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Thanks for your response. I forgot to mention in my OP that we had known each other a little over 1 year prior to dating. We used to hang out with a group of our mutual friends.

Thanks. That really confirms my 'initial' yet 'tiny' suspicion. I will make sure to avoid all contact. Seriously, I hope he won't come knocking at my door again this time.

Hey, thanks for being a straight shooter. I totally understand where you're coming from. It does sound like I am selfish, aren't I? I blocked him from all contacts and during this time he's already seeing other girls. I just don't understand why he's coming back while seeing other girls. It just does not seem fair to the…

Thanks. I will take this strategy. I am a coward. Based on the consensus, I need to harden my heart and break it off.

Thanks. That's what I figure too.

Nice words of wisdom. Thanks. But he's 'seeing' some girls, but hanging on to me at the same time. I don't understand this. I feel like I am the one being dragged along for the emotional ride.

You are right. I just hate to see him get hurt because of me. I am too soft-hearted and spineless.

Hey thanks. No, I did not break up with him because he did not say I love you. It's because I think in the long term, I don't think he'd be the right one. He's a bit immature in his way and has no sense of managing money. I think for a lover or a partner, he's fine. But to be in a couple for long term, he is not the right…