I love my man and he means well, but he totally sabotages me. I want to be strong and lead a good example but he'll buy things I can't eat and leave them lying around where I see them. Or he eats all of the low calorie snacks I buy! Carrots are always safe though...lol. Sometimes when I'm stressed he even buys me cake. We're broke and he's just trying to show me affection cheaply but I wish he'd just make me a card or something. Does anyone else have a sabotaging spouse? Any suggestions to help me stop him from undermining my success? Or ways to make me stronger so I can avoid his temptation? thank you in advance!!!!