me want more cookies and undo all my hard work so far."

    My advice would be commit. Do not have ANY sugar or carbs for two to three weeks MINIMUM. You'll find you actually stop wanting those things when you're not constantly having them.

    Best wishes on your health journey!
  • Lrdoflamancha
    Lrdoflamancha Posts: 1,280 Member
    I guess what each one of us are asking is.... How bad do you want what low carb will get you.... If you want it enough you will find a way to make it work. If you do not you will find excuses... I agree with going all in from the beginning. This killed my sweets craving the fastest. No hunger is a great inducement.
  • wabmester
    wabmester Posts: 2,748 Member
    Do not have ANY sugar or carbs for two to three weeks MINIMUM. You'll find you actually stop wanting those things when you're not constantly having them.

    Winner, winner, chicken dinner!

    Carbs are a habit. You need to form a new habit. It takes at least a few weeks. Maybe a month. Then you'll be on autopilot.
  • SazzySuze
    SazzySuze Posts: 119 Member
    Think of all the foods you like that are not carbs. Eat a lot of those foods. Have you been on diets where you couldn't have much butter? What about mayo? You can have that now in abundance. I'm saying try to focus on the things you CAN enjoy instead of the things you can't. I'm still learning this, too, and that's what I'm trying to do. It's getting easier. I wasn't able to cut down to zero carbs immediately. I still can't do it even. But it does get easier. The more often you say no to the carbs, the easier it gets. If you find it too difficult to do zero carbs, maybe just try to do without the most obvious carbs at first - pasta, bread, cereal, sugary foods, and rice. Do that for a bit before actually starting to count carbs and the transition is a little easier. Many people complain of feeling flu like symptoms when they go very low carb but it's not so bad if you ease into it. At least it wasn't for me.
  • ihatetodietalways
    ihatetodietalways Posts: 180 Member
    I have also heard that going low carb requires some more salt in the diet.
  • ihatetodietalways
    ihatetodietalways Posts: 180 Member
    Dont forget that there are carbs in many popular veggies, which is fine. But if you have diabetes and/or you want to be on ketogenic diet, you have to take these into consideration.
  • glossbones
    glossbones Posts: 1,064 Member
    Don't switch cream for milk! Milk has more sugar (and therefore carbs) than cream. Better to switch up to a heavier cream (most of us who put cream in our coffee use heavy whipping cream). Coming from the SAD way of eating, you'll have the baggage of all the 'healthier' recommendations built into that, and you need to chuck those out the nearest window, seriously! Rib eye, not sirloin. 70%/30% ground beef, not 90%/10%.. you want the fat. Fat is your friend. Fat will control your hunger (assuming no internal signal issues), whereas carbs will only make you spiral for more carbs.

    I agree with everyone.. reducing your carbs a little at a time will be torture. Just cut them out entirely, or go niiiice and low, say max 20 TOTAL g per day, and only from vegetable sources. Try an avocado in the morning instead of a bagel, you can even find recipes for a baked avocado with an egg in the stone spot. I usually just have eggs and bacon (actually this week I made myself a big batch of egg salad and I just eat a little in the morning, what a time saver!). And watch your electrolytes, sodium/potassium/magnesium tend to flow out with the waste water, so you'll need to be replacing those.

    So yeah, break ALL the rules the SAD handbook gives you: skip the grains, eat the fat, add more salt!
  • iam4life
    iam4life Posts: 39 Member
    You cut the cravings by cutting out the carbs. Seriously. I finally beat my cravings several weeks ago, but succumbed to a very small slice of gourmet carrot cake at Grandma's birthday party Saturday. I have been fighting cravings ever since. Five days! That one reintroduction triggered it all. Just commit to no carbs for two or three weeks--just will yourself not to--and you'll find those cravings disappearing.

    One last thought: Artificial sweeteners trigger cravings for me, too, even though they're not technically carbs. Just a thought.
  • bluefish86
    bluefish86 Posts: 842 Member
    edited May 2015
    Donnah781 wrote: »
    Hello,
    How do you control your carb craving and what snack ideas can you share with me. Thank you in advance for the input.
    The best way to stop craving carbs is to stop eating carbs. Simple as.

    Try snacking on stuff like meat, cheese, boiled eggs, nuts and leafy green salads... having tasty alternatives on hand will make it much easier to transition. :smile:
  • Sugarbeat
    Sugarbeat Posts: 824 Member
    OP, at first its about how much you want to be low carb. After a few weeks it becomes normal. I find myself writing potatoes on my grocery list (for the rest of the family) and still coming home without them because they're just not on my radar anymore. I'm never sure how much bread we have and if someone doesn't remind me I won't even think to put sweets on the list. In the past a bag of Oreos had to be put in the cookie jar, by someone else, almost immediately. If I handled them I wanted one all. night. long. Now I can put them away without even wanting one at all. Hang in there, it gets easier. If you want to go slower at lowering the carbs, try keeping the carbs to veggies and dairy at first, maybe some berries. Don't worry about the number, just the type of carbs. Once you're adapted to that, then maybe check your numbers. Your mind and body both need time to adapt so be patient with yourself.
  • GSD_Mama
    GSD_Mama Posts: 629 Member
    This is from your profile:
    Why I want to get in shape
    To feel healthier
    Live and long healthy life

    This alone should make you stay strong and drop all carbage. You need to change your mind about foods completely. Think of processed food/carbs as poison to your body. The more you resist them the easier it will be. You're the only one who can change things for yourself and your family.
  • KaysKidz
    KaysKidz Posts: 208 Member
    I did the opposite. I cut back the carbs, didn't cut them out. I started with allowing myself 75 carbs. Now, I rarely count them but I know I'm in the net 20-30 range most days. I no longer crave them. Even diet pop is now too sweet most days. I have 2 water bottles on my desk, and 3 more in my purse. 2 months ago, that would have never been the case! I have found that the more I eat of one food group (used to be carbs, now is protien), the more I crave it. I was a carb junkie. Did not think I could give up carbs EVER. And now, I rarely have any and the ones I do, I get from veggies and berries. Bread/pasta/potatoes/rice ect never happen anymore. I have found one sub for bread that I will have on rare occassion that I need (ie want) a wrap or tortilla. But that's it, and it is low carb.
  • nikoba
    nikoba Posts: 291 Member
    One thing that helped me when I first started is thinking about all the delicious things I CAN have and not dwelling on the things I no longer will eat. The gradual decrease would never work for me personally, I just had to dive in. I, of course, printed recipe after recipe and tried to make sure I found substitutes for some of my favorite things (pizza, tacos, etc.) so when a craving hits, I can make something similar but better and be happy with my choice.
  • nikoba
    nikoba Posts: 291 Member
    I personally love this site for recipe and meal ideas...her reviews and nutritional breakdown are helpful:
    http://www.genaw.com/lowcarb/recipes.html
  • DeannaSofia886
    DeannaSofia886 Posts: 77 Member
    shai74 wrote: »
    If you eat carbs you'll want carbs. That simple. If I eat one slice of bread I will eat ALL the bread, for the next 3 months. If you don't eat carbs, it's only hard for about a week, then you should feel completely in control. Best thing about low carb IMO is not letting food control you.

    THis is sooooo true!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Fat4Fuel2
    Fat4Fuel2 Posts: 280 Member
    I guess what each one of us are asking is.... How bad do you want what low carb will get you.... If you want it enough you will find a way to make it work. If you do not you will find excuses... I agree with going all in from the beginning. This killed my sweets craving the fastest. No hunger is a great inducement.

    I wish there were a "like" button.
  • Fvaisey
    Fvaisey Posts: 5,506 Member
    For myself it was easy if you do it in one step. I only experience keto-flu the first week and no carb craving or hunger after the 3rd day. I went to 50 carbs, no bread, rice, pasta, potatoes, etc. After 3 months I can eat a bit of this stuff within my macros without a return of cravings or hunger.
  • Dragonwolf
    Dragonwolf Posts: 5,600 Member
    Donnah781 wrote: »
    How do you control your carb craving and what snack ideas can you share with me. Thank you in advance for the input.

    Like others said, don't eat carbs. Seriously, for most people, the less you eat them, the less you want them. Whether you do it cold turkey or step-down approach is up to you.

    Favor fat over carbs. So yes, trading your cream for milk was the wrong direction. That's okay, though. Live and learn. Get your cream back next time.

    Start your day with fat. A lot of people here swear by Bulletproof Coffee or some variation of it. It's coffee with butter and coconut oil blended into it (for the base recipe). Some people add other stuff, like cinnamon, cocoa powder, and even eggs (no, it doesn't get eggy tasting, no there's no risk of salmonella as long as your coffee isn't tepid; it makes it custard like). You can also just go with the old standby of bacon (or sausage) and eggs. The common denominator in all of these though is that they're a good hit of fat and maybe some protein. This is far less likely to set you up for hunger and cravings later in the day.

    Cheese makes a great snack. As does jerky and beef sticks (watch the ingredients, though). Some would argue on here, though, that the best snack is no snack at all. If you find yourself wanting to snack, make sure you're eating large enough meals. Yes, it's okay if your meal is 800 calories or something that seems really high, especially when it means that you're not snacking between meals.

    After the first few weeks, the carb cravings should take care of themselves. If you're finding you're still having them, make sure you're getting sufficient fat, sufficient food in general, and then try lowering your carbs even more. Some people have a carb tolerance that's so low that any significant amount of carbs (and in some cases, carbs from any source) still trigger cravings. Keep working your way down (and, as a result, your fat up) until you find the point where you no longer get those cravings.

    In the meantime, don't think about it in terms of what you can't have. Instead, think about all the awesome stuff you can have. For example, I had eggs cooked in butter and topped with cheese and sour cream for breakfast, then cream cheese wrapped in ham slices for lunch. Talk about an AHA follower's nightmare!

    Also, think about it in terms of choosing these things, instead of what's "allowed" or "not allowed." I choose to eat this way, because I choose to no eat things that make me bloated or give me a headache. These sorts of things will come as your little ailments -- be they clinical or subclinical -- start fading away, and you learn what it feels like to actually feel healthy.
  • Donnah781
    Donnah781 Posts: 37 Member
    edited May 2015
    Wow rhank you everyone for all the responses. Im overwhelmed with all the support. Lowering carbs is such an adjustment. I am trying so hard. Im so hungry but i know my body is adjusting. Then to no carbs. :-)
  • farmers_daughter
    farmers_daughter Posts: 1,632 Member
    I've found that cutting back at first is a big help... to go cold turkey and net around 20 seemed impossible, but I am going to agree with some that breads, bagels, mashed potatoes, white rice, cut those suckers out. Fat is our friend, so you might be used to having mashed potatoes with your dinner, go with the ribeye, and then sub a veggie, and if it's a carb-ish veggie like zuchinnni or oh god, I love brussel sprouts!!!! So what. Find those really good foods, with high protien/fat to fill you up more. I used to believe that those were magic words "full" "feel full" and with l-erchf (lower carb, high fat :wink: ) really it does.
    Beef jerky yum yum.... cheese oh my lord....loooooove!

    You got this doll!!!

  • kuranda10
    kuranda10 Posts: 593 Member
    If it's easier for you mentally, cut out anything white for at least two weeks. No flour, sugar, rice, pasta potatos.

    I found that is easier for people to adjust to than "OMG, that cup of broccoli is .05 over my carb limit"

    and then the rest just seems to follow
  • GaleHawkins
    GaleHawkins Posts: 8,159 Member
    I was a Carb addict for sure in my case and the only thing that finally worked for me was to quit carbs cold turkey. It was hellish for two then the cravings just faded.

    My joint and total body pain was so high I was ready to give into taking Enbrel knowing it could lead to me getting cancer. That was to happen on my Nov 2014 doctor visit. Oct 2014 I decided I was going to be off sugar/most all carbs for 30 days before my appoint to see if with diet I could side step taking Enbrel injections. Within that 30 days the carb craving left and my pain dropped from 7-8 to 2-3 on a 1-10 scale. It actually ticked the Docs off when I said no to Enbrel.
  • jumanajane
    jumanajane Posts: 438 Member
    Well done on your choice to go low carb in the first place! With so many people being 'anti' that in itself is a big step! It's hard to get rid of all the years of conditioning about fat is bad etc etc but literally throw all those ideas to the wind and embrace the new you! Don't cut out cream, don't cut the bacon!!!! Add more and then add butter! You say you are so hungry....no way should you be if you are eating enough fat! Go bath in it and drink the bath water,lolol.
    Most of all......enjoy having the cream, butter,oil, meat and cheese that will become your best friends....and wave goodbye to the things poisoning you....carbs!
  • kirkor
    kirkor Posts: 2,530 Member
    kuranda10 wrote: »
    If it's easier for you mentally, cut out anything white for at least two weeks. No flour, sugar, rice, pasta potatos.

    I found that is easier for people to adjust to than "OMG, that cup of broccoli is .05 over my carb limit"

    and then the rest just seems to follow

    Yep; aka "lazy keto" and some people make it work for many months,

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