fadigdig Member

Yeah we can :) If I came across too harsh, I apologize. Thanks for being understanding. :)

I think that someone can be a caring, smart, and level headed person and still sometimes come to a place where the things they do are more negative. In the first part of this thread she sounded like she was coming from a controlling and invasive place. However, she has been thoughtful and obviously cares for her family. I…

I missed this, and now feel like my comment was a little late. That's a much more respectful attitude. My bad. :)

It sounds like you're being controlling, passive aggressive, and invasive. And thinking that because you've had a caretaker role in their life it's okay to do those things. If you really want to help them, I would say give them the space to learn to care for themselves. They might need that more.