What's on your mind today?
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@thabit11 yep i totally can relate to wat ur saying. I also find a little treat a day stops me from going crazy on junk food! It wld be great if i cld cut my treat out all together but its only 50 to 150 cals a day and it brings me sooo much joy. Yeah half size me is sensational ive watched all her YouTube vids and only 2 of her podcasts. Xo1
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Great insights already shared for you above @KCJen. I tend to view others' posts in the morning (even if I haven't posted myself). I'll hit the reaction emojis and then post my results...later.
Sometimes days later lol
Whatever strategy works for you.
Like you said, the engagement with others is helpful but there are MANY ways to go about do that. Now that @RangerRickL is participating (rather than hosting), there are also more volunteer opportunities to post the day's opening thread.
I'm doing tomorrow's. Perhaps you can consider whether lead posting for the day is a way to keep yourself engaged too?3 -
Thank you @jamcnewman @seilidhe @thabit11 @maltedtea for your responses. I think this month I will probably find my style on handling it. Of course, I have much bigger things to worry about right now, so I might just go with the flow and see where that takes me!2
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I have a question for everyone. I have always struggled to try to find my "way" in posting and getting connected in the group. I am readjusting my schedule and routine, so maybe posting in the morning is not best for me since I feel rushed. Or maybe I just need to go about staying on top of things differently. Or a combination of both??
The problem is, to be honest, I really don't have a plan or a system on how to read the posts and how to stay on top of everyone's posts. So I wanted to ask how everyone handles that. Do you read the posts daily? Multiple times a day? Read every day's entry? Or just post in the what is on your mind section?
I need to be involved more in the UAC because the UAC is the only "support group" I have for healthy goals and a healthy lifestyle. My goal for August is to develop posting consistently and not disappearing after I am disqualified in addition to developing a system to stay involved and social in the group.
Hi @KCJen , honestly some days it's impossible to read all the posts. Don't force it.
But it only takes a few minutes to update your 3 stats. So I don't think anyone should feel responsible to read and keep up with the entire group. It's LARGE. Some days I am too busy to do anything but put 3 checks. Some days I go back and see what happened. Just staying here is the most important Champion part. Now if the fairy gif would quit burning my eyes out. ...
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@KCJen I know that you have A LOT going on in your life right now and my suggestion would be to make it a priority just to log on and post your 3 stats sometime at the end of your day (you said you felt rushed in the mornings). It'll get easier when you can make it a HABIT - incorporate it into part of your evening routine! If I have time throughout the day (some days I have more time than others), I will log on and read and maybe even comment on posts. In the evening, when I'm closing out my food diary is when I post my 3 stats. At that time I'll also spend a few minutes catching up on posts as well. It's a lot to keep up with, and in the beginning, when I was super busy, I would log on in the evening JUST to post my 3 stats and nothing else - and that's fine too. Then, in the next day or two, I would make it back to the posts that I'd missed and spend time reading and commenting.2
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@SummerSkier I agree!1
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I don't where to post this, but I am looking for good energy. Got a mammogram and biopsy and now have to do another after an MRI. I'll have to have surgery and possibly radiation. While it sounds scary, I have to remember that they say it's in the early stages. So I haven't been doing very well on tracking or counting lately! I'd love to hear some success stories!11
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Sending you love from Montreal @Higa2021 In the main forums, you may want to connect with @AnnPT77 because she has shared her experiences.
(Hopefully this link to her recent conversations about her medical history works for you)3 -
I don't where to post this, but I am looking for good energy. Got a mammogram and biopsy and now have to do another after an MRI. I'll have to have surgery and possibly radiation. While it sounds scary, I have to remember that they say it's in the early stages. So I haven't been doing very well on tracking or counting lately! I'd love to hear some success stories!
I'm not really in this challenge - apologies to all the bold people who are - but I joined *just* to reply to this post. (Sincere apologies to all others for my transgression - blame @MaltedTea 😉).
@Higa2021: Hang in there! This can end well, I swear.
Back in the millennial transition year, 2000, I was diagnosed with breast cancer. It was stage III, locally advanced, 5 tumors in one breast (largest 3.1 cm), one tumor in the other breast, positive lymph node.
I chose bilateral mastectomies with no reconstruction (*not* the only reasonable choice BTW, but it was a good one for me); had 6 months of chemotherapy (bad hobby, but doable); 6 weeks of 5-field (extensive) radiation (not a terrible thing, beyond the logistics of going every weekday for that duration); 7.5 years after of anti-estrogen meds (kind of hyper menopause-y, but really no big deal in my case). You're unlikely to need all of that.
I came out of that very physically depleted, but still overweight to obese. I started *gradually* getting more active after surgery/chemo/radiation, because I realized I needed to do that to recover strength/energy/vitality. Slowly, I became more active, even competing as an athlete (rowing), but still stayed fat for a decade.
Then, in 2015-16, age 59-60 (and hypothyroid, but properly medicated), I used MFP, lost from class 1 obese to a healthy weight. Now 65, I've been at a healthy weight since.
I'm *not* special, not "inspiring" (🙄), have no genetic advantages, everything happened slowly, with patience, just gradually chipping away, having fun along the way, making small manageable changes off and on.
Nonetheless, I'm the healthiest I've ever been, at 5'5", 126.4 pounds this morning. Yesterday's fun activities included rowing a boat for 7k, a 5 mile walk, a few minutes strength training on machines (my time budget in retirement allows for more active fun!) . . . my standard fun Friday.
I'm not saying you need to choose a similar path: I think there are many, many potential positive and happy paths.
What I'm trying to get across is that there are mega-big-plenty reasons for optimism, for you. I know many multi-decade thriving survivors of even higher-stage breast cancer, legions from earlier stages. (This is from local support groups I'm active in.) Some are active/athletic, some are not. Some are overweight, some are not. (Those are about lifestyle choices, of course.)
At one point, I was worrying about whether it was a waste of money to renew magazine subscriptions, so I think I may have sense of how you might be feeling now, though reactions are very individual.
There are many paths forward, much reason for hope. Hugs; hang in there!
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I don't where to post this, but I am looking for good energy. Got a mammogram and biopsy and now have to do another after an MRI. I'll have to have surgery and possibly radiation. While it sounds scary, I have to remember that they say it's in the early stages. So I haven't been doing very well on tracking or counting lately! I'd love to hear some success stories!
Not sure what to say other than lots of love and positive energy going to you from Bristol, UK.
You've got this. Probably doesn't feel like it right now but you do.4 -
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@Higa2021 hugs. Sounds like they found it very very early. Please keep us up-to-date and take care of yourself 🥺4
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@Higa2021 Hugs and positive thoughts from Somerset, UK. Hang on in there.3
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I have a question for everyone. I have always struggled to try to find my "way" in posting and getting connected in the group. I am readjusting my schedule and routine, so maybe posting in the morning is not best for me since I feel rushed. Or maybe I just need to go about staying on top of things differently. Or a combination of both??
The problem is, to be honest, I really don't have a plan or a system on how to read the posts and how to stay on top of everyone's posts. So I wanted to ask how everyone handles that. Do you read the posts daily? Multiple times a day? Read every day's entry? Or just post in the what is on your mind section?
I need to be involved more in the UAC because the UAC is the only "support group" I have for healthy goals and a healthy lifestyle. My goal for August is to develop posting consistently and not disappearing after I am disqualified in addition to developing a system to stay involved and social in the group.
The most important thing is consistently posting your three steps daily. Commenting as a matter of how much time you have. Some days you only just have time to post those.
Apart from Saturdays when I read all the posts and comment , what I sometimes do is comment on one or two of the people who have posted before me. If I have time I will skim read the day before. It all depends on how much time you have.
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Sending positive vibes for the days ahead. You can do this. And we are with you. Feel free to vent any time you need to.5 -
@Higa2021 i actually was just thinking about u and was wondering how u were. Im really sorry to hear about this news but just as our fellow Uac peeps hve mentioned u will no doubt get thru this. I will pray for u. Take care and please stay in touch. God bless u ur health and ur family. Love Donna. Xo5