Living The Lifestyle Friday 7/31/20
            
                
                    imastar2                
                
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                    We meet here to explore, share, celebrate and (sometimes) agonize over how we do (or don't) incorporate weight loss guidelines into our daily lives. "It's a lifestyle, not a diet" is easily and often said, but sometimes not so simply put into practice.
This is a thread for everyone. If you're new to GoaD, or to weight loss, your questions and comments are always welcome. If you're maintaining, or a long-term loser, your thoughts on the topic may be just what someone else needs to hear. If you're reading this, join in the discussion!
Each weekday, a new topic is offered up for discussion.
Monday - misterhub (Greg)
Tuesday - Al_Howard (Al)
Wednesday - Wild Card
Thursday - Wild Card
Friday - imastar2 (Derrick)
Today's Topic: Tricking your mind?
Do you have any little mind tricks? or mind games that help you think or tell yourself your not hungry? Or that can wait? I don't need the the rest of the chips etc;
                This is a thread for everyone. If you're new to GoaD, or to weight loss, your questions and comments are always welcome. If you're maintaining, or a long-term loser, your thoughts on the topic may be just what someone else needs to hear. If you're reading this, join in the discussion!
Each weekday, a new topic is offered up for discussion.
Monday - misterhub (Greg)
Tuesday - Al_Howard (Al)
Wednesday - Wild Card
Thursday - Wild Card
Friday - imastar2 (Derrick)
Today's Topic: Tricking your mind?
Do you have any little mind tricks? or mind games that help you think or tell yourself your not hungry? Or that can wait? I don't need the the rest of the chips etc;
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            I was thinking about this last evening and really I had a voice telling me I wanted this or I wanted that. Then that little voice said give dinner awhile to settle in or get distracted with something else. Anything but grabbing the cookies or whatever may be the craving of the day.
So is that a mind trick? will power? Or in my case for the day I hadn't finished tracking everything so surprisingly when I tracked everything I was actually over the kcals that I have been trying to stay around. I actually have a 500 calorie swing from where I'm supposedly able to lose weight. I'm really trying to accelerate my loss thinking that if I shoot fo 2 lb Loss per week and hit a 1 lb Loss I still am losing and not disappointed.
A 1 lb loss this week actually .8 b/c it's a 5 week month is not where I wanted to be but hey 4lbs loss in a month is better than even and much better than a gain. So mind game? I don't know but I want to keep up the trend. 😁
Tracking days July Yes 30/No 0😀
SW/CW/GW 07/31/20 kcal 1326
400.8/299.0/185 [+1.4 lbs]🙂🤔 WI Daily
Total Loss 101.8 lbs
May 8th start (310.8/Lose 10 lb Challenge current <stat> - 11.8 lbs loss
WI Friday 7/31/20 299.0 -+ 0 loss1 - 
            I don't know that this is a mind trick or not.
But, if I am hungry, and I know it's not when I want to have a meal - or time constraints limit the meal, I eat a hardboiled egg or a grapefruit. Both of these food items make me feel full, and that full tends to last a couple of hours.
I keep both on hand, though I am out of grapefruit right now. Since I learned to make "boiled" eggs in my multipot pressure cooker (think Instant Pot), I always have hardboiled eggs (so freaking easy).
My two cents for this Friday.2 - 
            I don't know if these are tricks or not, but I do have a process that seems to work pretty well.
I am very consistent in my meals. I eat the same breakfast every day. My dinner usually consists of 5 oz of meat of some sort (weighed, even after 10-11 years of WW!), 4 oz baked potato (again, weighed), and a bunch of steamed/baked/roasted veggies (mostly broccoli, red and yellow peppers, onion) that fill up the rest of my plate. For lunch, I have half of whatever I had for dinner the night before. There are some times when I don't have meals that really fit with this, but I try to keep those meals limited.
That level of consistency is important and helpful for me because I know that that amount of food is enough to satisfy me at a given meal, and that I am not starving before the next meal.
It is a bit boring, but it keeps me from playing a game with myself and rationalizing that I need more food at a meal because one-serving won't be satisfying, or that I "deserve" a snack because I didn't have enough at a meal, etc.
A second "trick" is that lately I have said I will not drink alcohol or have snacks during the week. Period. The end. Having made a more definitive statement helps me because there is a definitive plan, rather than something less clear (like, "I will drink less and have fewer snacks during the week.").
A third "trick" is that I have given myself a replacement for post-dinner drinks and snacks. I plan to make a cup of hot tea every night around 9 pm (my typical snack time). That way I have something to look forward to and something that will occupy the same senses (taste and smell) that a snack would. And of course, I avoid extra calories that way.
I hope these are helpful.1 - 
            Yes! I have many GoaD Jedi mind tricks!
Most of them happen in a voice I relate to maybe MamaCindy or SteveO or a host of other long timers -
Is this the food you really want?
No, you’re NOT starving.
Give it a half hour and if you want it then, fine, eat it.
Nothing tastes as good as thin feels. - OK, I’m messing with you here! No Goadie would ever say this.
Lately I am not battling cravings so much. Hard to say why except that I am not depriving myself from foods I like in favor of lesser calorie or points foods.
Also, I seriously don’t mind eating the same meals for a month if I like them. Not a hardship.
Along the lines of the alcohol thread, not drinking has certainly curbed overeating and cravings for me.1 - 
            Delay is a valuable tool and greatly underrated. I plan regular meals and regular snack. I try to make everything appealing in some way. It has to be worth waiting for. I'm not going to be able to wait all afternoon for a few baby carrots. But I could get past the office vending machines to get home for my smoothie snack. After I made it to the car I was committed to waiting.
And speaking of that smoothie- reframing. Remember the WW tools for living? Reframing was one. I don't recall how they defined it. But in my mind that WW smoothie mix with some blueberries and crushed I was a milkshake. Just like a WW English muffin, some low fat mozzarella and dab of tomato sauce was pizza.
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            Not really tricks but I do have a conversation with myself. I.e. "You ate a complete meal 2 hours ago. You are not hungry, so just go find something else to do". It's way easier for me to just say 'no'. If I have some, it's way tougher to say 'no more'.1
 
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