Usually my good kissers were good at "other things".

And my kisses go from soft to hard to nibbling to biting to sucking to nibbling again to soft :bigsmile: .. so I like to think the guy I'm kissing can get a feel of what it'd be like if we ever got to that point.

aww man, now I want to kiss!! :smooched:

you have a great understanding of a passionate kiss La_Amazona!

I'm latina, what can I say?

Just kidding to all my girls on here.. I'm sure ya'lls kisses are just as passionate. :smooched:

Speaking of kinky...

I think a good way to gauge someone's passion (or kinkyness) is by the way they kiss.

I try to let a guy now how passionate I am by the way I kiss them. I want them to get a preview of what it'd be like so I give subtle (and not so subtle hints) through my kissing.:blushing:

I agree the kiss is key. Now, I really know things will work out okay when the woman initiates as often as I do. But I've known girls who kiss well, but were logs in bed.

I agree... if you cant kiss you probably aint gonna get very far with me... Lol.
Kissing is my fav thing to do so you gotta be real talented. )

I imagine it'd take several times before the REAL La_Amazona comes out. Rawr!

The first few times wouldn't be vanilla but I wouldn't tell my guy the 1st time we're making love to choke me. haha

I'm down lol, oh wait lol

There was always Vegas... :sad:

I'm pulling out the chickens and midgets day one.

LMAO

Let your freak flag fly. Chains, whips, chips and dip, its all good LMAO.

this lol

You know, you might be on to something there. If they dig it, you got some major fun coming. If they don't, you've got some great stories to tell your friends (including us on MFP Single Peeps). :drinker:

i think being honest from the get go is the way to go. not necessarily SHOWING them the first time, but through conversation being honest about what you like, don't like, except, want, etc.

some people are vanilla, and that's all they want. others might have only experienced vanilla but find they like it all after having someone show them how fun it can be.

others are just naturally drawn to kink more!

i believe in being honest before anything really gets going because the last thing i would want is someone to be uncomfortable, have there be a major difference in likes/ dislikes, or either person being totally dissatisfied!

and i agree with the kissing statements. i typically find that good kissers are good at other things. and bad kissers are not good. kissing needs to interesting too. and it's can't be too fast or too sloppy. hard, soft, slow, biting, nibbling, lips barely touching, licking,sucking....... everyone thinks they are a good kisser, but not everyone is!