Living the Lifestyle - Wednesday, July 19, 2017
DavidKuhnsSr
Posts: 7,433 Member
Everyone says it, but just how do you do it? How do you take the guidelines of the WW program and turn them into a lifestyle you can live every day...from now on? That is what we are here to explore. Each weekday, a new topic is offered up for discussion. Newbie? Join in! Veteran? Join in! Your thoughts may be just what someone else needs to hear.
Monday -- 88olds
Tuesday -- whathapnd (Emmie)
Wednesday --David Kuhns
Thursday -- Rachel0778
Friday -- misterhub
Today's topic: Guilty (or not) pleasures.
For this weight management journey to work for me, I have had to accommodate relatively high-point foods that I love. I use real cream in my coffee, I eat chocolate almost every day; there are a bunch more examples I could list. I make this work by balancing my choices with extra effort elsewhere - walk longer, smaller portions of other foods.
So, how about you? Are there foods you refuse to sacrifice on the diet alter? How do you cope?
Monday -- 88olds
Tuesday -- whathapnd (Emmie)
Wednesday --David Kuhns
Thursday -- Rachel0778
Friday -- misterhub
Today's topic: Guilty (or not) pleasures.
For this weight management journey to work for me, I have had to accommodate relatively high-point foods that I love. I use real cream in my coffee, I eat chocolate almost every day; there are a bunch more examples I could list. I make this work by balancing my choices with extra effort elsewhere - walk longer, smaller portions of other foods.
So, how about you? Are there foods you refuse to sacrifice on the diet alter? How do you cope?
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I like having a treat every day and I'd rather weigh 10lbs more than give that up. I still track it, but I look forward to my daily indulgence.
Foods that have gone by the wayside: French fries, chips, white bread, other fried food, fatty meats. I honestly don't miss any of them (and I realized I never really liked them all that much to begin with-I just ate them because that's what everyone does).0 -
I also have a treat every day. I've worked it into my plan. I have tweaked the portion size over the years to be a little less caloric. I know that trying to eliminate it will not work long term.
I'm also way more selective about the food I eat. For example, I picked up a bag of potato chips at the end of last Saturday's bike ride as that was the only thing that was moderately appealing after riding for many hours in the hot sun. They are still sitting in the pantry because I really am not a fan of them any more - too greasy. I'd rather have my Trader Joe's Sweet Plantain chips instead. At some point the potato chips will either be given to DH or dumped in the breakroom.
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Basically I've just accepted smaller portions of everything.
Also -- I dumped the guilt, and changed how I talked about food (and myself). Its just food, not a moral choice. Food isn't bad or good, and I am not bad/good based on my food choices. I think of my daily allowance as a budget, and spend it as I see fit. Gotta cover the basics first, but then I can spend the rest on whatever brings me the most pleasure. So I don't consider them 'guilty' pleasures, or really even indulgences. I don't have to answer to anyone but myself, so who was saying I should feel guilty about enjoying my food? When I realized it was just me -- well, that meant I could change that, didn't it. So I did. Super important.2 -
^^^ I'm with Murple. May write more on it later, but she summed it up very well.0
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When I started I did this exercise.
"I can do this if______". One of my answers was- get some kind of treat everyday. So I did an extensive study of treats. Finally decided that I got the best bang for the points with frozen treats.
As a result, I eat cream almost every day. My current favorite is Breyers No Sugar Added.
And I don't feel a bit guilty. It has always been part of my program. It's how I learned to keep away from candy and cookies that are not very helpful to my plan.1 -
- Chocolate -- only dark chocolate. I don't have it every day and I *know* that I can't keep it in large quantities so I just buy a couple pieces at a time.
- Ice cream or sherbet -- I use regular ice cream and sherbet. Just smaller portions.
- Butter -- real butter
- Eggs -- real eggs
- Mayonnaise -- Full-fat. A tablespoon (measured) rather than just guesstimating how much.
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I'm with you @DavidKuhnsSr !
I started my WW program on the Points Plus plan--I think just one iteration ago. Having brushed up on GOADthoughts early, I loved the idea of not giving up anything for WW that I wasn't going to give up the rest of my life. I joined in late-Spring and we had an unusually hot and dry summer. I ate 1/4-1/3 cup of Haagen Dazs ice cream almost every night that summer! It was my first time in recent memory limiting my intake but I managed to lose weight most weeks because I cut portions of everything accordingly.
Like you, I have other examples too but for the most part, sticking to the structure of the point system helped me (forced me) to cut portions such that I really could eat anything I wanted, but obviously I'd have to make tradeoffs to do it. I love the flexibility and every day I appreciate life in a smaller body!
There's a few things that I haven't eaten in a long time, not so much because I've sworn them off, just that I've realized that most of the time, they aren't worth the point-cost for me now. I'm fine with the tradeoffs. I've learned I really can be satisfied with much smaller amounts than I used to eat. I've also learned that I used to eat a lot of stuff that added a lot of pounds not out of hunger or anything close to it, but just to stuff my face.
Reading @MurpleCat 's post reminds me that I was amazed at how high I had elevated food on my list of important things. Strange as it sounds, I had reached a point where so much of my life was scheduled around how I could make an appointment work with my foodlust. After adhering to the plan for awhile, I had a similar revelation as Murple: it's just food. I realized I given it a hell of a lot of / too much power. Combine that with @88olds 's perspective that life got smaller as I got bigger and I realize there was an absurdity to my former prioritization and perspective. Weight loss didn't solve all my problems but it sure helped me gain a healthier outlook about the role of food in my life.1 -
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Chocolate most days. Craft brew in moderation.0
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