Living The Lifestyle, Tuesday, 8/1/17

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Everyone says it, but just how do you do it? How do you take the guidelines of the WW program and turn them into a lifestyle you can live every day...from now on? That is what we are here to explore. Each weekday, a new topic is offered up for discussion. Newbie? Join in! Veteran? Join in! Your thoughts may be just what someone else needs to hear.
Monday -- imastar2 (Derrick)
Tuesday -- bwmalone (Brett)
Wednesday -- minimyzeme (Kim)
Thursday -- misterhub (Greg)
Friday -- Jimb376mfp (Jim)
Today's topic: Motivation vs. Discipline.
Often times it's easy to start making changes, because it is exciting. Dreams of watching the numbers go down, celery sticks magically making hunger pains going away... or maybe the classic movie training montage plays through your head as you envision the incredible strides you will make at the Gym.
Motivation can often fade as reality settles in, and the daily habits that got us here creep back into our lives.
How do you keep the motivation going? Or do you depend on grit and determination to keep going when it would be so much easier to let things slide?
Monday -- imastar2 (Derrick)
Tuesday -- bwmalone (Brett)
Wednesday -- minimyzeme (Kim)
Thursday -- misterhub (Greg)
Friday -- Jimb376mfp (Jim)
Today's topic: Motivation vs. Discipline.
Often times it's easy to start making changes, because it is exciting. Dreams of watching the numbers go down, celery sticks magically making hunger pains going away... or maybe the classic movie training montage plays through your head as you envision the incredible strides you will make at the Gym.
Motivation can often fade as reality settles in, and the daily habits that got us here creep back into our lives.
How do you keep the motivation going? Or do you depend on grit and determination to keep going when it would be so much easier to let things slide?
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Discipline saves my butt more than I'd like to admit, or more accurately, habits do. I know I can't rely on my motivation staying consistent so I have to set myself up for success.
For discipline in activity: every morning I wake up early to walk my dog. If I don't, he will likely destroy my couch so my habit is to set my alarm early every night. During lunch at work, I take a 1/2 hour walk. Sometimes coworkers come with me and bemoan why they can't lose weight, but then the next day they say they don't feel like walking so I walk solo. They haven't yet developed walking into a daily habit. At the beginning of the week, I pre-schedule my physical activities. Since I know I have to pay for them, it is literally lighting money on fire if I don't go. I've set up the habit to get in 5 workouts a week, and I've got the discipline to follow through with it.
For discipline in eating: Every Sunday I plan menus, go grocery shopping, and cook for the week. I also have a few frozen staples on hand in case life gets in the way but otherwise I prep all of my meals in advance for the week so I don't have to think about food again. This keeps me from eating out during the week because once again I'd be lighting money on fire if I don't eat the food I already cooked and spent money eating out instead. Since I work in the same building as a literal food court, this habit saves me A TON of calories and money.1 -
Don't think you can keep motivation going long enough for long term weight loss. You have to keep doing your program even when you don't feel like it. That's determination.
It helps if you fill in the big part between the in the zone highs and the tough it out lows with good habits.1 -
I try not to look at it as a fight but rather more of a set of trade-offs.
No one is forcing me to be smaller, to move better, to sleep better, to feel better or to have less likelihood of medical issues related to obesity. I can go back to the way I was anytime I choose. So far, one day at a time, I've chosen not to.0 -
I agree with everything everyone has said. Perhaps an interesting discussion for another day is what are the good habits you have in place that help you get through the times when motivation is low. Good habits alone won't get you there, but they sure help.1
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How do you keep the motivation going? Or do you depend on grit and determination to keep going ?
Motivation comes easy, there are many things that motivated me to lose weight, my health, the way I looked, buying clothes, my family's concerns for me...the list was/is LONG!
I think that the motivation to lose weight has never left me because I started so morbidly obese (376) that after losing 171# I'm still obese according to my BMI. (That WILL change to Overweight when I lose eight more pounds!)
Now as for discipline, grit, determination or what every It is that keeps me trying after four and. Half years, that is an internal muscle between my ears. The main thing that keeps me trying is knowing how easy weight can be gained compared to how hard it is to lose a 2.5# gain.
Knowing there is no Finish Line also helps me to keep going because I never ever plan to quit WW, I don't think about going back to my old bad eating habits knowing that's what I did every other time I lost weight on WWers.
I started this WLJ four years ago at age 65. I figure I had over thirty years of eating and drinking as much as I wanted,enough is enough.2 -
I suppose it's discipline but I think of it more as habit. I keep on keepin on with a bit of head smacking along the way by doing my new lifestyle (sorry but it is these days) daily.
I am not jumping up and down motivated but I do it.1 -
@podkey has my proxy1
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Went back and reread about habits creeping in. Guess maybe just more of the good ones than the the pizza and a pitcher of beer type.0
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Motivation vs. Discipline...
Somewhere in between or in addition to these two is willpower. I have learned over the last 6-7 years but more recently that motivation has been exhausted by the desire to eat things or eat too much. It's not that anything is off the table (off limits) to eat but rather eating more of certain items or too much of certain items in one day or in succession or too frequently raised my caloric content beyond the daily maximum goal. So is discipline the answer? where I must strictly stay on a regimented schedule or routine? or is motivated to hang in there by means of a reason to accomplish my goal the answer.
My thought with willpower is that when motivation wears thin and staying on the routine day after day becomes unsustainable something else has to kick in. I believe this is where willpower is my answer. For me motivation helps to kick start me but may not be the answer without action. Discipline is wonderful to stick to a routine or schedule but that can run thin for me when it get's interrupted or I lack the desire to make whatever I want to happen get sidetracked.
So the gut determination through the years to take action one step at the time takes what I consider to be willpower. Wanting the results deep down inside of me to take that first step then leading me to be motivated to lose more and to be determined to stay on schedule day after day or meal after meal and also be determined to keep up with a routine.
So again these past few weeks my willpower has faulted on a number of occasions and has led to a 25 +- gain. I have noticed that while being temporarily sidetracked and pushing toward getting back in or on a routine both have failed me in a sense. So it's now dawning on me as I have thought through these two questions that every time I have been successful with losing weight I have pulled from my willpower. In other words I have to pull from my deep desire to accomplish my goal and see it through to the end no matter what.
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