LTL - Minday 9/26/16

crewahl
crewahl Posts: 4,472 Member
Everyone says it, but just how do you do it? How do you take the guidelines of the WW program and turn them into a lifestyle you can live every day...from now on? That is what we are here to explore. Each weekday, a new topic is offered up for discussion. Newbie? Join in! Veteran? Join in! Your thoughts may be just what someone else needs to hear.

Monday -- crewahl / Charlie
Tuesday --60in2017 / Millie
Wednesday -- minimyzeme / Kim
Thursday -- MICHGOLFER2 / Jane
Friday --Jimb376mfp / Jim

Today's topic: Who's your buddy?

Who - other than this august little group - has had the greatest impact on your weight loss?

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  • gadgetgirlIL
    gadgetgirlIL Posts: 1,381 Member
    A work friend who lost 80 pounds through WW was a big inspiration to me. For a long time we used to go to WW meetings together but then she started to backslide and has stopped going. While she has not regained all her weight, she is certainly many pounds above goal now.

    A friend that I made through the WW boards is my daily e-mail buddy. We have so much in common beyond the desire to maintain our weight losses. I've had the pleasure of meeting her twice in real life and we have another get together planned for 2017.

    Then there is a group of friends that start on the WW boards but have moved to a secret FB group. One of the women in the group lives near me so we have gotten together many times over the years for hikes and bike rides. In addition, she is a WW leader and for a while was running a special maintainers meeting once a month that I attended. Unfortunately, her regional manager stopped that in 2015.
  • 88olds
    88olds Posts: 4,534 Member
    DW. It's a mixed bag but DW does almost all of the shopping & cooking. Never stopped buying junk food which she seemed to think was essential food group for the kids.

    But as just one example- she made me gallons and gallons of zero point soup. And brown rice and grilled chicken that I weighed and measured before mixing it into the soup. I've had that for dinner 100's of times.

    Even though the house was never purged of bad choices, the good choices were always right where I needed them.
  • DavidKuhnsSr
    DavidKuhnsSr Posts: 7,293 Member
    Definitely my DW. She was supportive and helpful when I was losing and has nagged just enough in my maintenance years. That's a tough balance to hit.
  • susan092907
    susan092907 Posts: 364 Member
    Greatest impact on weight loss - WW meetings of the past, which focused more on healthy well-balanced food plans, and how to stick with them. And especially at-work meetings where we were a small group of work friends and acquaintances who supported each other throughout the work day and work week.

    Greatest impact on weight maintenance - WW message boards, especially the maintenance board, which is where I actually learned from wise people who shared their experience about how maintenance can be done - something I never really got at any WW meetings. We've moved to another location now, and I'm there with them.
  • Rachel0778
    Rachel0778 Posts: 1,701 Member
    I tend to not to talk about weight loss to people IRL, mostly because I think it would bore the pants off of them. So while no one knows that I'm actively trying to lose weight, I do have a lot of healthy influences in my life. My SO always chooses the lean cuts of meat to put on the grill and never complains when I cook healthy food (I love him for this!). I have met most of my local friends through fitness classes so they are always up for doing something active with me and never think it's odd if I order a healthier option when we're out. My family are luckily not food pushers and always welcome healthy dishes to any event. It's nice to have a whole social environment that sets me up for success without even knowing that they are doing it.
  • leeless511
    leeless511 Posts: 243 Member
    In real life DH is supportive but also is part of my downfalls at times, but he does support the effort and participates and always tells me how good the food is etc. and although he is not a strict WW'er...he has seen benefits from my adopting the lifestyle.

    My real "buddy" is the boards of the past, this board and Connect. Knowing you are not alone in this effort had a big impact on getting to goal. I did WW multiple times at meetings and just never got the type of support/knowledge/enthusiasm as I have in the "social media" realm. I assume it is due to the volume of people you can interface with versus a meeting environment. And I do not participate in social media otherwise. I also was not a huge participant on WW social media, but I consumed the information regularly...tossed in my thoughts when I thought I could help others.
  • MICHGOLFER2
    MICHGOLFER2 Posts: 197 Member
    edited September 2016
    1) My WW meeting friends and leader - who hold me accountable.
    2) My doctor - who continues to encourage me, and shows me hard evidence (labs) of the progress I am making.
  • Al_Howard
    Al_Howard Posts: 8,713 Member
    TOL, who, by the way, married me 52 years ago today. :)
  • myallforjcbill
    myallforjcbill Posts: 5,729 Member
    DW has always been supportive and at times a weight loss partner.
    Of course the message boards, but I think my meeting leader, even though I only go once a month, back permitting still encourages, nudges and keeps me positive and facing forward. When she retires I will probably quite meetings all together or do my token visit if I think there is any value to lifetime status
  • Kramti386
    Kramti386 Posts: 127 Member
    Well since most of my weight loss was done while I was only an Online WW member. It was this group in its previous form. You were my meeting leaders, mentors and examples of how to do this lifestyle. When life got too busy to listen to come to my daily meeting, I lost my way.
  • podkey
    podkey Posts: 5,170 Member
    When I first joined my buddies were my cycling buddies who got me to WW unexpectedly on a Sat morning bike ride. I also had a couple of lady friends including one who use to post on the old WW boards (a la "vixen") who both lost over 100 lb and kept it off for several years. I think they both have struggled at least a bit this last year though.
    WW group members at the meeting do turn over but I have enjoyed my group.
  • Jimb376
    Jimb376 Posts: 106 Member
    Well our youngest son gave me "The Talk" at Thanksgiving 2012, that got me to join WW in Jan 2013. His words were my "Aha Moment" that changed how I looked at what I was doing to myself and to my family at 376 pounds!

    DW then told me to try WW "one more time" after I told her I was scared to go through with WL surgery. She said "You know it works." We both had been on WW and lost weight in the past. She lost a 100# in 1970s and was a WW ML. But we both had gained and lost weight our whole life because we treated it as being ON a diet and never really changed our Lifestyle. DW made WW Lifetime goal in 2013 and keeps me aware that there really is NO FINISH LINE!

    I go to my weekly WW meeting religiously. I have the same WW staff and ML from day one in Jan 2013. They are my touchstone to keep going no matter what. The regulars in the WW meeting group have seen me shrink -137# so now I am inspiring to some there.

    (And this very AUGUST group of GoaDies.)
  • Pete1964AK
    Pete1964AK Posts: 85 Member
    I would have to say I probably don't really have a weightloss buddy.
    My wife is quite supportive, in as much as she likes the idea of me losing weight, but she does complain a bit about me always wanting to weigh our ingredients and know what's in the food. She also loves to bake and doesn't seem to understand how difficult I find it when the delicious aromas are wafting around the house.

    I mix with a a group of people/friends that are all fairly active and it seems don't ever worry about what they eat. As we're fairly new to the area, I don't really have close friends.
    MFP is the closest thing to a support network I have.
  • Calvin2008Brian
    Calvin2008Brian Posts: 1,024 Member
    DW is supportive, and this group is hugely important.
  • goldenfrisbee
    goldenfrisbee Posts: 1,640 Member
    I'm more of an island than I'd like to admit. No outside influences have helped me, just the desire to be healthier.
    I know you said "outside the group" but I have to give a shout out to Kim who has always encouraged me and is an inspiration to me.
  • goldenfrisbee
    goldenfrisbee Posts: 1,640 Member
    Happy anniversary Al!! I'm still a rookie at 33 years with my DW.
  • wwchrisdad
    wwchrisdad Posts: 139 Member
    My meeting leader. A realist and motivator.
  • minimyzeme
    minimyzeme Posts: 2,708 Member
    Definitely my partner. She does all the shopping, food prep, cooking, even dishes most of the time. Let me say that I was fully prepared to do all of it in the event she didn't want to but without a doubt, her willingness to do all of the above made my part a lot easier. In fact, we joke now that all I had to do was bang my fork. The food magically appeared and I ate it. What was so hard about that???

    I'm fortunate to say there are plenty of also-rans, but that's for another LTL...
  • susan092907
    susan092907 Posts: 364 Member
    Al_Howard wrote: »
    TOL, who, by the way, married me 52 years ago today. :)

    Congratulations on your 52nd wedding anniversary - that's wonderful!
  • podkey
    podkey Posts: 5,170 Member
    Hey give TOL a peck for me too!!! Congrats.
  • minimyzeme
    minimyzeme Posts: 2,708 Member
    As usual, some insightful responses here!

    I'm a day late (and a dollar short) with Happy Anniversary @Al_Howard ; hope it was a good one! Thanks @goldenfrisbee for the shout out; really glad you found your way back to GOAD.