Question for the divorced or anybody with an ex!

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  • RunningDirty
    RunningDirty Posts: 293
    fuctards

    I'm stealing fuctards.
  • Daisy_Cutter
    Daisy_Cutter Posts: 774
    fuctards

    I'm stealing fuctards.

    Love this!
  • Natx83
    Natx83 Posts: 1,298 Member
    fuctards

    I'm stealing fuctards.

    Love this!

    Haha. Usually with a k but I thought it was important it wasn't censored.

    Today's word brought to you by nat. Lol
  • sunnymel126
    sunnymel126 Posts: 359 Member
    I will NEVER date anyone again who drinks. Just can't do it.

    Never again will I date a man who drinks daily... or at least that doesn't turn into an absolute MONSTER when he does.
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    How the hell do all you awesome ladies end up with complete douche bags that are abusive physically along substance abuse when clearly there are awesome guys (me :p) out there... Seems pretty common, those fuctards ruin it for the genuine dudes haha.

    I have to admit that a lot of the responses along those lines surprised me too. Luckily, I guess I've never been attracted to that type to begin with?
  • MyTime1985
    MyTime1985 Posts: 456 Member
    I will not even entertain the idea of dating a guy with a kid/kids if he isn't involved in their life and it amazes me how many women overlook this and don't care.
  • morganhccstudent724
    morganhccstudent724 Posts: 1,261 Member
    I will never date a man who doesn't drink.
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    I will never date a man who doesn't drink.

    :bigsmile:
  • dbrightwell1270
    dbrightwell1270 Posts: 1,732 Member
    I will not even entertain the idea of dating a guy with a kid/kids if he isn't involved in their life and it amazes me how many women overlook this and don't care.

    Actually there are a lot of women who encourage this.
  • oddyogi
    oddyogi Posts: 1,816 Member
    I will never date a narcissist again.

    Oh and no one with kids. Turns out I'm not a kid person.
  • oddyogi
    oddyogi Posts: 1,816 Member
    How the hell do all you awesome ladies end up with complete douche bags that are abusive physically along substance abuse when clearly there are awesome guys (me :p) out there... Seems pretty common, those fuctards ruin it for the genuine dudes haha.

    I couldn't be with a girl who isn't open and forth coming about her feelings and who is cold hearted in terms of affection. But apart from that I'm pretty forgiving :)

    And when are you moving to the states, Mr. Nat?
  • Learning2LuvLindsay
    Learning2LuvLindsay Posts: 1,142 Member
    I will never date a man who doesn't drink.


    ^This! :laugh:
  • dbrightwell1270
    dbrightwell1270 Posts: 1,732 Member
    I will NEVER date anyone again who drinks. Just can't do it.

    I used to work as a bouncer and stay away from bars and clubs because my experience is that anyone you meet in a bar will make you appreciate just how well managed your life is. That being said, I rarely drink and women have said they were interested in me because I don't drink much and look stable. This is a big red flag because almost always these women were an emotional mess.
  • RunningDirty
    RunningDirty Posts: 293
    Everything in moderation. :wink:
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    Everything in moderation. :wink:

    except on the weekends right??
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    I will never date a man who doesn't drink.

    When I was doing online dating, a guy that had on his profile that he didn't drink, was a dealbreaker!
  • Daisy_Cutter
    Daisy_Cutter Posts: 774
    I will never date a man who doesn't drink.

    When I was doing online dating, a guy that had on his profile that he didn't drink, was a dealbreaker!

    Live 12 years with an abusive alcoholic and you'll re-think that!
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    I will never date a man who doesn't drink.

    When I was doing online dating, a guy that had on his profile that he didn't drink, was a dealbreaker!

    Live 12 years with an abusive alcoholic and you'll re-think that!

    Sure there are extremes.. one way or the other. I lived with an alcoholic father for 17 years so I get it. But I couldn't do the other extreme either. Just my preference.
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    I will never date a man who doesn't drink.

    When I was doing online dating, a guy that had on his profile that he didn't drink, was a dealbreaker!

    Live 12 years with an abusive alcoholic and you'll re-think that!

    Was it the booze or was he just an As$hole?? I have yet to see a beer abuse someone.
  • neverstray
    neverstray Posts: 3,845 Member
    I'm too open-minded to think that just because someone does something my ex does, that it's going to be the same thing.

    I went out on a date with this woman, and I told her that I was a musician, and she said that she doesn't date musicians, and that was pretty much it. I couldn't help but think how close-minded that is of her. Good riddance. I don't need negative close-minded people in my life.
  • DaughterOfTheMostHighKing
    DaughterOfTheMostHighKing Posts: 1,436 Member
    I'm too open-minded to think that just because someone does something my ex does, that it's going to be the same thing.

    I went out on a date with this woman, and I told her that I was a musician, and she said that she doesn't date musicians, and that was pretty much it. I couldn't help but think how close-minded that is of her. Good riddance. I don't need negative close-minded people in my life.

    I agree... each person handles their challenges differently. you need to evaluate each one. My husband didn't drink, smoke, do drugs.... but he also liked his toys. the bigger the better and the more expensive... :P and being the naive country girl I WAS, i let him do it. Thank God I didn't let him put my name on the credit cards!!! When he went to Heaven, i wasn't responsible to pay for them! :)

    when you have you first "meet", it's basically and interview. Young ones, I encourage you to look deeper than the surface! a cute *kitten* and handsome/beautiful face will begin to wrinkle and sag before the bills will be paid off! :P look for good character and morals and love will meet you there. :)
  • Daisy_Cutter
    Daisy_Cutter Posts: 774
    I will never date a man who doesn't drink.

    When I was doing online dating, a guy that had on his profile that he didn't drink, was a dealbreaker!

    Live 12 years with an abusive alcoholic and you'll re-think that!

    Was it the booze or was he just an As$hole?? I have yet to see a beer abuse someone.

    Just to make sure I was clear... I never said I wouldn't date anyone that drank. I said occasionally was fine... just not every day.

    As far as my ex - the booze made him unable to keep a job and support his family. I stepped up and became the breadwinner as I had the ability to do that. Because he was insecure... this made him a giant fuctard (see... using new words already) and incredibly abusive. I like to drink.. I'll drink every now and then... Just don't want to smell booze on my man's breath night after night after night. It gets OLD.
  • hcoburn37
    hcoburn37 Posts: 442 Member
    I'm going to try to avoid cheaters. Once a cheater, always a cheater.


    ^^^^^ Yea me to .... hoping there are guys out there that don't cheat ....
  • BigDaddyBRC
    BigDaddyBRC Posts: 2,395 Member
    Emotionally unstable women. ... I'll leave it at that.
  • Natx83
    Natx83 Posts: 1,298 Member
    How the hell do all you awesome ladies end up with complete douche bags that are abusive physically along substance abuse when clearly there are awesome guys (me :p) out there... Seems pretty common, those fuctards ruin it for the genuine dudes haha.

    I couldn't be with a girl who isn't open and forth coming about her feelings and who is cold hearted in terms of affection. But apart from that I'm pretty forgiving :)

    And when are you moving to the states, Mr. Nat?

    Pressures on now. August for like 10 days haha.
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