Unfortunately this happens alot. This so typical with going on dates with women, mostly from ones you meet online. Guys become their hobby and are overwhelmed because they are talking to like 50 guys so thats why they text so much. I find that meetup.com is the way to meet normal good women. Texting is rude and disrespectful on a date. You are not am oncall ER Doctor so you will survive if you cant text for an hour. No one invited you out to watch you text all night. I see women doing this all the time when they are out on a date, friends, and family. They so disconnect themselves from the real world and ones who want to spend time with them.

Being rude to servers, people, if you piss them off, i am serious, one date someone will stir your ice tea refill with their penis. Those guys make 2 dollars an hour and barely make min wage on a slow day so give them a break. You will survive if you only have two tomatoes on your salad, if you are nice then they will care to make your dining experience a good one. If you are rude then they will say f U or or mess with your food.

Judging people is wrong. What does she do for a living? Ive been on bad dates when i knew there was nothing there but i make the best of and drink alcohol. So what if there is nothing there, hell who knows, she could have made a cool new friend and plus, you two have a friend in common, she she should have had respect. Being rude and complaining is not cool. She sounds like she has low self esteem and is extremely negative and *****y. You can do better then her. Your friend should have warned you about her. There are some cool good women out there, thank goodness that she showed her colors so you can go to the next.

The last date I had really made me realize how selfish and obnoxious texting can be. I took a girl to dinner and while she would engage in conversation, she would be texting at the same time! She put the phone by her plate, and it was going off like every minute! Hate that...

Wow. That was rude of her on so many levels. I admit that I do keep my phone close when I go out. But I keep it in my purse and it's only because I'm a single parent. If it makes you feel any better, my last date was a complete disaster too. The guy kept going on and on about his ex. He even told me the reason he asked me out was because I reminded him of her. Awesome. Add in the fact that he sprinted across the restaurant parking lot to get away from a spider on the sidewalk, tried to talk me into going with him on a "drive by" of his exes place, and got angry when i wanted to cut the date short.... I think I'd rather be single than see him again.

Ah dating. Ain't it grand?

I know right? It's INSANE. Lol.

It happened 12 years ago when I was still 21 years old when I had a textmate with this guy who was an engineering student. I was also studying at that time in my last year in college. We agreed to meet-up at Burger King & then afterwards see a movie but then it turned out that we weren't really hooked & also I see him constantly checking on his watch & cellphone, such a big turn-off for me. In the end, we just spend the entire date in silence while munching on burgers & onion rings then went on our separate ways.

Last night I went out on a blindish date.

Then she was very rude to the waitress when we were ordering. we were at a thai restaurant and she kept talking to the waiter like she was stupid or didn't speak english but she clearly did.

Oh wow she sounds totally Ignorant.
But I am happy that you two went your separate ways at the end of the night, :-)

Yeah I think we're all agreed that the ones which include the other person using their phone are pretty bad. Had one of those myself where we barely spoke because she was texting her mates so much. I kept buying her drinks hoping she was just nervous and she'd settle down but she text even more and even took a 10 minute phone call! That's when I was almost praying someone would ring me so I could get out of there! Surprisingly she looked annoyed when I only kissed her on the cheek at the end, how?! Complete lack of chemistry and conversation are killers!

That's pretty awful, alright! Being rude to servers (or anyone) is a deal breaker for me. ESPECIALLY for servers, though, It proves they are either class driven or stupid- because of the penis ice-tea thing above!

The only things I can think of that were really really bad on dates are when the guys have been nervous and throw out stupid one liners in the hopes of being thought clever like "I haven't had luck with girls because I can't trust anything that bleeds for 5 days and doesn't die."(true story!) Or on dates when the guys try to get you in bed from the minute you open the door to set out for the evening. One guy told me it didn't matter what I ordered off the menu so because I was going to be eating his meat later. Classy.

I think a guy who plays in his spare time and is good enough to play gigs a couple times a month is cool. Stupid girl.

If the date is bad- like bring it to a message board bad- I won't let the guy pay for me. I'll pay for my own, say thanks and get out. I don't want to even be the slightest bit indebted to someone I have no interest in.

I've only ever been on 3 blind dates, one we just didn't click but had a nice date, one I ended up dating for a few months, the other however was truly awful!!

On my way to the date I got a text from him asking if I was nearly there (I wasn't late). I texted back saying I was running on time, see you in a bit to which he replied along the lines of 'Good, I'm sat here waiting listening to all these Manchester accents, it's really annoying' (I'm from Manchester, the date was in Manchester, he was from out of town but living in Manchester...ummm... yeah we have Manchester accents here!)

On the date he asked me about stuff I like: music, movies etc. and slagged off everything I'm into. Not in a polite way like 'I'm not really into that', but rude like 'that's crap, that's crap, only idiots like that'! (note: it was all there on my profile, I think the guy hadn't figured out reading or something)

We went for a meal at a buffet place and he piled his plate so high each time, had the most revolting table manners and was rude to the staff. He also drank too much and got even more obnoxious. I was so embarrassed to be there with him that I just told him straight that we obviously didn't have anything in common and it's best if leave. I paid my half of the bill and went home.

He seemed so nice before I actually met him

Wow, I feel so bad for you. It must have took alot of willpower to sit through the date. I think I would have kindly excused myself and left.

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here ya go (copied from the worst date ever thread). Last Friday (1/20) ironically was my worst date ever. Met this guy on eharmony. Seemed pretty normal so we moved to texting. His profile said he worked for the Dept of Childrens and Families for the state. My mom works for the state so I had her check to see if he really did, no luck finding him. Whatever, maybe he's too new. Got tons of creepy vibes with talking via text telling me he wanted to make me happy, told him my dream vacation was Hawaii and he said I guess I'm saving for there now. Friends said to give him a chance so I agreed to drinks. Met him at the local bar in the casino. The guy was WAY shyer than me which I didn't think was possible. He asked about my Pandora bracelet, then proceeded to tell me he had one but never wore it, he just likes to collect the charms. I should've taken that chance to bolt but I didn't. Then told me he wanted to delete his eharmony account, um 1 date doesn't mean a relationship dude. He then wanted to leave the bar because it was too loud. Whatever fine with me. So we started walking around the casino. He asked to hold my hand. Seriously. If it had been anyone but him I might have thought it was sweet but since I already had the creepy vibe, it creeped me out even more. Grow a pair and grab my hand if you want to hold it. Then he asked if I wanted to go look at the charms because one of the shops sells Pandora charms. Um no way. The only suggestions he had for after the casino was to go back to his place which wasn't happening. The next morning I sent him a text saying I'm sorry I didn't feel a connection. He tried to guilt me saying oh I'm never good enough. Thankfully I haven't heard from him since.

Here is my most recent worst date, but not really a date...

So I was talking to this woman from a website for people with a specific group of interests. She told me she just wanted to see what kind of places around my area there were to hang out. Ok, cool, no biggie, let's meet bs, whatever...

So she comes into town and is staying at a friends place, which is perfectly fine, she lives about 45 minutes away in another state. So I meet her and her friend at a sushi place, they had already ordered I had already eaten dinner, so I had water and basically kept up the witty banter to make them both comfortable. Good enough, I get the blessing from the friend. We go outside and she starts smoking (never mentioned that), and after that we are on her way. About 5 minutes out of the parking lot "I guess I should spill". And then the BIGGEST SIGH I have ever heard. "I'm married." Alrighty then... "To a preacher." Holy crap... "Who cheated on me 13 years ago in a way that I will never ever share with anyone because it was so horrendous". Uh yeah, so where does your friend live again?

That was that... I mean really, who doesn't share that information with you?

Wow!! Being rude to the wait staff really shows a lot about a person''s true character. Sorry your date went bad,


Worst date ever when his wife and other girl friend showed up at the restuarant to confront his cheating butt during our dinner. It was very entertaining though.