for sure :bigsmile:

Yes and no. It depends on how comfortable the relationship is.

Many long term marrieds put on a lot of weight because they are off the market so to speak and don't need to impress anyone new. Remember that it is easier to keep someone than forge a new relationship.

When you first start to see someone and things are going well, keeping that person happy can be a fitness motivator.

Comfort is good, too much comfort, not so good.

I think its easier to stay motiviated when you have a crush, even if your comfortable it's earier also!

i hate crushes, they stress me out... so i can go either way. i'll be very motivated (when i'm happy stressed) or not very motivated (anxiety stress)..

i hate crushes.

I think that when your into someone you definitely are more motivated...

But I think I'm just motivated to lose weight and work on getting healthy and in shape because I finally want someone to notice me. It's been 3 years since someone actually tried to talk to me and during that time I was in a relationship. Now... Not so much.

I think it has to do with loving yourself. If you love yourself and take care of your self, then hopefully they will feel the same way for you too.

I have been married for 4 years now, and hubby loved me the same way before I gained, after I gained and then after I lost it too.
But this makes sense to me :flowerforyou:

Yey must have a great Husband and you must be a wonderful wife.