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SlinkyNewMe
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I'll start then.
I am 46. I live in Northampton in England, UK. I am married with an 8 year old son.
I embarked on my weight loss journey with Weight Watchers Online, in September and lost 14 pounds but came on here because I wanted more control and knowledge about the calories and nutritional information about my food. I am hoping to get down to 133 lbs.
Because we have a child and we are originally from London so don't know many people up here in Northampton, I find we have stopped doing a lot of the things we like doing, and life has become, well pretty predictable really, and mainly revolves round our son and his activities.
So there was less incentive to dress up, and look good. I still make an effort though. Northampton is very low key compared to London so we find the people we have met so far have different interests to ours. So we seem to have slipped into a kind of middle aged slumber from which we are just beginning to wake up!
For me,this is not just about clothes, it's about my identity - how I would like my life to be from now on.
I am 46. I live in Northampton in England, UK. I am married with an 8 year old son.
I embarked on my weight loss journey with Weight Watchers Online, in September and lost 14 pounds but came on here because I wanted more control and knowledge about the calories and nutritional information about my food. I am hoping to get down to 133 lbs.
Because we have a child and we are originally from London so don't know many people up here in Northampton, I find we have stopped doing a lot of the things we like doing, and life has become, well pretty predictable really, and mainly revolves round our son and his activities.
So there was less incentive to dress up, and look good. I still make an effort though. Northampton is very low key compared to London so we find the people we have met so far have different interests to ours. So we seem to have slipped into a kind of middle aged slumber from which we are just beginning to wake up!
For me,this is not just about clothes, it's about my identity - how I would like my life to be from now on.
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I am 42, married 20
Lost 20, 16 more to go
Sonal0 -
I am 41. Married to my High School sweetheart. 2 great kids (16 and 12) Moved from Las Vegas NV to Knoxville TN about 5 years ago. Quit smoking almost 3 years ago... My overall goal is to lose 50 lbs. My goal for this summer is to wear SHORTS in public for the first time in YEARS! MFP is very eye opening when logging in the food diary. I dont even want to know how many calories I was shoveling in my mouth in the past. Also giving exercise a go (first time since high school). I look forward to every session so far, and feel fantastic afterward. I am using various Wii games (EA Sports Active 2/ Zumba 2 / Just Dance).
I log in MFP everyday and would love to get and give as much support as possible.
Feel free to add me.
Tracy0 -
Lovely to meet you and welcome to the group!0
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Hello there all you fabulous forty somethings :-)
I'm Dianne 45, been a big girl all my life, not for much longer hey! 2012 is going to be my year.
I live in Merseyside with my 3 cats and 5 rescue chickens, I have 2 children 19 & 22 who would love to see their Mum finally get healthy, I know they worry about me and want me to be happy but it's always been down to me and only me.
I've only been dieting for 1 week today, so still finding my feet. Back in 93/94 I lost 51/2 stone to get married, at that time I started aerobics at home in front of the tv, in my nighty lol, I was soooo unfit but little by little I got fitter and fitter and began to LOVE keeping fit. I could kick myself now for not keeping it up. I was at my happiest back then and its been pretty much downhill since. I want my old self back, and am determined to find her, she's in there somewhere :-)
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Hi,
I'm 46, in a relationship, and have 4 girls.I own and operate a horse ranch in WI. I am on the move all the time but need to lose 10 lbs so I can be the ride behind in my therapy program. I workout everyday- but I'm not eating right. Hopefully, I can get motivated with the help of this site!
Cheri from WI0 -
Hey there,
What a great idea for a group!
I am 48 (wha?!), live in Virginia - small town - with husband and two teenage girls. Mostly have felt Just OK for so long and instead want to feel fabulous - exactly. I joined a new-to-me gym last month and have been LOVING the crowd there and changing my horizons of what I can and can't do physically. I want to drop about 30 pounds (would make me 5'8"ish and about 135?) and get a new wardrobe. Mostly i want to continue to push and grow and feel excited by life. I have the happy feeling i am not alone here in believing that a new wardrobe could in fact be part of that.
gotta go get kids up and moving.
thanks for starting this group!0 -
Hi all,
I'm Tawanda. I have 3 adult sons(27,25,25) and a daughter(20). I have a 31/2 year old granddaughter and a grandson due in April. i also have a 61/2 year old Yorkie named Kobe, that I adore. I have been big my entire life. I want to change that!
I tore my left meniscus, while working out, preparing for my oldest son's wedding. 4 years ago. My life has been forever changed. I am always in pain! It's difficult to workout. I love the Wii and my spiritual workout dvds.
I want to change!
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Hey Everyone! I just saw this group and had to join as I entered the 40-something club just last week! My name is Carol - I am 40 yrs old, single and have 2 kids. After my divorce 5 years ago, I lost about 30 lbs and weighed around 135 lbs however after a while I seemed to settle in around 140 - 142 and was okay with that. Then I got into a relationship and was happy/in love and gained a little more. Now that relationship has ended after 3 years so I'm really taking time to focus on myself. For a while now I've been hovering anywhere from 150 - 153 and just can't seem to get back where I was.
I've been doing MFP app on my phone but just last week discovered the website and love it. I'm hoping its going to give me the inspiration, motivation and tools I need to lose those pesky 10 lbs!!
Even though I basically watch my calories, I tend to not do well on weekends and I'm only getting to gym 2-3 times week. So I know if I work on those 2 areas, I would most likely see improvements. Any help & suggestions you have would be great!0 -
Good morning,
I am married and mom to 2 boys, ages 12 and 8. I live in Texas, but have moved a lot due to my husband's job. I have hypothyroidism and PCOS, which make weight loss challenging. I have gone up and down over the years and really need to focus and stop making excuses!! My favorite exercise is spinning. I hope to stick with eating right, tracking, and being more active!
Best wishes!
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Hello I'm Katherine,
I'm 48 years old and happily married with a 20 year old son.
as a teenager I was hopelessly skinny and very self conscious about what I wore, I used to take this stuff called Wate on which was supposed to make you gain... it didn't work! I stayed thin until I went on the pill... disaster! I put on loads of weight and was grumpy miserable and uninterested in sex too... which sort of defeated the object... so I gave it up at 23 and have been enjoying comic situations with my diapraghm ever since..:laugh:
my weight has been no problem until recently... the menopause.. eekkk! I started to feel out of control again... so need to get organised and get a grip! 50 is looming next year and I want to feel fabulous at 50 too!
the main reason for using MFP is not just to lose a bit but also to track exactly what I'm eating (cut out the rubbish) and reduce my alcohol consumption.
I don't want and can't afford to buy a whole lot of new clothes! I like my old ones! (no fashion victim me...;)
I also need to watch my weight as I have some knee and ankle problems and am a dance teacher... not a good combination...0 -
Hi
i am fiona, age 42, and a working mum with 2 kids, 11,8, i live in somerset, england.
really never been skinny but had a good curvy figure in my 20s' after the kids, unhappy marriage now fighting the effects of all this,
hope this year to at least lose the weight i have, i am only 4ft10 so every pound shows.0 -
So, I committed myself to losing the last 16 pounds on December 11, 2011
Here's what I do
Log all my food
Have a 1,000 cal deficit on my body media fit(missed a few)
journal
In December I biked 221.32 miles, 436 minutes on the trampoline, 65 minutes on the gazelle, 20 minutes on the elliptical, 5 minutes rowing, walked 1.5 miles.
In January, I biked 160 miles, 608 minutes on the trampoline and did the six pack DVD once
This got me to lose about 6 pounds0 -
Hi I'm Juliette from Norwich, married 6 yr old twins, busy much like many of the other posters I suspect. I get up at 6.30 to exercise a couple of times a week but find it hard to fit it all in. logging food makes me really think about what I have eaten. I aim to eat as much raw food as possible. I wantto lose 14/16 pounds by the time I go to execl in March for a trade fair. hmmm0
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Hello!
I am Janice .. AKA IaRookie. I can hardly call my self a rookie here anymore. I have lived in IOWA for more than 10 years! I am 45 well I will be 46 in a few weeks. I am married - 20 years. I have 2 teens. A daughter that is very fit and active and a son that....isnt. I have gained weight consistantly every year and am not staying on this path!
I have a QUESTION and comments!
What is a RESCUE CHICKEN?
I looked up a stone -
5 stone = 70 pounds = 31.751 kilograms
6 stone = 84 pounds = 38.102 kilograms
So that was AMAZING!
Where is Wisconsin is your Ranch? My In-laws are from Madison.0 -
Hi ladies! I will be turning 40 this year and my goal is to love myself and my body finally! I'd like to join your group if y'all will have me?! I have been using MFP since last fall....and only today saw that there were groups to join and interact with. I have lost about 14lbs.....but still need to lose about 25lbs and also want to get stronger and healthier. I'm married and have a 16 year old daughter and a 9 year old precious 'baby boy'!! Ok....yes he's a mama's boy, aren't they all? I've done alot in my life..and it's a little hard for me to open up to others...which is one thing I want to change....to be able to share with others. So with all that being said I hope this begins a new wonderful journey!0
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Hey!
I'm Karen, I'm 43 and trying to get healthy. Last year, I lost 25 lbs before going on a mission trip to Romania (amazing!). On the way home, I got sick (bacterial meningitis - I don't recommend it) and lost an additional 14 lbs in the hospital. Since then, I have put those 14 lbs back on, and I'm determined to lose those and about 15-20 more.
I work at a company that is very health conscious, and provides a complete gym facility for us to use. I'm in there at least 3 times a week, sometimes 5 times a week, and I'm having a blast!0 -
Hi ladies!! I'm Monica....I'm 40 years old.....live in a cute, small town in Texas. I have 2 children, my daughter is 21, my son is 15. I have been on MFP since August and did really great, but lately I have been slacking....I need to get my Mojo back!! My goal weight is 133 lbs, and it seems like these last 11 lbs that I need to lose don't want to go anywhere!!! Looking forward to swapping motivation with you all....love meeting ppl closer to my own age!!0
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Hello!
I'm Sandy, married, mom to three kids (ages from 17-22), and turned 48 last Sept. I've been struggling these last few years with perimenopause, and for the last 10 years, thyroid issues (which lead to frustration, semi-depression, and eating everything in sight).
In 2010 I took my health into my own hands, and started the weight loss process. Along the way I got a little frustrated at the slow loss, and tried a program that's very low calorie. Well it did what it was supposed to do, but for me it was noticeably slower than most. I did get to glimpse into onederland 9/2010 and wearing size 14's (from a 24). Then it just crept back up... and up... and up. Six months of powdered food down the toilet.
My low was when I had to pull out the single pair (I gave all others away) of those size 24's again because that's all I could fit (reasonably). What I didn't know at the time was my thyroid had actually gone out of whack again. Not to mention the double whammy of the menopause.
I changed doctors because the one I had quit listening to me. Last September I went to my new doc, and in November my new thyroid doc. I was switched to a much higher dose of meds that will actually help my thyroid. That was the beginning of my turn around. My "low" happened shortly therafter in December, so during that month I made my decision to take my health into my own hands again and quit ignoring the obvious.
I studied on how I was going to approach weight loss - settled with simply counting calories, lower carb, higher proteins and healthy fats. Oh, also - to keep a check on my thyroid levels. I will not ignore unexplained weight gains again (because they become the "I give up and eat everything" weight gains).
Since it was so close to the new year, I decided to wait the few days and declare a "new year, new me" challenge to myself. I'm loving it so far, and actually am very amazed at how sensibly I can eat and not feel hungry as long as I have a healthy amount of protein and healthy fats at each meal.0 -
Hi - a rescue chicken, or any rescue animal is a term we use in the UK for an animal that has been taken to an animal shelter and looked after because it has been mistreated or is unwanted. The animal has been rescued in other words.0
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Question....I mainly interact with MFP using my DROID phone...do we need to 'friend' each other to see each other's progress and message one another. I have one friend that i've been using MFP with and it's been pretty cool and motivational....just wondering. Hope everyone has a great day!!!!0
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Hi everyone! I am 42, married 14 years and have a 9 year old daughter. I live in a small town in Virginia and am in school to become a nurse. My husband is a bomb dog handler and is currently working in Iraq...that is soon to change and I have NO IDEA where he will be after that or even if he will have a job. So the stress of everyday life is creeping in and I am a stess eater.
Im hoping by having support and someone to turn too Ill be able to over come this challenge and lose 40 pounds.0 -
Hi Fabulous 40s!
I'm Shelly, 44, common law with one grown daughter (27), one dog, and four cats (not my idea!). I lost 30 pounds about 10 years ago and maintained fairly well until I started at a new company about four years ago. As you can probably tell from my profile picture (I couldn't find a non work one), I lived at work, high stress, and bad food. I started my own company this past year and work from home. A much better live a work situation
Now I want my body energy to be back matching my head energy and the extra 40 pounds are definitely slowing my down. I'm totally addicted to starchy carbs (I am wheat intolerance, so double whammy) and am very out of shape. So I was very happy to stumble on MFP to help keep my on track and find people to chat to who aren't going to say "just have one cupcake, it won't hurt"!
So here's to getting to fab fit and 40 :happy:0 -
Hi fab 40's and big thanks to Slinky for starting the group :0)
My name is Lisa and I was 41 three weeks ago. Im separated and have two boys 8 and 6 and a 3 year old dogue. My kids prompted me to lose weight. I cant run around with them and they constantly jiggle my belly (in a nice way) but the final straw was when my 6 year old bought me flowers for Christmas because he didn't know where to go to buy me a diet and he thinks I need one (eek!)
I struggle to stay away from junk and chocolate and I know think I'm pre menopausal.
I started using MFP last year but had to have an operation in July and piled on the pounds after I got home. I started again on Jan 1st when my weight reached 203lbs. I've really thrown myself into it this time, I've cut down on portion size and cut out the rubbish. I joined a gym ( first time in 15 years) and go 5 days a week for about 90mins. My current weight is 195lbs but I'd love to be 161. I know that's still overweight for my 5ft 7in but I'm starting with something achievable..., I hope!
Please feel free to add me, more the merrier!0 -
Question....I mainly interact with MFP using my DROID phone...do we need to 'friend' each other to see each other's progress and message one another. I have one friend that i've been using MFP with and it's been pretty cool and motivational....just wondering. Hope everyone has a great day!!!!
I think to really track other folks' progress, you have to "friend" them.0 -
Hi, I'm 42, live in Southern California, and using MFP to eat healthier and lose 7-10 pounds. Technically, I'm already at a healthy weight, but to get to "race weight" --- I am racing the Big Sur International Marathon in April -- I want to lose 7-10 pounds.
I've always been fairly thin, but as I've gotten older, I found that I couldn't just stuff my face like before and not face consequences! I am one of those people who can eat ALL the time. I eat 6 small meals a day -- that helps me keep me sated and energized for my workouts.
Feel free to add me as a friend on MFP! I'm also an RRCA-certified running coach, so if you have any running questions, let me know!0 -
Hello, my name is Kathy and I live in Iowa. I'm 42, married with three awesome kids ages 16, 12, and 10. My goal is to lose 40 lbs...Here are my current stats:
SW: 182
CW: 175
GW: 140
Height: 5'7
When I read the post about getting rid of the granny clothes, I knew this was the group for me! My kids tell me all the time that I need to update my wardrobe, but I haven't felt like shopping because 1. I always was saying I wanted to lose some weight first (which of course wasn't happening), and 2. I hate trying on clothes, not having them fit etc. But I'm looking forward to losing this weight, and getting that new wardrobe
Please add me as a friend...I'd love any encouragement, and would love to give some back in return !
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Hi, I'm 48 and live in Michigan. Been married for 28 years and have two children, 24 and 26. Just became a grandma this year to twin girls. I quit smoking a while back. I was already heavy, and added more weight. I have lost 18 pounds. I have been doing weight watchers but a friend suggested this site, so I am doing both. I am looking to lose another 70+ pounds so I have a ways to go. However, I have discovered Zumba and love it! Makes exercising so much fun.0
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53 Year Old grandmother from Kettering, but dont feel it on the inside, used to be as skinny as anything and was so happy, then not sure what happened but it all went pear shaped now feel like a fat frumpy freak and hate it, wont look at myself in a mirror, hate it if I think my hubby is looking at me or feels my fat, cant stand it if I catch sight of myself in windows as I walk past. Worst of all cant get into my leather anymore to ride my bike and cos my legs have got fat, its made it so i cant touch the floor on my bike properly anymore
Was always just 7st and was soooooo happy, if I get down to 8st 7lb I'll be happy again.0 -
Hi there,
My name is Tammi, I am 42(even though my profile says 44...I gotta change that) and I am from Vancouver, Canada. I have 2 great teenagers and am in a relationship with the most wonderful man I met 6 years ago. My kids are active in baseball/softball/soccer and school sports which I always encourage them to participate in. I was a very athletic kid/teenager but once I married I became very sedentary and then when I had my kids I had health issues and gained alot of weight with each of them. Needless to say I divorced and did nothing but work to support me and my kids and the weight just kept on packing on. I am 218 lbs and while I know I will never look like I did when I was 20, I would sure love to come close! My goal is to be 150 lbs but I am doing it slowly. I dont want the weight to come back after I reach my goal.
I am taking charge of my health now!
Please feel free to add me as a friend if you'd like.0 -
Hi, I'll be 42 in April, am married and a mom to a wonderful little 3.5 year old girl. I'm fairly new to MFP (used another product on my phone to track calories/exercise), but I like MFP so much better (better database). I am on the HMR (meal replacement) program again. It worked for me in the past, but I put it all back on trying to get pregnant and during pregnancy.
So far I have lost nearly 43 lbs, 2 pants sizes, and I have been able to "go shopping" in my own closet and wear items that I haven't worn since before I was pregnant!0
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