I wasn't expecting to be scolded for asking for help in a disordered eating group because I put an actual number of lbs in the post, not my weight mind you, but what the doctor told me to expect to gain. It's a bit disheartening knowing that people likely passed up helpful posts because the admin fussed at me.

I did not post my weight only what I had gained in a very relatively short period of time, and don't feel I have broken any rules in the guidelines.

I wasn't expecting to be scolded for asking for help in a disordered eating group because I put an actual number of lbs in the post, not my weight mind you, but what the doctor told me to expect to gain. It's a bit disheartening knowing that people likely passed up helpful posts because the admin fussed at me.

I did not post my weight only what I had gained in a very relatively short period of time, and don't feel I have broken any rules in the guidelines.

You posted how much you had gained in a certain timeframe and expressed disgust. Obviously that is not a thoughtful thing to do in this forum. If you want to try moderating this group single handedly whilst recovering from anorexia, working a full time job and studying in college full time go ahead. I would be happy for someone else to do it if you think I am doing a bad job.

Disgust at my lack of will power and at the medical ramifications of my rapid weight gain. On of the reasons I gained so quickly was likely due to the ridiculous calorie deprivation in the few months leading up to my pregnancy.

If it's too much then ask for help, I'm sure there are plenty of people here grateful for the help groups like this provide, myself included. But I adhered to the guidelines set forth so they either need to be expanded upon or clarified. they specifically say "do not post YOUR weight" not any unit of measurement ever. My issue was calling people lazy when the only thing POTENTIALLY wrong with the post was a matter of opinion.

If an anorexic girl came and said her doctor said she needed to gain 15lbs would that be filtered? Her weight was not expressed, she gave no indication of her bmi or height so that it may be comparative. Everyone here is recovering, that's what this group is for and asking for help and supporting others is a huge help in the step to each persons recovery. I don't want to post anything triggering but when I see someone with similar issues it's immensely helpful to give them good advise and I doubt I'm the only one here that gets strength from supporting others.