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Eles697
Eles697 Posts: 113 Member
edited November 23 in Social Groups
I made this board. I have a 4 year old, 2 year old and 8 week old (I'm currently blaming the 4 year old and 8 week old for my extra 50 pounds). I live in eastern US and work full time (though currently on maternity leave for a few more weeks. Welcome to the board! Tell me (us? Someday?) about you!
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  • SCJ10
    SCJ10 Posts: 10 Member
    Hey (: I am a Stay at home mom of a beautiful seven month old little girl. She is my only child. I am struggling with being a sahm because of being extremely independent my entire life, however it's all that will work with our current situation. While pregnant I did amazing with my weight and was back to pre-pregnancy numbers by the time she was two months old. Then I don't know what happened. Thirty pounds later I'm almost at full pregnancy weight without the baby to show for it. I just need motivation, support, anything really to help get out of the slump. I'm hoping to maybe make some friends & have people to talk to along the way. This is the first active moms group I've come across so here I am. (:
  • WildePillar
    WildePillar Posts: 120 Member
    SCJ10 wrote: »
    Hey (: I am a Stay at home mom of a beautiful seven month old little girl. She is my only child. I am struggling with being a sahm because of being extremely independent my entire life, however it's all that will work with our current situation. While pregnant I did amazing with my weight and was back to pre-pregnancy numbers by the time she was two months old. Then I don't know what happened. Thirty pounds later I'm almost at full pregnancy weight without the baby to show for it. I just need motivation, support, anything really to help get out of the slump. I'm hoping to maybe make some friends & have people to talk to along the way. This is the first active moms group I've come across so here I am. (:


    I'm the mother of a seven-month little girl as well :) I recently went back to work after a six-month-long maternity leave.
  • Eles697
    Eles697 Posts: 113 Member
    Hi both of you people. You seem nice and normal! I'm a bit jealous of the 7 month old part. I like it better when the baby can sit and play than when he stares and wants food and occasionally if you work hard enough will smile.
  • haepifeet
    haepifeet Posts: 20 Member
    Hi :) I'm a new first time mom, almost 3 weeks postpartum. I gained about 37lbs during pregnancy and due to breastfeeding am down about 15lbs. But I am in the 200s and am only 5'1! Hoping to ease back into moving my body little by little each week. Looking forward to connecting with other moms along the way.
  • Eles697
    Eles697 Posts: 113 Member
    haepifeet wrote: »
    Hi :) I'm a new first time mom, almost 3 weeks postpartum. I gained about 37lbs during pregnancy and due to breastfeeding am down about 15lbs. But I am in the 200s and am only 5'1! Hoping to ease back into moving my body little by little each week. Looking forward to connecting with other moms along the way.

    Nice to see you! It's hard to do too much at 3 weeks without feeling like your uterus is falling out your vagina (in my opinion), but it gets feeling normal pretty quickly. At 8 weeks I feel back to normal in most ways. Just too heavy!
  • PandaBWA
    PandaBWA Posts: 58 Member
    Hi! I have 2 children, my 3.5-year-old boy and my 20 month old daughter. My weight is what it was before the first pregnancy but I'm bigger (so much muscle is gone!). Trying to get to a point where I can run around with my kid outside without feeling like I ran a marathon. :)
  • SCJ10
    SCJ10 Posts: 10 Member



    I'm the mother of a seven-month little girl as well :) I recently went back to work after a six-month-long maternity leave.
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    How Awesome! I went back to work for a couple of months but then things happened and I ended up without a sitter. Thank goodness my fiance can support us. I feel like i should really be looking good by now with how everyone says i have all this "free time" ha! They dont know my girl too well lol.
  • Eles697
    Eles697 Posts: 113 Member
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    PandaBWA wrote: »
    Hi! I have 2 children, my 3.5-year-old boy and my 20 month old daughter. My weight is what it was before the first pregnancy but I'm bigger (so much muscle is gone!). Trying to get to a point where I can run around with my kid outside without feeling like I ran a marathon. :)

    Welcome! I agree with the increased fat:muscle ratio after these babies. I feel like jello everywhere especially since I wasn't terribly active during my pregnancies.
  • DawnieB1977
    DawnieB1977 Posts: 4,248 Member
    Hi mummies (or mommies as you're probably all in the US?). I'm Dawn, I'm a 37 year old secondary school French teacher from England. I've got 3 children - Jack is 6, Maya is 4 and Zoë is 15 months. I've been into exercise for years now, and I exercised through my first and third pregnancies, but I still gained weight. I've still got about 15lbs to lose to get to pre-pregnancy weight.

    I've been back at the gym since Zoë was 6 weeks old and I try to go at least 5 times a week. I've really improved my fitness and I like to push myself so I do a lot of circuits type classes, and try to do 2 PT sessions a week. I've just had the last 6 weeks off (benefits to being a teacher) and I had a year for maternity leave (this is what you're entitled to in England) so I've had a lot of time to work on my fitness.

    I've got a Fitbit so I aim to get 10,000 steps a day too, which is pretty easy with active kids :)
  • phoenixghost1
    phoenixghost1 Posts: 2 Member
    Hi everyone! I'm a first time mom with a beautiful 7 month old little girl. I am back to work (part time) and juggling a busy grad school schedule and being a new mom. I still have a little bit of baby weight but needed to lose some weight before getting pregnant too. I finally decided that I wasn't going to wait for life to slow down (realized it probably never was going to anyways) and wanted to incorporate healthier living into my current crazy life.

    In my first phase of this journey I set a goal to lose 40 lbs by Christmas. I'm down 5 lbs since starting so here's to another 35 lbs!

    Feel free to add me. I can't promise I will always have inspiring diary post but I'm going to do whatever I can to stick with it and login every day.
  • mdrichardsons
    mdrichardsons Posts: 83 Member
    Hello all! SAHM of 3 kids. 11, 7, and 18 months. When I started in July I needed to lose 50lbs now just 34 lbs to go. I don't think I really ever lost the baby weight from my 11 year old (lol) not all of it at least. My stomach looks like a road map! Don't think I can do much for that but I'm learning to count calories, which I have never done before, and it's very empowering to feel in control. Glad to make some mommy friends.
  • Eles697
    Eles697 Posts: 113 Member
    Hi and welcome everyone! Hope we can lose together! I agree with you, phoenixghost, if you wait for the time when it will be easy you will die obese and waiting.
    Back in grad school I used to tell my boyfriend at the time that I couldn't keep my apartment clean because I was studying and working and just couldn't. He said that was bs; he said I just didn't feel it was a priority and asked when would I not be too busy? Never! He was right. Same with weight loss, I guess.
  • amarie210
    amarie210 Posts: 47 Member
    edited August 2015
    Hi! I have a 14 year old and a 4 month old. I am a stay at home mom now but going back to working overnights next month. I had about 20 lbs to lose when I got pregnant and proceeded to gain 45+lbs while pregnant! Time to do something about it!
  • caiti12
    caiti12 Posts: 47 Member
    Hi! I'm a working mom to a 4 year old and 1 year old. I actually gained weight when I returned to work in addition to weight gain during both pregnancies. I'm lucky to be working part time right now so despite the hit to our budget, I have time to focus a bit on me. I need to lose 100 pounds. I can blame my daughter (4 year old) for 60 of those but the pure amazement and privilege of carrying my babies is well worth the fact I still look pregnant and get asked about when I am due at least monthly. The thing I struggle with the most is making time for me and not putting my husband or children first. I know my health must be prioritized but I'm so use to making myself the last priority so putting myself first is a challenge but if I don't I'll never lose the weight and be the active mom in my heart I want to be.
  • teeboogie
    teeboogie Posts: 8 Member
    Hey moms! I'm excited to be a part of this group. I've been blaming the baby for a decade..lol. My first is 10 years old and my second is seven months old. With my first I gained 60 lbs and it stayed with me into this pregnancy. With this baby I gained 30 lbs and I lost over 30 lbs in the first 2 months after delivery. Started at 247 lbs and dropped to 213 lbs. Unfortunately I gained when I returned to work. The scale now reads 230 lbs. Now I can't fit the uniforms I just bought! My stomach is turning into something that there is no word for...stopped binding too soon I guess. This year I turned 40 and feel like I'm falling apart.
  • Eles697
    Eles697 Posts: 113 Member
    Welcome amarie, caiti and teeboogie! My sister lost 80 pounds a few years back and while weighing in the 130s and very fit she was still asked frequently if she was pregnant! She ended up getting surgery for rectus diastasis and all is right now!
  • anotherschroeder
    anotherschroeder Posts: 8 Member
    edited August 2015
    Hi, everyone!

    I'm jumping the gun a bit, but I'm 29 years old and due in about a week with my first. I'm trying to be proactive in getting rid of the baby weight, which is why I'm here!

    I'm carrying small (physically I look about 7 months pregnant, although I'm due next week; and baby is measuring a tad small, too), but still gained about 30 pounds (though I swear half of it is in my bra!) on my 5'6" frame. Before pregnancy, I was a kinda-sorta runner (5k, 10k, 15k, half marathon, sprint triathlon... but I'm not fast whatsoever!) but my sciatica flared up around week 20 so I turned into a bum!

    I plan on doing a combination of breastfeeding and pumping for at least 6 months (hopefully) but do plan on returning to work when my baby is ~3.5 months old, providing pumped milk to daycare.

    Anyway, I'm really glad to have started this new account here so I can get back to being active and be a fit mama!
  • Eles697
    Eles697 Posts: 113 Member
    Hi, everyone!

    I'm jumping the gun a bit, but I'm 29 years old and due in about a week with my first. I'm trying to be proactive in getting rid of the baby weight, which is why I'm here!

    I'm carrying small (physically I look about 7 months pregnant, although I'm due next week; and baby is measuring a tad small, too), but still gained about 30 pounds (though I swear half of it is in my bra!) on my 5'6" frame. Before pregnancy, I was a kinda-sorta runner (5k, 10k, 15k, half marathon, sprint triathlon... but I'm not fast whatsoever!) but my sciatica flared up around week 20 so I turned into a bum!

    I plan on doing a combination of breastfeeding and pumping for at least 6 months (hopefully) but do plan on returning to work when my baby is ~3.5 months old, providing pumped milk to daycare.

    Anyway, I'm really glad to have started this new account here so I can get back to being active and be a fit mama!

    Welcome! Congrats on your first! Let us know when he/she comes!
  • afLMC1990
    afLMC1990 Posts: 2 Member
    Hi! I'm Lindsay, I have a 2 year old daughter and a 12 week old son. Exclusively breastfeeding/pumping. I am active duty military. I am currently 137lbs and want to get back to 110 (I was 117 before getting pregnant). :)
  • Eles697
    Eles697 Posts: 113 Member
    Welcome!
  • misznikk
    misznikk Posts: 10 Member
    Hello ! I'm Nicole and I'm a college student and working mom to an energetic 3 year old boy. I initially worked my butt off to lose 20 pounds right after I had my son, but now I'm ready to get back at it and lose that last 10-15 to get to my goal weight of about 120.
  • alixzina
    alixzina Posts: 6 Member
    Hi everyone im a mom of 3 kiddos my oldest is 3 middle is 1 1/2 and youngest is 4months. i gained like 45-50lbs everytime i start losing weight i end up pregnant
  • Eles697
    Eles697 Posts: 113 Member
    alixzina wrote: »
    Hi everyone im a mom of 3 kiddos my oldest is 3 middle is 1 1/2 and youngest is 4months. i gained like 45-50lbs everytime i start losing weight i end up pregnant

    That was my problem between my first and second! I got pregnant when number 1 was 6 months old so I still had some extra weight (and still have now after #3). At least I lost everything with #2, or I'd be a lot worse off...
  • adawn1981
    adawn1981 Posts: 32 Member
    Hi! I have a 21 month old and a 3 month old. I'm blaming the toddler. I've lost what I gained with my baby but still need to lose the rest of what I gained with my oldest. Plus the toddler drives me crazy all day so it's her fault for sure!

    I'm a 34 year old stay at home mom in Phoenix.
  • Hurricane_C
    Hurricane_C Posts: 806 Member
    Hello everyone! I just turned 30 and am a first time mom to a 9 week old little girl. I only gained about 30-35 pounds during my pregnancy and I only have about 5 more to lose to get back to pre-pregnancy weight. However, I was wanting to lose about 25 or 30 before I got pregnant! I'm 5'7" at around 189. I'm breastfeeding and pumping while at work (just returned two weeks ago).

    We started going on nightly walks about a week after our LO arrived. Didn't walk very far at first - thats for sure! But I feel like these walks have definitely helped me lose the weight. However, now that I'm back to work, I'm just so tired that walking doesn't sound appealing at all! I know that I just need to suck it up and work out but I'd much rather spend time snuggling with my daughter.

    Good luck to everyone!
  • DawnieB1977
    DawnieB1977 Posts: 4,248 Member
    Hello everyone! I just turned 30 and am a first time mom to a 9 week old little girl. I only gained about 30-35 pounds during my pregnancy and I only have about 5 more to lose to get back to pre-pregnancy weight. However, I was wanting to lose about 25 or 30 before I got pregnant! I'm 5'7" at around 189. I'm breastfeeding and pumping while at work (just returned two weeks ago).

    We started going on nightly walks about a week after our LO arrived. Didn't walk very far at first - thats for sure! But I feel like these walks have definitely helped me lose the weight. However, now that I'm back to work, I'm just so tired that walking doesn't sound appealing at all! I know that I just need to suck it up and work out but I'd much rather spend time snuggling with my daughter.

    Good luck to everyone!

    Congrats :)

    I feel so bad that you're back at work already, that really sucks. We get a year for maternity leave in England, so I really can't imagine being back at work so soon. No wonder you're exhausted.

    I do find that being active gives me more energy though, so it might be worth trying to get on those walks. Helps clear any work stress too!
  • Hurricane_C
    Hurricane_C Posts: 806 Member
    Congrats :)

    I feel so bad that you're back at work already, that really sucks. We get a year for maternity leave in England, so I really can't imagine being back at work so soon. No wonder you're exhausted.

    I do find that being active gives me more energy though, so it might be worth trying to get on those walks. Helps clear any work stress too!

    Thanks :) Yeah, I'm not really ready to be back at work, but have found a good baby sitter for the days my husband has to work. I wish we had a year, that would be amazing! We get up to 12 weeks, but have to use sick/vacation time otherwise its not paid.
    She's doing pretty well at night, once I (finally) get her to sleep she'll sleep for 5-6 hours before she wakes to nurse and then typically goes back to sleep for another hour or two before I have to wake her to get her ready to leave. So I'm at least able to get a solid 4-5 hours of sleep.
    I took a little walk with her yesterday after work, but my feet were killing me (and it was hot) after work and then stopping by the store.

    There just aren't enough hours in the day!!
  • Watch_Me_Shine416
    Watch_Me_Shine416 Posts: 138 Member
    Hi moms! I'm a first time SAHM to my beautiful 5 month old daughter. I'm 26 years old and I've always been overweight, but I'd love to lose the baby weight and more! I'd love to find mommy friends looking to lose the baby weight as well. Feel free to add me :)
  • beckyfescina
    beckyfescina Posts: 1 Member
    I am a mom to two girls (8/17/13 and 2/15/15). After the second child, I decided to SAH. This has been quite an adjustment. I am attempting to lose 20+ pounds and finding it extremely difficult to get moving and motivated. I recently linked my fitbit to MFP and hope to boost my activity level. I'd love to hear from moms in similar situations...
  • getrealmommy30
    getrealmommy30 Posts: 28 Member
    hello everyone! I am a mom of two girls - a almost four year old and a one year old. I recently went from being the primary bread winner in my family to having a very part time job and being home with my girls the majority of the time. I'm feeling better about it recently, but I still struggle with being at home almost all the time. I try to remember that I'm glad to be my girls' primary care giver.

    I did successfully lose 25lbs after my first using MFP (about half of what I wanted to lose), but of course, gained it back during my second pregnancy.

    After I had my last baby I weighed 217lbs (52 lbs more than I'd like). It's taken me almost a full year to get a grip and realize that the weight wasn't going anywhere unless I decided to do something different, so here I am!

    beckyfescina - I also have a fitbit and am linking it to mfp. I LOVE IT! It gives me credit for all the running around I do all day at home! lol. I normally hit 10,000 without having to do any kind of workout! I wonder about the calorie burns, though. I feel like they are too generous?? What do you think.
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