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every day I'm juggling lol
jenbit
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(and yes everyday I'm huslting should have played in your head)
LOL last night was tooo much fun. Got my sister to come ou,t my female best friend and one of my home boys... Army is back in town so he came out with a bunch of his army guys (much to my sisters delight) and then Mr. Nice guy came out and FWB too....
Lets see I danced with all of them, talked with all of them and got drinks from all of em.....FWB behaved himself and atleast kept all his sarcastic comments low enough so that I could only hear them...... It was funny cause when we left Mr. Nice guy was like who are you going home with... I told him MY SISTER .... of course since she and I were riding in the same car that was true.First however her, I and FWB all ended up at Dennys at 5 am ....... I didn't get to sleep til 7am and I was at work at 1030.. (dont worry all I'm doing to day is filing and playing on MFP) Tonight is round 2 with even more people but I dont know which guys are coming out yet... I know FWB is and maybe army oh and my sister new potential toy is supposed to be coming out which is good cause I like this one... He's cool to hang with and hes gonna fix my brakes for a 6 pack YAY.
LOL last night was tooo much fun. Got my sister to come ou,t my female best friend and one of my home boys... Army is back in town so he came out with a bunch of his army guys (much to my sisters delight) and then Mr. Nice guy came out and FWB too....
Lets see I danced with all of them, talked with all of them and got drinks from all of em.....FWB behaved himself and atleast kept all his sarcastic comments low enough so that I could only hear them...... It was funny cause when we left Mr. Nice guy was like who are you going home with... I told him MY SISTER .... of course since she and I were riding in the same car that was true.First however her, I and FWB all ended up at Dennys at 5 am ....... I didn't get to sleep til 7am and I was at work at 1030.. (dont worry all I'm doing to day is filing and playing on MFP) Tonight is round 2 with even more people but I dont know which guys are coming out yet... I know FWB is and maybe army oh and my sister new potential toy is supposed to be coming out which is good cause I like this one... He's cool to hang with and hes gonna fix my brakes for a 6 pack YAY.
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(and yes everyday I'm huslting should have played in your head)
LOL last night was tooo much fun. Got my sister to come ou,t my female best friend and one of my home boys... Army is back in town so he came out with a bunch of his army guys (much to my sisters delight) and then Mr. Nice guy came out and FWB too....
Lets see I danced with all of them, talked with all of them and got drinks from all of em.....FWB behaved himself and atleast kept all his sarcastic comments low enough so that I could only hear them...... It was funny cause when we left Mr. Nice guy was like who are you going home with... I told him MY SISTER .... of course since she and I were riding in the same car that was true.First however her, I and FWB all ended up at Dennys at 5 am ....... I didn't get to sleep til 7am and I was at work at 1030.. (dont worry all I'm doing to day is filing and playing on MFP) Tonight is round 2 with even more people but I dont know which guys are coming out yet... I know FWB is and maybe army oh and my sister new potential toy is supposed to be coming out which is good cause I like this one... He's cool to hang with and hes gonna fix my brakes for a 6 pack YAY.
I think you should have gone with the topic "It's raining Men."0 -
(and yes everyday I'm huslting should have played in your head)
LOL last night was tooo much fun. Got my sister to come ou,t my female best friend and one of my home boys... Army is back in town so he came out with a bunch of his army guys (much to my sisters delight) and then Mr. Nice guy came out and FWB too....
Lets see I danced with all of them, talked with all of them and got drinks from all of em.....FWB behaved himself and atleast kept all his sarcastic comments low enough so that I could only hear them...... It was funny cause when we left Mr. Nice guy was like who are you going home with... I told him MY SISTER .... of course since she and I were riding in the same car that was true.First however her, I and FWB all ended up at Dennys at 5 am ....... I didn't get to sleep til 7am and I was at work at 1030.. (dont worry all I'm doing to day is filing and playing on MFP) Tonight is round 2 with even more people but I dont know which guys are coming out yet... I know FWB is and maybe army oh and my sister new potential toy is supposed to be coming out which is good cause I like this one... He's cool to hang with and hes gonna fix my brakes for a 6 pack YAY.
I think you should have gone with the topic "It's raining Men."
LOL I thought about that one too :bigsmile:0 -
Lol! Professional juggler! Sounds like lots of fun and you're handling it. Have even more fun tonight!0
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Reading this makes me tired!!
Haha, and I thought I had a good night finishing up season 4 of True Blood and having some pretty amazing sex.
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Reading this makes me tired!!
Haha, and I thought I had a good night finishing up season 4 of True Blood and having some pretty amazing sex.
I oh totally got laid lol.... I dont think FWB was gonna let me out of his sight last night... Though he wasnt very thrilled when my alarm clock went off.0 -
As previously stated, I want to be you when I grow up!
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FWB may not admit it for fear of losing the situation that exists but he has feelings for you.0
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FWB may not admit it for fear of losing the situation that exists but he has feelings for you.
Oh I've figured as much and so has everyone else lol... But I tried to bring it up once and as we all know he totally shot it down. So if he wants something more he needs to bring it up. If not he is going to be a space filler until I start dating someone. Sad part is I like the guy but I dont do well with high school antics0 -
FWB may not admit it for fear of losing the situation that exists but he has feelings for you.
Oh I've figured as much and so has everyone else lol... But I tried to bring it up once and as we all know he totally shot it down. So if he wants something more he needs to bring it up. If not he is going to be a space filler until I start dating someone. Sad part is I like the guy but I dont do well with high school antics
Do you like him well enough to be in a relationship?
If so then let him know because right now all he sees is that he will move from being in a relationship with you to having to compete with others with no idea where he stands.
Put yourself in his shoes and see what it looks like given the totality of the circumstances.
As an aside and please don`t get mad,but if you know this regarding his feelings ask yourself if you are really being decent to him or would like to be treated the same way by a guy you were interested in.
Sorry to rain on the parade a bit here. :flowerforyou:0 -
is fix my brakes for a six pack code for something? doesnt the FWB fix brakes?0
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FWB may not admit it for fear of losing the situation that exists but he has feelings for you.
Oh I've figured as much and so has everyone else lol... But I tried to bring it up once and as we all know he totally shot it down. So if he wants something more he needs to bring it up. If not he is going to be a space filler until I start dating someone. Sad part is I like the guy but I dont do well with high school antics
Do you like him well enough to be in a relationship?
If so then let him know because right now all he sees is that he will move from being in a relationship with you to having to compete with others with no idea where he stands.
Put yourself in his shoes and see what it looks like given the totality of the circumstances.
As an aside and please don`t get mad,but if you know this regarding his feelings ask yourself if you are really being decent to him or would like to be treated the same way by a guy you were interested in.
Sorry to rain on the parade a bit here. :flowerforyou:
No problem Carl you know I
U... If you scroll back a couple of weeks I did attempt to have a conversation with him about going out exclusively or even dating and he basically jumped behind his walls and claimed I was overanalizing things.... And yes I have stated I would date him I do like him enough to try a relationship but I dont see him coming out from behind that wall enough to even admit he likes me lol.....He shot me down and I know this was probably a knee jerk reaction but I'm not going to spend my time battering my head against that wall of his....... So right now I'm just enjoying my time with him....
And as a side note I'm always very appropriate when I have multiple guys out. I dont kiss any of them or do anything that would in anyway seem like a disrespect to a guys ego. I dance, I flirt and I talk thats pretty much it.......:bigsmile:0 -
is fix my brakes for a six pack code for something? doesnt the FWB fix brakes?
LOL no I need to get the brakes in my car fixed and this guy is an airplane mechanic.... Besides this one is for my sister.... LOL FWB would handle the wiring if I needed it done.. Everybody has thier talents0 -
FWB may not admit it for fear of losing the situation that exists but he has feelings for you.
Oh I've figured as much and so has everyone else lol... But I tried to bring it up once and as we all know he totally shot it down. So if he wants something more he needs to bring it up. If not he is going to be a space filler until I start dating someone. Sad part is I like the guy but I dont do well with high school antics
He won't say anything until she starts going home with another guy... right now he just has to sit back at the bar and he knows she's going home with him. As soon as he loses that, suddenly it will be a lot of blah blah blah, I was scared, and I have feeling for you and so forth.
Jenbit, if you want to land him, go home with a different dude (even if you do nothing) and leave him sitting there, I would bet money it will change his tune!0 -
FWB may not admit it for fear of losing the situation that exists but he has feelings for you.
Oh I've figured as much and so has everyone else lol... But I tried to bring it up once and as we all know he totally shot it down. So if he wants something more he needs to bring it up. If not he is going to be a space filler until I start dating someone. Sad part is I like the guy but I dont do well with high school antics
He won't say anything until she starts going home with another guy... right now he just has to sit back at the bar and he knows she's going home with him. As soon as he loses that, suddenly it will be a lot of blah blah blah, I was scared, and I have feeling for you and so forth.
Jenbit, if you want to land him, go home with a different dude (even if you do nothing) and leave him sitting there, I would bet money it will change his tune!
You know your not the first one to suggest this lol.... both my sister and 2 of my guy friends have said the same thing....0 -
FWB may not admit it for fear of losing the situation that exists but he has feelings for you.
Oh I've figured as much and so has everyone else lol... But I tried to bring it up once and as we all know he totally shot it down. So if he wants something more he needs to bring it up. If not he is going to be a space filler until I start dating someone. Sad part is I like the guy but I dont do well with high school antics
He won't say anything until she starts going home with another guy... right now he just has to sit back at the bar and he knows she's going home with him. As soon as he loses that, suddenly it will be a lot of blah blah blah, I was scared, and I have feeling for you and so forth.
Jenbit, if you want to land him, go home with a different dude (even if you do nothing) and leave him sitting there, I would bet money it will change his tune!
You know your not the first one to suggest this lol.... both my sister and 2 of my guy friends have said the same thing....
Your giving him a huge ego boost right now... You bring competition around and he wins every night without doing anything... Take away his easy victory and he will start competing.0 -
FWB may not admit it for fear of losing the situation that exists but he has feelings for you.
Oh I've figured as much and so has everyone else lol... But I tried to bring it up once and as we all know he totally shot it down. So if he wants something more he needs to bring it up. If not he is going to be a space filler until I start dating someone. Sad part is I like the guy but I dont do well with high school antics
He won't say anything until she starts going home with another guy... right now he just has to sit back at the bar and he knows she's going home with him. As soon as he loses that, suddenly it will be a lot of blah blah blah, I was scared, and I have feeling for you and so forth.
Jenbit, if you want to land him, go home with a different dude (even if you do nothing) and leave him sitting there, I would bet money it will change his tune!
You know your not the first one to suggest this lol.... both my sister and 2 of my guy friends have said the same thing....
Your giving him a huge ego boost right now... You bring competition around and he wins every night without doing anything... Take away his easy victory and he will start competing.
Are you guys really these easy lol....... Can't I not bring him home with me for a few day lol.. I really wouldn't want to use one of these other guys it just seems mean...He did ask army straight out if he wanted to date me lol? Not quite sure why...0 -
FWB may not admit it for fear of losing the situation that exists but he has feelings for you.
Oh I've figured as much and so has everyone else lol... But I tried to bring it up once and as we all know he totally shot it down. So if he wants something more he needs to bring it up. If not he is going to be a space filler until I start dating someone. Sad part is I like the guy but I dont do well with high school antics
He won't say anything until she starts going home with another guy... right now he just has to sit back at the bar and he knows she's going home with him. As soon as he loses that, suddenly it will be a lot of blah blah blah, I was scared, and I have feeling for you and so forth.
Jenbit, if you want to land him, go home with a different dude (even if you do nothing) and leave him sitting there, I would bet money it will change his tune!
You know your not the first one to suggest this lol.... both my sister and 2 of my guy friends have said the same thing....
Your giving him a huge ego boost right now... You bring competition around and he wins every night without doing anything... Take away his easy victory and he will start competing.
Are you guys really these easy lol....... Can't I not bring him home with me for a few day lol.. I really wouldn't want to use one of these other guys it just seems mean...He did ask army straight out if he wanted to date me lol? Not quite sure why...
Haha, I think I gave you to much insight into the male mind. Nope, he still wins if you just take a break and go back to him... the competition is key! You don't have to sleep with the other guy, leave early and go to another bar with one of them or something... just as long as he thinks he just got demoted. Cruel-yes, risky-maybe... But it's for his own good right??0 -
FWB may not admit it for fear of losing the situation that exists but he has feelings for you.
Oh I've figured as much and so has everyone else lol... But I tried to bring it up once and as we all know he totally shot it down. So if he wants something more he needs to bring it up. If not he is going to be a space filler until I start dating someone. Sad part is I like the guy but I dont do well with high school antics
He won't say anything until she starts going home with another guy... right now he just has to sit back at the bar and he knows she's going home with him. As soon as he loses that, suddenly it will be a lot of blah blah blah, I was scared, and I have feeling for you and so forth.
Jenbit, if you want to land him, go home with a different dude (even if you do nothing) and leave him sitting there, I would bet money it will change his tune!
You know your not the first one to suggest this lol.... both my sister and 2 of my guy friends have said the same thing....
Your giving him a huge ego boost right now... You bring competition around and he wins every night without doing anything... Take away his easy victory and he will start competing.
Are you guys really these easy lol....... Can't I not bring him home with me for a few day lol.. I really wouldn't want to use one of these other guys it just seems mean...He did ask army straight out if he wanted to date me lol? Not quite sure why...
Haha, I think I gave you to much insight into the male mind. Nope, he still wins if you just take a break and go back to him... the competition is key! You don't have to sleep with the other guy, leave early and go to another bar with one of them or something... just as long as he thinks he just got demoted. Cruel-yes, risky-maybe... But it's for his own good right??
lol he is so fricken jealous to begin with. Even though as a FWB he really doesn't have the right he is very possesive. The problem is like you said he doesn really view these guys as threats to his position. Any time I meantion the fact that when I start dating I will not be sleeping with him anymore he just gets really quiet.0 -
FWB may not admit it for fear of losing the situation that exists but he has feelings for you.
Oh I've figured as much and so has everyone else lol... But I tried to bring it up once and as we all know he totally shot it down. So if he wants something more he needs to bring it up. If not he is going to be a space filler until I start dating someone. Sad part is I like the guy but I dont do well with high school antics
He won't say anything until she starts going home with another guy... right now he just has to sit back at the bar and he knows she's going home with him. As soon as he loses that, suddenly it will be a lot of blah blah blah, I was scared, and I have feeling for you and so forth.
Jenbit, if you want to land him, go home with a different dude (even if you do nothing) and leave him sitting there, I would bet money it will change his tune!
You know your not the first one to suggest this lol.... both my sister and 2 of my guy friends have said the same thing....
Your giving him a huge ego boost right now... You bring competition around and he wins every night without doing anything... Take away his easy victory and he will start competing.
Are you guys really these easy lol....... Can't I not bring him home with me for a few day lol.. I really wouldn't want to use one of these other guys it just seems mean...He did ask army straight out if he wanted to date me lol? Not quite sure why...
Haha, I think I gave you to much insight into the male mind. Nope, he still wins if you just take a break and go back to him... the competition is key! You don't have to sleep with the other guy, leave early and go to another bar with one of them or something... just as long as he thinks he just got demoted. Cruel-yes, risky-maybe... But it's for his own good right??
lol he is so fricken jealous to begin with. Even though as a FWB he really doesn't have the right he is very possesive. The problem is like you said he doesn really view these guys as threats to his position. Any time I meantion the fact that when I start dating I will not be sleeping with him anymore he just gets really quiet.
after hearing he is jealous to begin with, I will bet a lot more money he will compete if you make him... try it, it can't hurt!0 -
after hearing he is jealous to begin with, I will bet a lot more money he will compete if you make him... try it, it can't hurt!
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He always tells me I'm to nice to other guys and I dont know how to get rid of them......... I will give it a try when the next oppertunity presents itself lol maybe0 -
Am sorry jen,I just don`t see how this works out to anything other then drama,heartache and angst.
If you are looking for nothing but a good time and have no interest in finding a serious relationship then have at it but if not how are other guys supposed to react to the FWB?
Dude..."We have been out a few times and I really like you,want to come over to my place tonight and maybe see how it goes?":blushing:
Jen..."I am not ready for that and besides am spending the night with my FWB"
Dude..."What the fvck?" :noway:
As for the FWB...he is not that,you have feelings for him,he does for you and you are in an intimate relationship now so it is time you both owned up to that or ended it.0 -
Wtf is the point od all this lol. Apart for fun, but it's def not going to end up being harmless. I'm with Carl on this one.0
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Maybe she just likes all the attention. No offense!0
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