March 2018 Mindfulness Challenge: Week 3 (3/15-3/21)

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baconslave
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Challenge blurb repeat :wink:
baconslave wrote: »
Life is...well....it's LIFE, isn't it? It can be good. It can also be busy, frantic, and sometimes, downright chaotic. We are pulled so many directions but so many situations and distractions. When do we have time to breathe, let alone live in the moment?

So this month, I think it would be excellent to challenge ourselves to incorporate mindfulness into our journey to health. Plus, it works with the whole alliteration thing. :wink:

Morwenna Ferrier (writer for the Guardian) defines the new fad-term "mindfulness" this way: "The whole ethos of mindfulness is to encourage people to live in the moment. The theory goes that we are so busy trying to block out past worries and anticipate future ones that we rarely concentrate on enjoying what we are doing at the precise moment we are doing it. Devotees claim mindfulness can be applied to everything from walking and running to sex and eating." http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2014/jun/23/mindful-eating-how-to-get-more-from-your-meals

But I challenge that it isn't only about enjoyment. It's about AWARENESS. That's how we diagnose the elusive issue we carry, the sneaky ones that fly under our radar, but continue to throw a wrench into our efforts. So much about success in weight loss and health is about healing our dysfunctional relationships with food and other things in our lives, so we are free from the impetus of stress and emotions that often spurs us to sabotage ourselves.

So in that vein, the challenge is to practice some form of mindfulness by pausing and observing what happens in our heads and bodies when we eat or exercise, to be aware. And maybe then we can enjoy our journey more and discover any hang-ups we've missed and lock them down.

And, of course, being mindful of the Low-Carb Basics:
  • Planning ahead!!!
  • Staying under carbs
  • Staying under calories
  • Logging and measuring
  • Getting in exercise/movement if that's one of your goals
  • Keeping an eye on electrolyte levels
  • Getting enough water
  • Planning ahead!!! Oh, wait. I said that already? Yes, I frickin' did. Because you must! "Failing to plan is planning to fail."

How? I've created a list of links. Some repeat the theme but add something. There a couple that apply to mindfulness in general terms. But understanding the concept can help but aide us in applying it to our reason for being here on MFP.

Start with this, garnered from zenhabits.com
Benefits?
Reduced over eating. It’s been a while now since I went to bed feeling bloated and over stuffed. Which is great in itself but also means that my ‘muffin top’ is pretty much gone when I wear my favorite jeans.

Increased enjoyment of food. As a food scientist, I’ve always considered myself a big fan of eating. Now that I’m on the path to mastering the art of mindful eating, I am finding a new found respect for food and am gaining far more pleasure from meal times.

Improved digestion. Digestion begins in the mouth with the action of saliva. If food isn’t chewed properly it means that there’s more work for the rest of your digestion system. I may be imagining this, but I think I’ve also noticed I have less gas now that I’m eating mindfully.

Being satisfied with less. Linked with reduced over eating, the real benefit here is being able to trust yourself to feel satisfied after one or two squares of chocolate so there is no temptation to scoff the whole block. Suddenly there’s no need to deny yourself the occasional treat which makes for a far healthier relationship with food.
Ready to change the way you interact with food?

How to master the art of mindful eating:
1. Start small. Like all new habits, it’s best to set realistic expectations. Choose one meal or snack each day and commit to focusing on mindful eating at that time.

2. Stop multitasking at meal times. It’s really difficult to focus on eating if you’re doing other things. Set aside time for eating without other entertainment.

3. Only eat at the table. Another way to minimize mindless munching is to get into the habit of only eating when you are sitting down and able to give the food your full attention. No more snacking on the run.
4. Appreciate the appearance. While we’ve all drooled over gorgeous food porn in magazines or online, sometimes we forget about the beauty of the food we are about to eat. Taking the time to notice sets the scene for mindful eating.
5. Focus on each mouthful. Think about the flavour, texture and even the sound of the food in your mouth. Focus on how much you like, or dislike these sensations.
6. Chew. While it can be overkill to go to the monastic extreme of 100 bites per mouthful, make sure you chew your food enough so that it is well broken down before you swallow.

7.Use cutlery and put it down between mouthfuls. It’s much easier to take smaller portions when using a knife and fork. Of course if you feel like you’re having a ridiculous Seinfeld moment eating a chocolate bar with utensils, then skip this step but do put the bar down in between bites so you can focus.

8. Talk and share. One of the joys of eating is sharing a meal with loved ones. It can be challenging to incorporate mindfulness in a social situation but not impossible. Turn the focus of the conversation onto the meal while you are actually eating. Share what you are experiencing in terms of flavours and textures, likes and dislikes. At first this may seem a little weird but trust me, you’ll soon find yourself having fun with it.

9. Go for quality not quantity. By choosing smaller amounts of the best food you can afford, you will not only enjoy it more, you’re far more likely to be satisfied without having to over eat.

10. Make time to prepare your own meals, preferably from fresh ingredients. The cooking process can be as relaxing and enjoyable as eating if you let it. For me, the peace of mind that comes from knowing exactly what has gone into my food makes any hassle worthwhile.
http://zenhabits.net/mindful-eating/


The links that follow might be helpful. I can't speak as to the helpfulness of the podcasts. Yet. I'm going to carve the time to investigate them and will nix them if they aren't really relevant. Please do share any links you personally come across, and I'll add them to the running list.

http://zenhabits.net/mindful-eating/
http://stress.about.com/od/dietandsuppliments/a/mindful_eating.htm
http://stress.about.com/od/tensiontamers/a/mindfulness.htm
http://jamesclear.com/stay-focused
http://jamesclear.com/zanshin
http://fourhourworkweek.com/2015/11/29/magic-of-mindfulness/
https://www.bulletproofexec.com/rick-hanson-forgetfulness-mindfulness-techniques-hardwiring-happiness-243/


I'd like to give a shout-out to @KnitOrMiss for helping me gather some links.

The weekly thread links will be also added to the challenge sticky at the top of the group for easy reference should it get buried.

So. Let us know where you'd like to apply mindfulness this month.





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  • baconslave
    baconslave Posts: 6,954 Member
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    I'm sitting here before I start the little kids with their schooling.
    Straight across from me is the forest snowscape out the back door. I'm letting each bite of blueberry muffin Carbmaster yogurt reach every taste bud and savoring it. I embrace the silence and smell the calming aroma of my coffee waiting for me.
    Do I have problems? Sure.
    I was the victim of Well-Intentioned Spouse abuse...he made pork rind nachos. Ate way too many and blew my deficit for the day. Well, at least my workout will be properly fueled today. :smirk:
    I'm tired.
    My calves HATE ME. OUCH.
    But I have it so good. I'm in a warm house. I have coffee. I'm typing on a LAPTOP with internet access. I have 4 beautiful, clever, (mostly) healthy eating-machines that I am able to keep fed.
    I lead a charmed life.

    What do you notice today about your life?
    What blessing are you showered with?
    What could you improve about you?


    Have a wonderful day! :smile:
  • Cadori
    Cadori Posts: 4,810 Member
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    baconslave wrote: »

    What do you notice today about your life?
    What blessing are you showered with?
    What could you improve about you?

    I love that you asked this. I am the kind of person who tends to mourn the past...but then I can miss out on the beauty of now. For example: I was in a "my kids are growing up too fast, I'm not a SAHM anymore, I want them to be babies again" funk. But this week I've spent my drive in to work focusing on how sweet life is. Yes, my kids aren't adorable little toddlers anymore. I miss holding them all the time and putting socks on their fat little feet. BUT. They are smart and capable kids who are at that perfect age where they can do things on their own, but still think their dad and I hung the moon. They both still love snuggling and my daughter wants us to match every day. My parents are healthy and still pretty young. My marriage is happy. We are in that sweet spot between constant caring for tiny kids and that point when we'll have to care for our parents. I am focusing on how sweet life is now. And that includes the sweet memories of my newborns and toddlers. Plus, I get to sleep all night! ;)



    Now for my other check in because I keep track of it here:
    Water :+1:
    Sleep :+1:
    Utensils :-1: Chaotic day that included freelance work right after dinner, so everything was rushed
    Chewing :-1:
    Exercise :+1:
    Workout B
    Deadlift - 3x7 @ 90 pounds
    Overhead press - 3x8 @ 40 pounds
    Lat pulldown - 3x8 @ 80 pounds
    Lunges - 20/walking/walking
  • Violet_Flux
    Violet_Flux Posts: 481 Member
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    baconslave wrote: »
    What do you notice today about your life?
    What blessing are you showered with?
    What could you improve about you?

    Life is a real mix here lately, but as bad as things have gotten, it's still not that bad overall. Like, still able to function most of the time.

    Past-me made a lot of poor choices health-wise, but she did a lot of other things right. So we can spend more time focusing on health, both physical and mental, less time focused on work, and not be overly consumed with worry about paying the bills etc.

    Every day we work a little bit more to improve the physical health, and cope with the rest as best we can.
  • Koso2006
    Koso2006 Posts: 123 Member
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    baconslave wrote: »
    What do you notice today about your life?
    What blessing are you showered with?
    What could you improve about you?

    Awesome question. I noticed how crazy busy our mornings are trying to get out the door and how much fun we have with that craziness. I am showered with so many blessings everyday - family, job, church, modern conveniences. I need to be more accepting of myself and my flaws. See myself as others see me, not be so critical.

  • tishsmith101
    tishsmith101 Posts: 1,579 Member
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    Today I notice that while my skin is still itchy, recovering from that allergic reaction, I am another day cancer free and grateful.
    One of my blessings is my wonderful career that has made life comfortable for my family for 27 years.
    What I need to improve on is not reading too much into text messages or lack thereof thinking others are upset with me. Too often I feel the need to get to the bottom of something and fix it, when it's not my issue to fix. It is HARD minding my own business, not needing friends approval, letting my coworkers make their own mistakes and suffer the consequences but I am making small strides every day.

    Yesterday was an ok day, goals met 3 out of 4. Today is good so far.
  • Koso2006
    Koso2006 Posts: 123 Member
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    3/15
    1) 250 steps per hour for at least 8 hours a day: :) 10 hours!
    2) Reach for water first: :smile:
  • swezeytba
    swezeytba Posts: 624 Member
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    Starting late...Whoops. But this is still a good challenge for me. Needing to tighten up my diet. Too much carb creep lately and my body is feeling it tremendously. Why do I need to feel this way to remember what this diet does for my health? Hmmm....Well I remember now and doing better this week.
  • Koso2006
    Koso2006 Posts: 123 Member
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    3/16
    1) 250 steps per hour for at least 8 hours a day: :) 9 hours!
    2) Reach for water first: :smile:

    Happy St. Paddy's Day everyone!!!
  • tishsmith101
    tishsmith101 Posts: 1,579 Member
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    3/16
    Dinner at table- :( completely forgot
    Plan meals for next day-to-day :( no excuse
    Log while day in AM- :( swamped at work
    Minimum 20 min activity - :) 50 min elliptical
  • Koso2006
    Koso2006 Posts: 123 Member
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    3/17
    1) 250 steps per hour for at least 8 hours a day: :( 7 hours!
    2) Reach for water first: :smile:
  • Koso2006
    Koso2006 Posts: 123 Member
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    3/18
    1) 250 steps per hour for at least 8 hours a day: :) 10 hours!
    2) Reach for water first: :(
  • bozmo
    bozmo Posts: 177 Member
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    I'm back after a weeks vacation. I went to the desert to evade the snow, but it followed me there. Camping in the snow in a tent with all of your gear getting wet isn't my favorite, but it did allow us to see some of the most amazing landscapes on earth. We were in the Maze district of Canyonlands. Well worth the very long and remote journey.

    I kept to my keto lifestyle all but the one night we opted for a cheap hotel rather than another night camping in the snow. It was worth the 'cheat'. I found my appetite has changed and I could barely eat half the hamburger and a few fries.

    I lost two pounds as well! As always I was hoping for more, but thankful for any.

    >>>What do you notice today about your life?
    >>>What blessing are you showered with?

    I was traveling with a friend. We were both commenting last week on how there are probably very few women who ride their dirt bikes in such remote locations. We are both grateful our lives let us do such things, and that we have the confidence to take advantage of our fortunate situations. Now I'm happy to be home, to a soft bed, a warm fire, a happy dog, and my handsome husband.

    >>>What could you improve about you?

    I am already taking steps to improve me. One is weight loss, the other is to build muscle. Up until my mid forties I was slim and fit. Then BAM a ton of weight came on, just like all the 'old' ladies used to tell me it would happen one day. My pictures of my 50th birthday were not what I wanted. I was very overweight. I run out of energy. I want to get back to being the slim, fit person I was. I told my husband it might take a year or two, but I'm serious and motivated. He is, of course, very supportive. :smiley:
  • Cadori
    Cadori Posts: 4,810 Member
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    Water :-1:
    Sleep :-1:
    Mindfulness :-1:
    Exercise :+1:
    Workout A
    Squats - 3x5 @ 40/30/30 pounds
    Pushups - 3x5/8/8
    Inverted Rows - 3x8
    Back extension - 3x15 @ 125 pounds
    OK weekend. I didn't go off the rails, but had a bit of carb creep. Lots of activity yesterday - a couple long walks in the snow and shoveling my long driveway. Ugh, I'm an idiot. No wonder I had a hard time with my workout this morning...I shoveled a ton of snow yesterday.

  • Koso2006
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    3/19
    1) 250 steps per hour for at least 8 hours a day: :(
    2) Reach for water first: :(

    Very, very bad day. Picking myself up and dusting off. Today is a new day!!!!
  • Cadori
    Cadori Posts: 4,810 Member
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    Sleep :+1:
    Food :+1:
    Water :+1:
    Mindfulness :+1:
    Exercise :+1:
    MAF - 15:11/mile

  • tishsmith101
    tishsmith101 Posts: 1,579 Member
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    3/17 - 3/19
    Dinner at table- 2 out of 3
    Plan meals for next day - 0/3 not a whole lotta food in the house
    Log while day in AM - 0/3 Hard to log when I don't know what I'm eating LOL
    Minimum 20 min activity - 3/3 tons of walking, bowling night and spin class

    Guess the last 3 days weren't so bad. Good habits are keeping me out of trouble.
  • bozmo
    bozmo Posts: 177 Member
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    3/20
    plan it :)
    log it :)
    eat it :)

    Making good food choices and having god choices available is much easier now. More of a habit I guess after a while. My appetite has been very low too.
  • Koso2006
    Koso2006 Posts: 123 Member
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    3/20
    1) 250 steps per hour for at least 8 hours a day: :) 9 hours
    2) Reach for water first: :)

    Better day!!!!
  • Cadori
    Cadori Posts: 4,810 Member
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    Sleep :+1:
    Food :+1:
    Water :+1:
    Mindfulness :+1:
    Exercise :+1:
    MAF - 15:35/mile



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