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  • "One more time" -Daft Punk
  • Thanks, Jt! I think ultimately it all kind of comes down to genetics, doesn't it? like my grandmother gained weight up top, so does my mom, and so do my sister and I. My mother has arms like mine although I don't think my grandmother did. I'm gonna keep working REEEEEEALLY hard to get rid of them without having to cut them…
  • I ask myself one and only question when contemplating adding a song to my workout playlist: Have I danced drunkenly and unstoppingly at a club or house party after a pack and a half of cigarettes to this song? The answer has to be yes, because if I can jump around like an asshat after doing all that damage to my body in a…
  • I really want to start lifting but have absolutely NO IDEA where to start. (obvs step one is get myself a gym membership)
  • Erin, I'm going to tell you what I'd tell me at 21 if I could... I don't care where you are in terms of a number on a scale right now. I don't care how long you've been carrying your weight. I don't care how long it might take you. This is what's going to have to click for you... you ready? Take it one step at a time.…
  • Alatariel, you're right. I've never been really very good at accepting complements because I either felt unworthy or as though people were doing it out of pity, or that they were secretly making fun of me a la Regina George. The fact of the matter is, you're right, we all need to accept and acknowledge our unique strengths…
  • I appreciate all the encouragement and support! I really need it and can't wait for the opportunity to support others on this journey. VeryKatie, I completely understand where you're coming from! When I wrote the original post, I was referring to a few people in my life (best friend, sister and mom) and actually brought it…
  • Hahaha, i see how that picture might have seemed like a prayer circle, but no. That was at a party this past weekend. I don't know what we were doing, but whatever. Yeah, I'm noticing that what you said is true. Sometimes some people do feel better when they see others struggling. I just never thought it would come from…
  • I get looked at in the eye more often, I get catcalled really often whereas I NEVER got catcalled at 300 (not that it's a source of pride but it is a difference), I get complimented a lot more in general. guys are still asshats though... but I'm pretty confident they're asshats to even the most beautiful of thin women. the…
  • That is SUCH a perfect description, whipping child. Yeah, it's such a turn off that I feel so little motivation to continue putting effort into those friendships. (you know the ones, the "hot girls" with the fat friend.) the less fat I get, it seems the less news I get about her life, the less communication and the more…
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